68: Healing the Wounded Masculine and Feminine and Becoming Whole Feel Pray Love

Feel Pray Love - Episode 68 - Healing the Wounded Masculine and Feminine and Becoming Whole

In today’s episode, our host Nikki talks about the way in which we attract our partners. She talks about wholeness and healing our wounded inner masculine and feminine to attract what we want in a partnership.

Wholeness
-Masculine energy is the energy of consciousness, Female energy is the energy of love and life
-“Wholeness is the full embodied integration of the duality that lives within us” - Nikki
-Duality is the understanding that both the masculine and feminine are within us
-Then we learn to heal the their imbalanced nature
-Wholeness is finding the ratio for masculine and feminine that works best for you

Hyper (Wounded) Masculine and Feminine
-The manifestation of the hyper-masculine (wounded masculine) looks like a denial to slow down and listen to the body
-Historically, women relied on receiving from the masculine, which is a manifestation of the wounded feminine
-Then with the women’s movement in the West, women started to take place in work, and own their boundaries
-Women started to set goals, bring their visions into reality, etc
-“Women don't know how to just be, they don't know how to fully relax” - Nikki
-For men, they stopped feeling safe enough to cry

Partnership
-“If I am not whole, I will attract a person that is the reciprocal of me, because when we come together, we become whole” - Nikki
-When you attract someone who is whole, they have the masculine and the feminine within them balanced
-When someone is whole, they are going to attract a whole person
-“We will attract what we are not embodying so we can feel full” - Nikki
-This is why for so many people, losing a partner can feel like death
-Losing a person in relationship can feel like you're losing a part of yourself
-The questions are, “how do we attract that which we want in a partner?” and “how do we attract that which we want in our partner”
-Do not tell anyone how to be
-“We attract that which we want by how we show up” - Nikki
-“When you get emotional, how do you stay grounded in those times? -How does your inner masculine show up for your inner feminine, in order for you to feel safe within your own body?” - Nikki


Final Thoughts
-Nikki announces her opening up of 1 on 1 sessions
-She only has space for 3
-If you are interested, email her at hellonikkisunshine@gmail.com with the subject line: 1 on 1 work inquiry

Links
Her Reclamation Course: www.nikkisunshine.info/store
Website: www.nikkisunshine.info
Instagram: @heartwombhealing
Email: hellonikkisunshine@gmail.com