Valet Amandum Podcast Yudhistira Ghifari Adlani

Hello Worthy Lovers, today we’re going to talk about attraction in romantic relationships. If you're looking for insights into how to understand your own attraction toward others, then this episode is for you. We discuss a lot of things ranging from what we seek in a short term and a long term partner are different to value different things and pretentiousness in our preferences.

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Hello Worthy Lovers, in the last two episodes, we’ve talked about the importance of making better decisions and what are the obstacles towards it. Today, we’re going to talk about a very simple idea that has interesting implications in practice. This idea comes from a friend of mine in the middle of an honest conversation when I’m talking about my problems with her. In honor to celebrate her birthday, we discuss this very simple idea.

Happy Birthday Kak Mutiara Maharini! May you and your loved ones be showered by all kinds of blessings.

What are some of the challenges and obstacles toward cultivating decision-making skills in your romantic relationship?
In this episode, we're trying to answer that exact question.

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(01:09) Background for The Theme
(03:20) Challenges in Vulnerability
(05:02) Carl Roger’s Ideas
(09:21) Challenges in Understanding
(17:00) Incompatibility
(26:45) Hard Conversations
(32:50) Viewing Problems Differently
(37:12) Incompetent Judge
(42:30) “I don’t feel like it”
(46:00) I can’t change…
(49:00) Or I don’t want to?
(53:40) The Last Dance
(56:14) Entitlement and Arrogance
(62:12) Injecting Humility
(68:07) Closing Statements

When you've just had a rough experience in your romantic relationships, it's probably because you're lacking self-love, right? Right? If you're skeptical... then perhaps this series is for you.

Welcome to Valet Amandum Podcast.
With a new series called Love Letters.
Its tagline, Love is Not Enough.
Hosted by 2 people: a Roman and a Greek.

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Hello Worthy Lovers, welcome to the Valet Amandum Podcast. In this episode, I talked about my hypothesis that can help solve the problem of unequal access to mental health in Indonesia. There are different kinds of ideas—taboos, controversies, innovation—that are being discussed to tackle the hypothesis itself. Overall, it's a pleasant discussion and ends with a reminder about the long history of understanding the true and tragic knowledge of the human condition.

Hello Worthy Lovers, welcome back to Valet Amandum Podcast with your host Yega. In today's episode, we're going to have a conversation about Omnibus Law with my good friend Athar. It is in my deep interest to steel man that bill, and to give credit where credit due. Because I'm beginning to feel a little bit tired from hearing people's comments that only straw man the bill. John Stuart Mill talks about this in his book On Liberty, "He who knows only his own side of the case, knows little of that. His reasons may be good, and no one may have been able to refute them. But if he is equally unable to refute the reasons on the opposite side; if he does not so much as know what they are, he has no ground for preferring either opinion."

And so there are 3 things that we're gonna talk about. The teleology of this bill, the pros and cons, and the dynamics of the discussion that we have regarding this bill. Athar tells me to give you a disclaimer that at the time of this podcast, he just woke up from his nap. However, let me assure you that the ideas we're going to propose in this episode are far from boring or even gullible.

Perhaps, my only apologies to you guys are about the sound quality. Athar's headset is broken so sometimes you'll hear my sound echoing when I talk, and that's about it. Hope you enjoy this episode!