What Should Recovering Addicts Watch Out For? (10 Hidden Pitfalls) – 5.06S Coffee with The Couple Cure

Join us as we tackle what recovering addicts need to watch out for on the journey to sobriety. We’ll give practical tips for those in recovery such as avoiding triggers, the “why” behind choosing sobriety, as well as why YOUR PARTNER IS NOT YOUR ENEMY. Because we include a couple of solutions (including an easy way to see if you’re edging) this video can help you increase your self-awareness and decrease your dependency, and also support your wife’s healing.



Oh, and here is the link to the video we reference: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBrVb9T4Bxk)



Timestamps

0:00 Intro

0:53 1-Sobriety does not heal relationships if... (& re-sensitization)

4:11 2-Visual Sips / Solution: One second=look. Two seconds= …

5:10 Solution: One easy way to see if you might be edging

6:47 3-Doing this for someone else / then they "become the problem" to you

8:01 4-"But no one can get free of this!" / when the little blue pill didn't work

9:25 5-Groups where the leader isn't free / "I'm gonna stumble eventually"

11:17 6-Wanting her to celebrate right away / why she's still leery

13:10 7-Two SIGNS you might be on the slippery slope

15:11 8-My wife can't give me that level of... / how Jay answers that now

18:03 9-She should never be an ‘enemy’ to you / when she's treated as your equal

19:44 Solution: Feel she is your enemy? / she helps with a goal of yours

21:46 10-Impatience might be a sign that… / Solution: one of the first things you can do



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https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website

https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery



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