okayobi obiomachi

Have you ever heard the stereotype that Nigerian men are players? Maybe you have, likely, you haven’t. I sure had (and experienced it) and wanted to discuss it. So I pulled together some of Nigeria's finest (you can laugh), and we had a lil’ chat about why Nigerian men are the way they are…listen in! 



It’s slightly embarrassing to say but this conversation was a type of therapy for me, lol. Getting into these guys’ heads helped me understand them and how they relate to the world around them. Big thank you to Glory, Rukky, Feji & Sosa, for enlightening us all. I couldn't have done this episode without you guys.

I didn’t see this episode coming…but God did! Listen in on a spontaneous conversation with my friend Joy. I never met a 14-year-old with so many words of wisdom.



Songs referenced:


Praise by Elevation Worship
Egypt by Bethel Music & Cory Asbury
Firm Foundation by Maverick  City Music & Cody Carnes
More Like Jesus by One Voice Worship
Waymaker by Leeland (originally by Sinach)  



Scripture referenced:


Exodus 32 (entire chapter)
Philippians 2:12 Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling,
James 2:26 For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead
James 1:19 Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;
James 4:8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.
Exodus 20:3 “You shall have no other gods before me.
Book of Job  
Job 38:4 “Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation? Tell me, if you understand.”
Luke 12:7 Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
1 Corinthians 10:13  No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
Hebrews 13:8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

ep. 10: bonus episode: fasting observed.

I am aware that the Bible says to practice spiritual things in private, and make it between God and yourself (Matthew 6:6, 17-18) and if this appears to disobey that, please hear my heart. I made this episode to shine a light on a not-so-common spiritual practice in American Christianity. It’s something deeply woven into the spiritual life of Nigerians and other ethnic backgrounds. It’s something I’ve always found extremely challenging. My motive is simply awareness, self-reflection, and hopefully, someone will resonate with my experience and be encouraged. Furthermore, for me, documenting things always makes them more exciting and enjoyable. Lastly, I hope you find the episode interesting to listen to, and that you’re led to listen to more! ~ okayobi

s/o to the Hearing Jesus podcast with Rachael Groll for her insights when making this episode! Check out her podcast here:

https://open.spotify.com/show/3nTsOH7dAMrJ2qNadAwufo?si=32723633da5f4522

new year, new equipment, new year resolutions…or something like that! join me in a very chill first episode of the year. 



References: 

Garden City by John Mark Comer

Fight Hustle, End Hurry Podcast by John Mark Comer & Jefferson Bethke

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

To Hell with the Hustle by Jefferson Bethke

Last episode of the year!!! What better way to end 2023 than a reflection on my first episode of the year which was also one of the best memories of my life.

Join me as I interview my family on how life has been in light of the significant family trip back to Nigeria in the winter of 2022.