Lez Talk in Bed Em n' Em

What would it be like living in the 90s, in a place where there is no power, etc.
How would our days go?
Would we go for it?
What would be our family's reactions?
Would we stay there or choose to go elsewhere?
Between us, who is more Ava and who is more Beatrice?

How we started
Internal homophobia
Representation and homophobia
What worked for us
expectations and figuring out how to be a couple
representation
shared values

How important is it for couples to sleep at the same time/have the same schedule?

We're about to celebrate our 18th anniversary and we're planning on how to make it special. In this episode, we share with you some of our plans and how searching for "the right way to celebrate" has made us feel and reflect on our choices.  
We also discuss about how spending so much money on our anniversary (and spending in general) makes us feel guilty. We also reflected back on how we used to celebrate our anniversaries in the past and how our lives have changed over the years. 
Going through this reflection was a humbling experience, and we feel really grateful to be where we are right now. 
We hope that you enjoy this episode, and perhaps find inspiration in our journey, both the wins and struggles. ^_^ 
Thanks again for joining us. Let's talk again next Thursday! ;) 
Sending you loads of love! 3
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Key Topics in the Conversation:

Planning for our 18th anniversary celebration
Thoughts about spending significant money on our anniversary celebration

So why are we doing this? Why do we talk in bed and why are we making this podcast?
In this episode, we try to reflect on our purpose for doing this podcast, our fears, and how we can mitigate those fears. We also discussed the things that we will not do or talk about in the podcast, plus a number of random stuff that came up ^_^
This episode also gives a glimpse at how we plan and discuss these kinds of things. 
Hope you enjoy this episode and hope you stay tune for the next ones. 3
Thank you for listening, and we send you our warmest hugs! 3 3 3
 
(This episode was recorded on June 10, 2023)
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Key Points/Topics in the Conversation:

What is our purpose for talking in bed and making this podcast
Authenticity
Representation
Our fears about doing this podcast

Be bashed
To give wrong "advice"
To be pressured to make content rather than just having authentic conversation


Codependency and 'toxic' parts of our relationship
Going through life's challenges together
Living in our own bubble
Things we could have done better
How do we mitigate our fears
Dealing with comments (if any :D )
Sandwich Method
Reputation 
Having different personalities in different contexts; some of them conflicting
Thoughts about cancel culture
How growing up thinking we are wrong contributed to our desire to excel
Responsibilities associated with making this podcast
What would be reasons for us to stop doing this podcast
What are no's in the podcast (things we will not do/talk about)