Moving Countries 101 Clare Kay

In this episode, Clare is joined by Jihyun from South Korea who is a high performer in the world of E-Commerce, and who now works as a mindset coach. She helps high-performing professionals to step things up even further while staying healthy and happy.  Jihyun moved from South Koria to  New Zealand then the UK.

Clare and Jihyun explore the differences between the cultures of South Korea and the UK. Jihyun explains how moving to New Zealand, then the UK improved her self-perception and confidence. A transformative experience that eventually led to her becoming interested in psychology and launching her mindset coaching business.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Language revolves around the culture. So, learning it helps you to fit in better on all levels.
South Korean culture is all about food, this is reflected in the language.
The language you use with older people is more formal which reflects how they are viewed in society.
South Korea is far more technologically advanced.
In South Korea there are still strong societal hierarchies. In the UK, it is much easier to be your true self.
Having a perfect appearance is important in South Korea.
South Korean dramas have started to challenge perceptions and societal norms.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Overall societal belief systems are the same in every country.’

‘I had a very hard time to love myself and to accept myself.’

‘People accept me as who I am.’

 

GUEST AND EPISODE RESOURCES

Korea Town UK - https://www.cordonbleu.edu/news/online-learning-student-article-sarah-geard/en

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.

In this episode, Clare is joined by Christine Mullaney who is a TEDx speaker and the host of the Connected Communication podcast. Christine shares her journey which took her from Ireland to China, Australia, The Outback, Poland, and now Spain. 

She explains what was behind each of these moves, how she adapted, and the role empathy and the language of the universe have played in helping her communicate and feel at home in all of these countries.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Use your regrets to learn lessons in life and stop yourself from missing more opportunities.
There are stages to culture shock. Understanding what they are and preparing for them will help you to settle in faster.
Culture shock happens when you move back to your home country as well as when you move abroad.
You need to learn to adapt, but you have to be careful not to over-adapt and lose yourself.
Empathy and authenticity matter, people across the world respond positively to those qualities.
Empathy enables you to communicate effectively, often, despite language barriers and significant cultural differences.
When you feel fear, acknowledge that you are feeling it, ask where it comes from, and decide what to do about it.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Spain is where my soul sings. ´

‘Opportunity costs. There is always. a cost to pursuing opportunities.’

‘Language isn´t  just words.’

 

GUEST AND EPISODE RESOURCES

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/connected-communication/id1678060305

Christine TedX - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pMJpC0HOdXs

https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinemullaney?originalSubdomain=es

The Alchemist - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Alchemist-Paulo-Coelho-ebook/dp/B00U6SFUSS

Culture Shock - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Culture-Shock-Living-Working-Abroad/dp/1606088106

Terrence Howard Hidden Frequency Rhythms - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZPN17LvF4BU

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German, and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship, or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.

In this episode, Clare is joined by Rebecca Page who is a pioneer, an entrepreneurial businesswoman and mum of three, who emigrated from New Zealand 22 years ago and has built and sold 6 businesses in 2 countries. She is in the process of setting up a coaching business to help others to do the same.

Rebecca Page is an award-winning, multi-8-figure entrepreneur who is on a mission to help people like you create wildly profitable businesses & lives. Get Rebecca's free Millionaire Mindset Journal - https://rebeccajpage.com/millionaire-mindset-journal/

During the episode, Rebecca shares her philosophy and talks about some of the additional challenges people face when setting up a business in a new country.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Getting a bank account as an immigrant is a huge challenge. You need a utility bill, which you can´t get until you rent somewhere, which you can´t do without a bank account. 
Having money available when you move to a new country really smooths the way.
Rebecca has built and sold 6 businesses following a setup and marketing process she has developed but believes having a positive outlook matters too.
Everybody has a talent for something or feels passionate about something. Using that as the basis for a business venture is a great way to be successful.
Touching the people's lives around you is just as important as changing the world because change starts by influencing one person at a time.

BEST MOMENTS

‘I brought a gift and flora shop for next to nothing… I turned it around and sold it. ´

‘You often see an opportunity on the flip side of disappointment.’

‘Everybody has their level of genius and place…what they´re really good at.’

‘You often see an opportunity on the flip side of disappointment.’

EPISODE RESOURCES

No BS books by Dan S. Kennedy - https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Dan-S.-Kennedy/author/B000AP7EBS

https://bradsugars.com/

 

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.

Today, Clare is with Rebecca Tsang Mang Kin who offers bespoke relocation and property management services. She shares her experience of relocating twice from Mauritius to the UK and talks about what she has learned while helping clients relocate to various locations.

Because Rebecca has been involved in so many moves this episode is packed with practical advice for those who are considering relocating or who have moved recently. Rebecca relocated while single and later again when she was married and had children, so she has insider knowledge of both relocation scenarios.

Originally from Mauritius, Rebecca came to the UK to study and then work. She returned to Mauritius for 9 years, and recently relocated again to the UK. Rebecca's relocation business serves individuals and businesses, tailoring relocation services to people's needs. She also helps overseas landlords to manage their properties in the UK. To see how Rebecca could support your relocation, please contact her onhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-tsang-mang-kin/

KEY TAKEAWAYS


For children, moving countries is an emotional rollercoaster.
The style of education can be different, and many kids need additional support to get used to that.
The official language is not always the one that is spoken day to day. You need to study and prepare for this.
Have a plan but be open-minded and ready to take advantage of a better opportunity.
Not everyone wants to sell up completely before relocating. Rebecca outlines how to handle being a landlord while living in a different country.
Relocation managers think about and handle the things that people who are moving don´t think about e.g. in some places to be able to rent somewhere you need a local bank account.
When moving country your credit rating is likely to be low which can have a big impact on what you can afford.
A relocation manager´s local knowledge will save you time, money, energy, and stress. For they know how long what looks like a short commute will actually take and cost. Information that will help you to rent a home in the right area.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Understand the emotional side of relocation. ´

‘Relocation sometimes is much more complicated than people might think.’

 

GUEST RESOURCES

http://www.athosukpropertyrelocation.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-tsang-mang-kin/

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.

In this episode, Clare is joined by Telma who is a teacher, podcaster, and blogger. She has lived in Portugal, Madeira, Guinea Bissau, Switzerland, and the UK. Telma is passionate about having a say and creating the space for others to speak and fully express themselves.

At times, Telma found it hard to fit in and experienced racism. She explains what that was like, how she coped and how it inspired her to create spaces where people can fully express who they are, find their inner peace and grow.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Each culture treats and educates children in hugely different ways. Switching between them is challenging.
Telma was attracted to the UK because it was somewhere that is very accepting of people from different cultures and backgrounds.
In many countries, a successful person is seen as someone who is a doctor, accountant, academic or something similar. Telma works to give people with other talents a voice.
Many people believe that if they follow the wrong path, that their life is ruined. In reality, it can be the start of a positive change.
Truly listening to struggling students enables you to connect with them in a way that makes it far more likely they will accept your help and guidance.
Find your inner peace, so you can lean on yourself when times are bad.
Listen to your instincts. Don´t just go along with things, do something about it.
The most successful entrepreneurs work to make the lives of others better. When you provide what people need, they naturally turn to you.

BEST MOMENTS

‘All nationalities, tourists and residents mingled together; it was beautiful. I love London for this. ´

‘If you want something so bad, you need to make sacrifices, you need to make things happen.’

‘You need to live your life to the fullest… you need to be happy first.’

 

GUEST RESOURCES

Telma´s podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@TelmasPodcast and https://www.youtube.com/@whatwouldyoulike2know

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.

In this episode, Clare is joined by Ruofei Shang who is from Guangzhou in China and is a third-year student studying social-cultural anthropology. She was educated in Jordan, in the Middle East, before moving to America to attend college. Something that turned Ruofei into an incredibly independent person, at a relatively early age.

Ruofei explains how being educated abroad inspired her to study anthropology and what it was like transitioning between 3 countries. She also talks about how being exposed to other cultures changes who you are and the impact it has on where you want to live. Including, how she deals with living in places where you sometimes need to be careful about which of your beliefs you share.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Being educated in a new culture, with other international students, broadens your horizons.
The way people use language tells you a lot about the culture.
It is still easy to live in a bubble which means that you are not exposed much to the local culture.
Consuming media from the country you are planning to move to helps you to understand the culture.
America does not have just one culture, its a big country and there are lots of differences between each area.
Mixing with people in similar circumstances really helps.
Living abroad fundamentally changes your worldview, which can make it difficult to move back to your home country.
Sharing your culture and lived experience is a good way of helping other people to better understand your home country.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Languages do tell you a lot about the culture and what people say and how they think. ´

‘You had expectations of yourself, as well as of the destination.’

‘Every country has it´s ugly parts.’

 

ABOUT THE HOST

Clare has moved countries many times throughout her life, from China to Taiwan, Nigeria, Zambia, and the USA. She has also travelled the world for various businesses and now wishes to impart her advice to others to save them time, money, and energy. 

Clare follows three principles central to her endeavours. First, she looks outward internationally, working with people overseas or of different nationalities. Second, she is obsessed with communication, having learned French, German and Mandarin Chinese. She also teaches English and works as an editor for others’ work. Clare is passionate about making a difference through her coaching in the world of personal development. 

CONTACT METHOD

www.kayproofreading.com 

www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay  

https://www.facebook.com/KayProofreading

Podcast Description

When you move for a new job, to live with someone after a long-distance relationship or to explore the benefits of a new lifestyle, moving countries occurs as an opportunity, but it still might be a bumpy ride. Moving Countries 101 presents a paradox of moving to a new destination, but it being all about the journey: the ongoing experience of having moved countries. 

Clare and her guests share the human stories of an ancient undertaking in modern times. Moving countries prompts change, and change provokes being unsettled emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. On all these fronts, moving countries promotes observation, opportunity, and discovery.