Wellish Sarah Ritondale

Do you feel like you want, so badly, to become a better version of yourself but nothing you do is enough? Whether you are in a constant state of self depreciation or you are a self improvement queen who always feels like they could be doing better leaving you in a constant state of coming up short, this episode is for you. With your mentality, you will never be good enough. I want to provide you with the mindset shift, and tools to make that shift. You'll find them in this weeks episode!

On this episode I wanted to talk about one of the most important realizations I have had when it comes to actually feeling like our whole, healed, fulfilled higher selves. I am sharing useable tips to begin closing your knowledge to skill gap and begin feeling like the person you so badly wish to be. If you find yourself constantly wishing and working to become your best self but always feel like you're falling short this episode is for you.

I wanted to answer the commonly asked question of why we can feel we don't stick with our self care routines. I talk about 3 areas that you could shift your thinking in to help you better incorporate self care into your life consistently and not feel like you are have an on again off again relationship with taking care of yourself.

On this week's episode I sat down with women’s personal growth coach, speaker and author of the book Lady and the Tribe, How to Create Empowering Friendship Circles, Brenda Ridgely. Brenda's mission is to help women find and build deep connections with other women and create a Tribe of support. She discusses her blueprint for reconnecting and becoming whole. She shares applicable tips and tactics to create friendships in our lives as adults, how to weed out the friendships that aren't meant for us, how to take control of our own friendships without just leaving them up to fate, and strengthening our ability to be selective in our friendships and not letting anyone flow in and out of our life. Brenda also shares a FREE copy of her book "The Lady and the Tribe: How to Create Empowering Friendship Circles". You can access that at https://www.brendaridgley.com/freebook

On this week's solo episode I am celebrating my 26th birthday by sharing 26 of my biggest life lessons. The 26 things I list here are what I regularly use to get me through my life, the advice I give to others on a consistent basis, and now what I found most impactful to share with you. Consider this 26 tips to get through your 20's and hopefully beyond. From practical tips like making some quick extra cash, beauty secrets, and advice for when you're drunk to personal development and feeling like your best self, if you are just trying to make it through your 20's in a way you will feel satisfied with this episode is for you.

On this weeks episode I wanted to bring a little science and research to why the h*ll we can't seem to reach happiness. Turns out we have been focusing on the wrong things. I used my Coursera course "The Science of Wellbeing" and the book "Think Fast and Slow" by Daniel Kahneman for the studies and research provided in this episode. I review the most common things we think will make us happy, but don't and the proof it doesn't work. I end the episode reviewing why they don't make us happy and the one thing we do have control over that can help us work towards happiness, so we can stop wasting energy on what doesn't. If you are tired of working hard to be happy and feeling you consistently lack results this episode is for you.