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Girlfriends Guide to Awareness-Misunderstandings! Naked Onion Mystery Tours a podcast for women about women created by women
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Hello Hello Hello! Welcome to the NOMT podcast! I am your delusional host Edith Ivhay Rosenblat!
I am so excited to be here Today! Tonights episode misunderstandings is actually how I believe I spent the first part of my life! Here is what I learned about my misunderstanding people-Its a choice- I know! I thought people actively new when they were "Creating drama" in their arena of life. I believed my triggers were the responsibility of the person triggering me.
Welp I am here to say in the 3 seasons of this podcast and all the lovely people who have been on it they all have Taught me I have more control than I believe I do when it comes To me. In fact when someone is talking to me. I make sure I say my mantra to myself.
You do not owe me and I do not owe you! This means if they say something and it doesn't vibe with me or who I am as a person then I walk away. I do not attach my meaning to their words and do not give them a chance to misunderstand me. I have a choice on how I react to the words which are being said and how I feel about them.
As a child I didn't understand words like adults understand words. When my mother scolded me constantly for being a child and doing childish things I didn't react. As I grew older and started to undestand words and what they meant I still didn't undestand a lot of people attach their belief to word which are said and react accordingly. I am autistic and have adhd and think very logically most times. I would say things I thought o be benign were in fact triggering o some and ended friendships which were years long. I have been misunderstood my whole life however now I believe I am being understood by people. I use expressions like goddess instead of maam or good human instead of sir. I do this because they are positve words of expression. When I say them the person hearing them on the on the other end responds in a positive way instead of when I say Maam or Sir the response is "Don't call me sir, Don't call me Maam". Then the conversation is more likely to take a negative turn.
I would rather be mindful and learn to understand a person then misunderstand them. I want to know the person I am talking to in a positive light and in their space.
Like I said in the beginning when I started this podcast you do no owe me and I do not owe you.
This is Edith
THank you for listening to the Naked Onion Mystery tours Podcast
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nakedonionmysterytourspodcast/support
Hello Hello Hello! Welcome to the NOMT podcast! I am your delusional host Edith Ivhay Rosenblat!
I am so excited to be here Today! Tonights episode misunderstandings is actually how I believe I spent the first part of my life! Here is what I learned about my misunderstanding people-Its a choice- I know! I thought people actively new when they were "Creating drama" in their arena of life. I believed my triggers were the responsibility of the person triggering me.
Welp I am here to say in the 3 seasons of this podcast and all the lovely people who have been on it they all have Taught me I have more control than I believe I do when it comes To me. In fact when someone is talking to me. I make sure I say my mantra to myself.
You do not owe me and I do not owe you! This means if they say something and it doesn't vibe with me or who I am as a person then I walk away. I do not attach my meaning to their words and do not give them a chance to misunderstand me. I have a choice on how I react to the words which are being said and how I feel about them.
As a child I didn't understand words like adults understand words. When my mother scolded me constantly for being a child and doing childish things I didn't react. As I grew older and started to undestand words and what they meant I still didn't undestand a lot of people attach their belief to word which are said and react accordingly. I am autistic and have adhd and think very logically most times. I would say things I thought o be benign were in fact triggering o some and ended friendships which were years long. I have been misunderstood my whole life however now I believe I am being understood by people. I use expressions like goddess instead of maam or good human instead of sir. I do this because they are positve words of expression. When I say them the person hearing them on the on the other end responds in a positive way instead of when I say Maam or Sir the response is "Don't call me sir, Don't call me Maam". Then the conversation is more likely to take a negative turn.
I would rather be mindful and learn to understand a person then misunderstand them. I want to know the person I am talking to in a positive light and in their space.
Like I said in the beginning when I started this podcast you do no owe me and I do not owe you.
This is Edith
THank you for listening to the Naked Onion Mystery tours Podcast
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nakedonionmysterytourspodcast/support
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