We Hear You!‪!‬ Yuhanna Muhammad

In this episode: 

We will first go into professional “hooks ups” and ask ourselves “Do we have an obligation to pull the next man/woman up” and if so.  How often and how do we decide who to pull up ?.

For tonight social topic, we will explore dating/relationships & marriage. Some of the things we will cover are

- Are we a fast casual dating generation ?

- Are we constantly looking for something better due to our endless number of choices ?

- Are dating apps killing dating ?

- Does dating while black change the expectations ?

- How do you know she/he is the one to marry ?

-Navigating giving your partner space

- Does the relationship really change with marriage

- Does traditional dating norms have a place in contemporary society ?

- is monogamy really for you?

- Let’s talk poly and how you are possibly doing it wrong



Episode Key: 

Hook ups, how often do we give them ?-59 seconds

15:28- do you have the time for dating ?

27:23  - Not Accepting people for who they are

31:31-Polyamory

42:32- Dynamics & Expectations dating in the LGBTQA community.

49:24  -Biphobia in dating, the stigma against black bi men.

51:36- Gender roles

59:46- It’s easier for women to explore sexuality in Dating than men.

01:01- honesty in Polyamory (Some people want to cheat in peace )

01:03- Marriage -Should marriage change how you treat the person? What changes during a marriage ? What kind of growth is expected ? How do expectations change?

01:10- Giving partner space and respecting each other’s peace.

01:12- Change Happens , how do you managed it?

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In this episode we briefly discuss the outcome of the 2020 election. Spend some time talking about  our black youth, the diversity amongst them and lightly touch on community impacts on social activities. We then dive head first into a educational discussion about sexuality, homophobia, and what that looks like coming from black men. We touch on "gay" jokes and how they dehumanize gay folx and how many of our behaviors whether conscious or unconscious are homophobic and have derogatory repercussions on our friends in the gay community. 

Podcast Minutes: 

27 seconds - Brief comments on election

3:45--our diverse black youth.

20:30- Sexuality

Join us as we speak on the Walter Wallace Jr. and go into policing in the black community. We will also speak on colorism and toxic masculinity. 



Walter Wallace -2:08. 



Colorism- 19:58



Toxicity Masculinity- 51:57