Your Corner Man Coach Bruce Babashan

If you coach long enough and at a high enough level eventually you will get outcoached. Sometimes, other coaches have better ideas than you did or prepared their team (business or fighter) better than you did for that particular event. It happens, its stinks, and it hurts! When it happens you have to respond and you need to take responsibility for your failure...but how you respond will have a huge impact on you, your ability to lead, and how your team (organization) moves forward...

We ALL have a conversation running in our head 24 hours a day 7 days a week. We are constantly talking to ourselves about our goals, our challenges, and our expectations yet most of us are not truly aware of what we are saying to ourselves or the power of this inner dialogue. When we take the time to finally listen to how we speak to ourselves we are often shocked to learn that this internal dialogue is far different than what we might expect. Often times we are constantly r...

Taking care of yourself, staying in decent shape, eating well, and showing yourself and your body respect has an impact on both your ability to sustain the energy needed for the long hour's leadership requires and the way your athletes and staff view you. It's a fact and taking the time to take care of yourself sends the right message to your troops.Secondly, you can't expect to be lead others if you can't lead yourself. You cant ask others to do what you will not. Your ath...

We all have doubts at one time or another. Doubts, like water, can find their way into even the smallest cracks. Suddenly the voice in your head begins to question yourself and the once small crack in your confidence threatens to blow wide open. In my gym we call this voice of doubt "the first voice" and we spend a great deal of time talking about how to ignore the first voice in your head and change that internal dialogue with "the second voice." In this week's ...

If you want to be a better coach/leader then it is vital you understand your own strengths and weaknesses and that you challenge your strongest and most deeply held beliefs sometimes. Having the confidence to look at and evaluate yourself as a coach can be hard. For many of us, we coach the way we were coached and we loved and revere the men and women who were our teachers. We try and emulate them and often our ideas and concepts go unchallenged. Recognizing our own shortcomings an...

What happens when they have done everything you asked, paid the price, and yet still come up short. If you coach long enough or at a high level this will happen many times in your career. Knowing how to handle your athletes (and employees) after a loss like this is an important part of the job. These moments, although painful offer some of the most powerful teaching moments and shouldn't be squandered. In today's short show I talk about a short four-step formula for h...