Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children

Laine Lawson Craft
Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children

Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children Laine Lawson Craft brings hard-earned wisdom to the world of warfare parenting. As a mother who experienced the near-dissolution of her marriage and the heart-wrenching struggles with prodigal children, Laine intimately understands the challenges many parents face with teens and adult children. Through her personal journey of marriage restoration and family healing, Laine discovered profound strength and purpose. Today, she is a beacon of hope for parents navigating their turbulent waters, especially those grappling with prodigal children. Her approach combines compassion with practical, faith-based strategies for families in crisis. Laine is a best-selling author, and her newest book, “The Parent's Battle Plan,” won the 2023 Nonfiction Book of the Year award. As an accomplished media host, she extends her message of hope and transformation to a broader audience, offering guidance to parents facing seemingly insurmountable odds with their teens and adult children. Drawing from her experiences in warfare parenting and spiritual insights, Laine equips parents with the tools they need to fight for their children's futures. She believes in the power of unwavering faith and strategic action to overcome even the most daunting family challenges, from troubled marriages to wayward children. What to Expect Raw Reality, Real Solutions: Dive deep into parental anguish with practical strategies for fighting back and reclaiming your family's peace. Spiritual Warfare Unveiled: Discover the battle for your child's soul and learn to wield the weapons of faith effectively. Wisdom from the Frontlines: Gain insights from experts and hear inspiring testimonies from parents who've overcome similar struggles. A Band of Warriors: Join a supportive community of parents fighting the good fight alongside you. Each series tackles the unique challenges facing today's young adults and adult children head-on. We'll navigate the treacherous waters of social media pressure, addictive behaviors, and a rapidly changing cultural landscape. Empower yourself to guide your child towards truth, freedom, and purpose in an increasingly complex world. The enemy doesn't fight fair, but neither do we. Join Laine Lawson Craft on the Warfare Parenting Podcast and unlock the spiritual arsenal you need to reclaim your child's destiny. It's time to turn the tide of battle—your family's future hangs in the balance.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    Tired of Feeling Like failure as a Mom? You're Not Alone

    https://youtu.be/AwLgIIjPwpw Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we have a heartfelt discussion with Jill Savage, author and speaker, as she unpacks the concept of the "perfection infection"—the unrealistic expectations we set for ourselves and others. Join our host, Laine Lawson Craft, as she navigates with Jill through personal stories of battling comparison and the journey to embracing authenticity and contentment. Learn how faith and acceptance can bring healing and discover the God tools that help us combat the pressures of perfection in our parenting, marriages, and beyond. Get ready for an open and honest conversation that will provide hope and practical applications for living a life free from the chains of comparison. Tune in and find encouragement for your journey today. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Jill at JillSavage.org Jill Savage is a motivational speaker and author who is dedicated to helping individuals overcome the "perfection infection," a term she coined to describe the detrimental cycle of unrealistic self-expectations and unfair social comparisons. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and combating these harmful patterns to reclaim personal joy and self-worth. Through her work, Jill encourages others to focus on authentic living and to stop comparing their insides with the outsides of others, leading to healthier and more fulfilling lives. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Warfare Parenting Podcast: Real struggles, hope, faith. 03:37 Perfectionism causes unrealistic expectations, comparison, unhappiness. 07:23 God tools help courageously combat perfectionism. 10:08 Embrace grace to combat perfection and criticism. 14:45 Restored marriages and families through faith's hope. 19:21 Embrace growth; becoming perfected like Jesus. 20:56 Contentment brings freedom and hope through imperfections. 24:32 Faith, hope, strategies for parenting wayward children. Key Topics and Points Introduction Host introduction by Lane Lawson Craft Overview of podcast theme: parenting prodigals and finding hope Guest Introduction Introduction of guest, Jill Savage Jill's credentials: author, speaker, and experience with parenting Mention of Jill's book "No More Perfect Moms" Inspiration Behind "No More Perfect Moms" Personal experiences and mistakes as inspiration The issue of comparing oneself to others Story of forgetting her daughter at school Perfection Infection Definition: unrealistic expectations and unfair comparisons Effects on personal contentment Impact on parenting and marriage Losing authenticity due to comparisons Overcoming Perfection Infection Use of "God tools" as antidotes Courage to be oneself and show real life Grace: giving oneself and others grace space Real-life Consequences and Examples Experiencing contentment and acceptance Examples of unrealistic expectations leading to disappointment Story of the viral social media post Acceptance and Relationship Growth Gift of acceptance in relationships Role of acceptance in promoting safety and growth Importance of prayer and spiritual reliance Internal Self-talk and Its Impact Negative self-talk influencing outward behavior Importance of dealing with personal issues Focusing on the One Perfect God Embracing being perfected by God Importance of keeping focus on God Address to the Audience Encouragement to let go of perfection infection Emphasizing the listeners are not alone in their struggles Conclusion Summary of the book's key messages Resources and ways to connect w

    28 min
  2. 22 NOV

    From Brokenness to Breakthrough: A Teen Mom's Journey to Ministry

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this episode, we hear Lisa Steven continue her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a leader and founder of Hope House Colorado. Lisa shares her personal experiences, the challenges she faced with stigma and judgment, and the heartwarming story of how a supportive community helped her find her path. Discover the transformative power of love, faith, and community as Lisa discusses how Hope House provides resources and education to teen moms in need, empowering them to build self-sufficient and fulfilling lives. With plans for national expansion, Lisa reveals her vision for Hope House and encourages everyone to listen to God’s calling, no matter how daunting it may seem. Tune in to hear about her book, "A Place to Belong," and how you, too, can be a part of this life-changing mission. Join us for an episode filled with hope, purpose, and the miraculous works of God in our lives today. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Lisa and Hope House Get the book here! Lisa Steven, a former teenage mom, understands firsthand the challenges and societal judgments young mothers face. Her personal journey through the stigma and shame commonly associated with teenage motherhood has fueled her passion for supporting others in similar situations. Motivated by her own experiences and encouraged by her mother-in-law, Lisa joined MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers), where she found community and support. Her story, shared candidly in her book, highlights the resilience and determination it takes to overcome the label of being a statistic, both for herself and her child. Through her work, Lisa aims to change the narrative, offering hope and empowerment to teenage mothers everywhere. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Teenage mom struggles: stigma, shame, judgment, statistics. 05:43 Tragic death highlights lack of support for teen moms. 09:01 Hope House Colorado empowers teenage moms through education. 13:10 Empowering teen moms towards self-sufficiency and stability. 15:26 Hope House Colorado: Expanding housing for teenage moms. 19:52 Hopeful parenting strategies and spiritual resources available. Key Topics Covered Introduction to the Podcast and Episode Warfare Parenting Podcast overview   Guest introduction: Lisa Steven   Recap of previous episode Lisa Steven's Personal Journey Teen mom experience   Struggles with stigma and judgment   Influence of MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group Founding of Hope House Colorado Inspirational backstory for Hope House   Early support from MOPS and leadership opportunities   Encounter with generational poverty Mission and Development of Hope House Shaping the mission based on teenage mom needs   The tragedy that influenced the mission   National context of support for teenage moms Current Vision of Hope House Overview of services and transformation goals   Educational, relational, and holistic support   Challenges and realities of working with teenage moms Expansion and Future Plans for Hope House National expansion plans   Details on affiliate model   COVID-19 impact and housing needs Lisa Steven's Book: "A Place to Belong" Overview of book content and messages   Personal journey and leadership story integration   Aim for readers: belief in modern-day miracles Call to Action and Resources Ways to find Hope House and contribute   Accessing the book on Amazon   Encouragement for others to follow their calling Closing Remarks Final thoughts and appreciation from Lisa

    23 min
  3. 15 NOV

    From Crisis to Calling: A Teen Mom's Story You Need to Hear

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're diving into an emotionally charged and incredible journey of resilience with our guest, Lisa Steven. Lisa opens up about her life-altering experience as a 17-year-old teen mom in 1986. Amidst historical events like the Space Shuttle Challenger disaster, Lisa navigated an unexpected pregnancy, ultimately choosing to keep her child and marry her boyfriend, John. With insight into her tumultuous upbringing and the profound impact of supportive in-laws, Lisa paints a vivid picture of the challenges and triumphs she faced. She also shares how these experiences inspired her to cofound Hope House Colorado, a beacon of support for teen moms, and discusses the importance of being there for young mothers who need a guiding hand. Join us as we delve into Lisa's journey of faith, perseverance, and the power of community in transforming struggles into a mission for change. Don't miss this inspiring and heartfelt episode that promises to touch your heart and offer hope for those in need. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Lisa and Hope House Get the book here! Lisa Steven reflects on her past, recalling her teenage years marked by a challenging and turbulent home environment. As the eldest of three siblings, she often witnessed her parents' relationship plagued by frequent and intense conflicts that sometimes turned violent. Despite the instability at home, Lisa found solace and support in her budding relationship with her boyfriend, who would later become her husband. Their bond, forged during those tumultuous times, provided a source of stability and resilience for Lisa as she navigated her formative years. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Oldest of 4; brother's death caused turmoil. 05:58 Telling his family about pregnancy was difficult. 07:18 Supportive talk about marriage, no abortion considered. 10:29 God has a soft spot for single moms. 14:12 Teen moms need support and connections for hope. Key Topics Covered Introduction Welcome and introduction to the Warfare Parenting Podcast by Lane Lawson Craft   Mention of the episode's theme: parenting prodigals and stories of hope   Guest Introduction: Lisa Steven Introduction of Lisa Steven as a special guest   Mention of Lisa's story bringing glory to God   Lisa's excitement to share her story and meet listeners   Lisa Steven's Personal Story Brief overview of Lisa's book and life in 1986 Overview of societal events in 1986   Lisa's pregnancy and decision to keep the baby and marry   Lisa's Teen Years Description of Lisa's unstable home environment Parents' fights and violence   Loss of Lisa's little brother, Christopher   Lisa's role in caring for siblings   Meeting John (Future Husband) How Lisa met John through cruising   John's background and more stable family environment   Introduction to John's family and their caring nature   Pregnancy and Marriage Telling John's parents and their supportive response Discussions on marriage and responsibility   Marriage proposal and subsequent wedding   Challenges of Young Marriage Difficulties of marriage at a young age   Comparison of teenage marriage challenges to general marriage difficulties   Reflection and Faith Impact of Lisa's mother-in-law's calm and supportive response   Lisa's reflection on childhood challenges and God's plan   Modern Family Structures Discussion on current crisis with family units and single parenting   Lisa's belief in God's support for teen and

    18 min
  4. 11 NOV

    When Your Child Rebels: A Mother's Story of Hope and Healing

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. Today, we are delving into the emotional and enlightening journey outlined in the book "Unconditional: How a Mother's Love Rescued Her Rebellious Son" by Suzanne Roragen. Joining us today is the author herself, Suzanne Roragen, who shares her personal experiences as a mother navigating the turbulent waters of raising a rebellious child. Through deep reflections and pivotal moments, Suzanne offers insights into how her faith and unwavering love guided her through the challenges she faced with her son, Nick. Discover how building a community of support, maintaining boundaries, and relying on faith can impact the journey of parenting. Whether you're a parent in the thick of similar struggles or someone looking for a story of hope and resilience, this episode is sure to resonate and inspire. Stay tuned as we explore Suzanne's narrative of strength, faith, and the power of a mother's love. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Suzanne on her website: suzannejroragen.com and make sure to buy her book on Amazon!! Suzanne Roragen is an emerging author who embarked on a deeply personal journey through her writings. Initially keeping her reflections as a private journal, Suzanne contemplated transforming it into a book, intending it for herself and her son. However, upon sharing the memoir with her husband, his emotional reaction and belief in its universal appeal led to a pivotal decision. Encouraged by his response and motivated by a sense of purpose, Suzanne embraced the idea of publishing her story to reach a broader audience, hoping that others might find inspiration and comfort in her experiences. With her husband's support and a belief that it was meant to be, Suzanne set out to share her journey with the world. Timestamped Overview 00:00 Publishing timely book about modern parenting struggles. 03:50 Subconscious trauma should address with therapy. 08:55 Therapists can't change hard-hearted rebellious teens. 12:37 Poor school experience led to decreased effort. 14:34 Create community and boundaries to guide behavior. 18:18 Pray and guide children spiritually and morally. 20:27 CEO's prayer softened his heart significantly. 24:35 Be vulnerable, prioritize values over acceptance. Overview of Topics Covered Introduction to the Podcast Welcome by Laine Lawson Craft   Overview of the podcast’s focus on parenting prodigals   Overview of Suzanne Roragen's Book Title: “Unconditional, How a Mother's Love Rescued Her Rebellious Son”   Suzanne’s intention for the book as a memoir and sharing her journey   Decision points on sharing the story as a book and publicly   The Impact of Trauma on Parenting Experience of a friend's son's suicide and its impact   Influence on parenting style and the heightened awareness of potential warning signs   Challenges Faced During Parenting Dealing with rebellious behavior during teenage years   Strategies to manage difficult situations and experiences   Specific challenging events with her son, Nick   Strategies and Approaches to Parenting Creating a community and setting boundaries   Engaging with other parents for mutual support   Maintaining close communication with Nick   The Role of Faith in Parenting Development of faith and reliance on prayer   Influence of faith on Suzanne's journey and parenting   The significance of community prayer and support   Reflecting on Past Choices and Offering Advice Suzanne’s reflections on what she might have done differently   Advice to other pare

    29 min
  5. 25 OCT

    Dealing with resentment towards wayward children

    https://youtu.be/3hgeZ9Rqxnw Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. Today, we continue our enlightening conversation with Nancy Landrum on the critical and transformative topic of "Potent Boundaries." As a seasoned author and experienced parent, Nancy shares her profound journey through personal tragedies and the invaluable lessons she learned along the way. In this episode, we'll delve into the differences between rules and boundaries, understand the roots of resentment, and explore the challenging landscape of parenting in today's tech-driven world. With heartfelt stories and actionable insights, Nancy guides us towards the path of self-discovery and healing in our families. Whether you're dealing with young children or estranged adult children, this episode promises hope and strategy for creating a home filled with peace and respect. Join us as we uncover how establishing boundaries can lead to healthier relationships and personal empowerment. Don't miss this opportunity to gain wisdom that could transform your parenting journey! HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Nancy CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | Threads/Twitter Nancy Landrum grew up in a family where maintaining appearances was paramount, a rule she followed diligently despite underlying unhappiness and conflict at home. This cultural norm was akin to a law in her household, much like wearing a seat belt in a car. However, Nancy eventually broke free from this constraint as she embarked on a journey of self-discovery. She courageously delved into the resentment and detrimental relationship habits that stemmed from her upbringing, choosing authenticity over façade. Through this transformative process, Nancy redefined her boundaries and reshaped her life, prioritizing genuine happiness and healthy relationships. Timestamps 00:00 Loss and purpose inspire her teachings on boundaries. 03:13 Chose counseling over faith; set protective boundaries. 09:16 Clear boundaries yield consequences; expect children's anger. 11:11 Set house rules for peace and consistency. 14:51 Reflecting on personal growth through challenging beliefs. 18:31 It's never too late to make changes. 20:41 Allow children freedom to learn independently. 24:06 Self-growth and sharing our journey is worthwhile. Warfare Parenting Podcast, parenting challenges, prodigal children, hope and faith, pungtent boundaries, Nancy Landrum, loss and tragedy, coping with loss, grief to purpose, setting boundaries, rules vs boundaries, resentment, parenting techniques, parenting techniques, teenage behavior, dysfunctional family, codependency, healing journey, self-worth, self-respect, counseling and support, social media boundaries, addiction recovery, overcoming addiction, redemption, family dynamics, parental authority, communication, personal growth, boundary consequences.

    29 min
  6. 18 OCT

    Overcoming codependency in Christian parenting

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're thrilled to continue our incredible series with Nancy Landrum, a remarkable guest who has been sharing her journey and the profound lessons she's learned along the way. Nancy has already opened up about her past experiences, including tragic losses and the challenges of parenting her son, Steven, which led her to write her insightful book, "Pungent Boundaries." In this episode, we'll be diving deep into the concept of codependency, exploring the invisible barriers it creates in relationships, and Nancy will offer guidance on how to identify and deconstruct these barriers. Through personal stories and wisdom, Nancy and I will explore the characteristics of codependency, the emotions it stirs, and the steps towards healthier boundaries. This is an episode rich with hope and practical advice, ensuring a path to healing and empowerment. Whether you're dealing with similar struggles or seeking inspiration, you won't want to miss it. Join us as we unravel these crucial themes and prepare for the final episode with Nancy that you won't want to miss! HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Nancy CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | Threads/Twitter Nancy Landrum is a relationship expert who has delved deeply into the dynamics of codependency, a complex pattern where interlocking beliefs between two people often lead to unhealthy relationships. With a keen understanding of these entwined behaviors, Nancy has dedicated her work to unraveling the destructive patterns that occur when one person assumes excessive responsibility, driven by the belief that love is demonstrated through caregiving and problem-solving for another. Conversely, the other person adopts a mindset of irresponsibility, assured that someone else will always handle the repercussions. Through her insightful exploration of these dynamics, Nancy aims to enlighten individuals about the importance of fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. Timestamps 00:00 Nancy discusses loss, lessons, and overcoming codependency. 04:04 Struggled with son's addiction and consequences. 07:34 Sorting responsibilities between myself and Steven. 11:45 Expressed sympathy and allowed self-reliance. 14:00 Barriers block genuine relationships; responsibility clarifies boundaries. 16:57 Set boundaries with consequences for healthy relationships. 20:28 Nothing is too hard for our God. Key Topics Covered Introduction to the Podcast Welcome to the Warfare Parenting Podcast   Host: Lane Lawson Craft   Series with guest Nancy Landrum Introduction to Nancy Landrum Nancy's personal story of loss and lessons from her son, Steven   Writing of the book "Pungent Boundaries" Main Topic: Codependency in Relationships Description of codependency and its characteristics   Explanation of the "Velcro" illustration Codependency Barriers and Emotions Types of negative feelings: resentment, blame, guilt, pity, shame   Impact of codependency on relationships   Nancy’s personal experience with her son Steven Boundaries and Responsibilities Differentiation between responsibilities of self and others   Nancy's decision to set a boundary with her son   Effectiveness of establishing healthy boundaries Identifying Symptoms of Codependency Checklist from "Pungent Boundaries" to identify barriers   Nancy's reflections on control and approval addiction Deconstructing Codependency Barriers Responsibility for one's own feelings   Steps to hand back respo

    21 min
  7. 11 OCT

    Breaking free from codependency as a Christian mother

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're delighted to have Nancy Landrum with us once again as we continue our insightful series on setting healthy boundaries and overcoming codependency. Nancy, author of "Pungent Boundaries," shares her personal experiences and expertise, explaining how codependency can lead to unhealthy Velcro-like relationships and detailing the path to liberation through setting boundaries. Together, we'll explore the transformational journey from resentment to freedom, offering hope and practical strategies for parents facing similar challenges. Stay with us as we uncover how making the right decisions for ourselves can positively impact everyone around us, and prepare to deconstruct the barriers of codependency in future episodes. Don't miss out on this powerful discussion that's set to inspire and guide you in reclaiming peace and strength in your parenting journey. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net Connect with Nancy CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | Threads/Twitter Nancy Landrum is an insightful individual who has explored the dynamics of unhealthy relationships, notably through the lens of codependency. She identifies codependency as a pattern of interlocking beliefs that create imbalanced dynamics, where one person assumes excessive responsibility for another's happiness and well-being. This can result in what she terms a "Velcro relationship," where both parties become stuck together due to their intertwined but unhealthy beliefs. Nancy's understanding highlights the need for balance and independence in relationships to ensure the well-being of all involved. TimeStamps 00:00 Codependency stems from shielding son from consequences. 04:37 Set boundaries; allow others to learn independently. 10:42 Authentically loving decisions benefit everyone's best interests. 12:54 Liberate both from resentment through boundary setting. 15:39 God handles everything; nothing's too difficult.     Warfare Parenting Podcast, Laine Lawson Craft, Parenting Prodigal, hope, faith, healing, pungent boundaries, codependency, Nancy Landrum, setting boundaries, responsibility, feelings, behavior, consequences, self-destructive behavior, blame, parenting struggles, rescuing, learning lessons, Velcro relationship, respect, functional adult, resentment, boundary setting, invisible barrier, deconstructing codependency, liberation, healthy decision, God’s economy, resources, spiritual strategy, prodigal home.

    17 min
  8. 6 OCT

    Overcoming Codependency in Christian Parenting

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this episode, host Laine Lawson Craft continues her enlightening conversation with Nancy Landrum, a seasoned author and expert on setting healthy boundaries in parenting, particularly for challenging situations. Nancy shares her profound journey of navigating immense personal loss and the valuable lessons she learned through her experiences with her late son, Steven. Together, Laine and Nancy delve into the intricacies of codependency, exploring how it interrelates with boundary-setting, and discuss why establishing clear consequences is crucial to fostering healthy relationships. Tune in to discover insightful strategies for reclaiming freedom and growth in your parenting journey, and learn how to transform codependent dynamics into empowering connections. Whether dealing with a rebellious teen or an adult child, this episode promises practical wisdom and encouragement for parents striving to cultivate healthier family dynamics. HELPFUL LINKS: FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site Https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | Threads/Twitter Nancy Landrum is a woman who experienced a significant personal revelation while managing a home improvement project during her children's early years. Faced with an unreliable carpenter who repeatedly failed to complete her sewing room cabinets despite numerous promises, Nancy was challenged to reassess her longstanding belief that love equated to being perpetually nice and patient. After enduring nine months of delays and unfulfilled commitments, she discovered that true love sometimes involves setting boundaries and assertively addressing issues. This experience led her to redefine her understanding of love and assertiveness, blending her Christian values with a more pragmatic approach to relationships and commitments. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Redefining love: not always nice or patient. 05:08 Codependence creates resentment; boundaries foster healthier relationships. 08:40 Codependency arises from fear, not love. 13:29 Steven endured anger to eventually get rescue. 14:15 Codependency involves boundaries; next episode explores. Comprehensive sequence of topics covered Introduction to the Podcast and Guest Welcome to the Warfare Parenting Podcast   Introduction of the host, Laine Lawson Craft   Introduction of guest, Nancy Landrum   Brief overview of Nancy's life experiences and wisdom Background of Nancy Landrum Personal experiences of loss: First husband’s tragic death at a softball game   Second husband's untimely death from cancer   The passing of her son, Steven   Purpose behind writing "Pungent Boundaries" Defining Codependency Nancy’s definition: Imbalance of responsibility   Example of codependency with the cabinet carpenter Importance of Setting Boundaries Explanation of boundary setting   Example with Nancy's son Steven and the motorcycle engine Interrelation of Codependency and Boundaries Fear of setting boundaries due to potential loss of love or disconnection   The role of fear, pity, and erroneous beliefs   Codependency resulting in resentment Personal Reflections Laine's personal experience with rescuing her children Self-Care for Parents The importance of taking care of oneself as a parent   Nancy's experiences as a single parent Codependency and Parenting Codependency’s impact on parenting, particularly with difficult children   The setup of codependency by false beliefs Closure and Resources Information on acquiring N

    18 min

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Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children Laine Lawson Craft brings hard-earned wisdom to the world of warfare parenting. As a mother who experienced the near-dissolution of her marriage and the heart-wrenching struggles with prodigal children, Laine intimately understands the challenges many parents face with teens and adult children. Through her personal journey of marriage restoration and family healing, Laine discovered profound strength and purpose. Today, she is a beacon of hope for parents navigating their turbulent waters, especially those grappling with prodigal children. Her approach combines compassion with practical, faith-based strategies for families in crisis. Laine is a best-selling author, and her newest book, “The Parent's Battle Plan,” won the 2023 Nonfiction Book of the Year award. As an accomplished media host, she extends her message of hope and transformation to a broader audience, offering guidance to parents facing seemingly insurmountable odds with their teens and adult children. Drawing from her experiences in warfare parenting and spiritual insights, Laine equips parents with the tools they need to fight for their children's futures. She believes in the power of unwavering faith and strategic action to overcome even the most daunting family challenges, from troubled marriages to wayward children. What to Expect Raw Reality, Real Solutions: Dive deep into parental anguish with practical strategies for fighting back and reclaiming your family's peace. Spiritual Warfare Unveiled: Discover the battle for your child's soul and learn to wield the weapons of faith effectively. Wisdom from the Frontlines: Gain insights from experts and hear inspiring testimonies from parents who've overcome similar struggles. A Band of Warriors: Join a supportive community of parents fighting the good fight alongside you. Each series tackles the unique challenges facing today's young adults and adult children head-on. We'll navigate the treacherous waters of social media pressure, addictive behaviors, and a rapidly changing cultural landscape. Empower yourself to guide your child towards truth, freedom, and purpose in an increasingly complex world. The enemy doesn't fight fair, but neither do we. Join Laine Lawson Craft on the Warfare Parenting Podcast and unlock the spiritual arsenal you need to reclaim your child's destiny. It's time to turn the tide of battle—your family's future hangs in the balance.

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