39 min
Ep 15. What dating system works? Men's Modern Dating Secrets
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- Self-Improvement
It is super common for me to have men ask what is that correct dating system.
And I understand why they are asking that. There is no shortage of advice and opinions out there…
Unfortunately, much of the advice is conflicting… And even more of it is flat out wrong.
In this episode, I discuss the foundations and fundamental principles that go into understanding the dating process.
We start by discussing that you can begin with the end in mind.
And you can do this for every step of the dating process, but most specifically…
Where do you actually want your dating to end up?
And based on the goal for your dating life, you can backwards engineer how to get there.
When you take a look at the key milestones that go into dating or building a relationship with someone, a lot of the what-to-do questions take care of themselves or end up not being too important.
Many elements of dating and what to do exist on a continuum or spectrum…
While there might be one preferred or recommend an option, there are many possibilities that you can choose from where you might mess up or be imperfect, but you will still be progressing things forward.
In someways, this can be a benefit because you’re putting unintentional stressors on the dating process, which allow you to see whether your relationship will have the potential of going the distance when real stressors are inevitably put on it later on.
Hope you enjoy this final episode before the new year.
And if you want to have a conversation with me to get your dating life in order, go to https://chrishardersdatingcoach.com/chat
Happy end of the year
It is super common for me to have men ask what is that correct dating system.
And I understand why they are asking that. There is no shortage of advice and opinions out there…
Unfortunately, much of the advice is conflicting… And even more of it is flat out wrong.
In this episode, I discuss the foundations and fundamental principles that go into understanding the dating process.
We start by discussing that you can begin with the end in mind.
And you can do this for every step of the dating process, but most specifically…
Where do you actually want your dating to end up?
And based on the goal for your dating life, you can backwards engineer how to get there.
When you take a look at the key milestones that go into dating or building a relationship with someone, a lot of the what-to-do questions take care of themselves or end up not being too important.
Many elements of dating and what to do exist on a continuum or spectrum…
While there might be one preferred or recommend an option, there are many possibilities that you can choose from where you might mess up or be imperfect, but you will still be progressing things forward.
In someways, this can be a benefit because you’re putting unintentional stressors on the dating process, which allow you to see whether your relationship will have the potential of going the distance when real stressors are inevitably put on it later on.
Hope you enjoy this final episode before the new year.
And if you want to have a conversation with me to get your dating life in order, go to https://chrishardersdatingcoach.com/chat
Happy end of the year
39 min