18. Casual Intimacy for singles with Lesya Myata Sex & Soul

We did it again.

Another delicious & real episode about how to navigate dating and casual erotic play as a single person.

Lesya and I vulnerably share about our dating experiences being single.

We talk about our high standards, crystal clear boundaries and communication, the need for safety and emotional connection that are the foundation for any satisfying relationship.

Also listen to this episode if you are in a relationship, because the intimacy tips we mention will serve you too to explore neo-tantric lovemaking.

Lesya's links:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lesya_myata/

Website: https://lesyamyata.com/

Deeper Intimacy, neo-tantric workshop for couples: https://buytickets.at/sublimelifecoaching/1073912

Connect with Leen:

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Chapters



(00:00) Intro

(00:30) Lesya's lessons from her marriage

(06:30) The need to be alone for a while

(10:50) What really knowing yourself means

(14:41) High standards & not "needing" anymore

(18:20) The "I am no longer being available for this" list

(25:10) Casual Intimacy

(34:20) Curating your experience, clear boundaries beforehand

(39:30) How to create safety in (casual) sex

(40:30) When penetration is off the table

(45:30) 1 epic lover quality that is crucial

(50:05) Energy sex

(52:30) Communicating the yes/maybe/no

(57:30) How to create a sacred structure

(59:55) How to find Lesya