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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

Non-Monogamy Help Lola Phoenix

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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

    Episode 134 - Polyamory and Trauma

    Episode 134 - Polyamory and Trauma

    Seeing yourself as “traumatised” may actually be causing yourself more stress and difficulty than if you allowed yourself the permission to feel.

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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    • 31 min
    Episode 133 - Pressure to Open

    Episode 133 - Pressure to Open

    Coming at a crossroads in your relationship with compatibility can make you feel a pressure to open your relationship, but rethinking that might help.




    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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    • 26 min
    Episode 132 - Mind Reading

    Episode 132 - Mind Reading

    If you feel too uncomfortable to ask for what you want from your partner then holding resentment towards them for not meeting your needs may not be fair.


    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact


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    • 26 min
    Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction

    Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction

    Can you move from cheating to a “successful” polyamorous relationship and what needs to happen?


    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact


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    • 24 min
    Episode 130 - Deprioritised

    Episode 130 - Deprioritised

    If you know you’re being deprioritised and you just feel you can’t leave, can you actually make it work.

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact


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    • 26 min
    Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together

    Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together

    You can’t live your life only making decisions based on what will or won’t disappoint other adults.

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact



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