The White Mic Podcast with Fumi Fumi

Build REAL Confidence, deal with negativity, level up, and begin the process of learning how to reinvent yourself. Often times, when you begin to work on improving yourself, there will be people who will try to bring you down or discourage you. This can come in the form of "constructive" criticism, gossip, or even outright ridicule. As a woman, it is crucial to learn how to deal with this negativity and not let it affect your self-esteem. Instead of seeking validation from others, we must learn to discover and find peace and fulfillment in our own abilities and worth—that is the start of becoming internally validated. I even include some tips for those looking to become content creators 👀

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and more, well, I believe this dating advice for women video will give you the clarity you need.


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Fumi discusses "The Bumble Fumble" Ad Controversy, and her thoughts on what it reveals about the problem with dating apps. She also shares the details of her journey from intentional singleness to dating while celibate for the first time EVER. I will explore the latest dating app controversy and share some valuable insights.



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Chapters

00:44 - intro

01:09 - background on the controversy + summary of the ad

03:09 - what the ad says about dating today

04:44 - where the Bumble model went wrong

05:34 - the problem with dating apps

07:02 - my celibacy journey + my reasons

10:32 - dating today objectifies women

12:08 - my intentional singleness journey + embarrassing realizations

14:50 - dating again after 5 years out of the dating scene

18:49 - date while you’re chasing your goals

22:41 - it is important to talk to men you’re attracted to

23:17 - what my celibacy journey is built on

25:00 - my journey dating for experience and why I don’t recommend it

26:27 - my experience dating as a celibate woman

27:53 - unspoken pressure a lot of women feel 

29:03 - celibacy as a tool to decenter men

31:26 - bumble ad reveals an unfortunate fact

33:09 - the cost of compromise

34:12 - high value men are willing to respect celibacy


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How a mindset toward friendship can help you enjoy dating more and choose better prospects. For the video, see: how dating for friendship gets you the love you want | Fumi
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Running through some of the most common dating and relationship mistakes women make—including mistakes I have made in the past!


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Marry my Husband was a Kdrama sensation that had people talking! One particular aspect that has been the focus of many conversations is the complex relationship between the protagonist and her best friend, Su-Min.



On the surface, their friendship seems strong and supportive. However, as we delve deeper into the story, it becomes clear that toxic elements are present in their dynamic. This begs the question: how do you recognize a toxic person, especially when they are someone close to you?



There are several red flags to look out for when identifying toxic behavior in a person. These can include constantly putting you down, manipulating or controlling your actions and decisions, being overly critical or judgmental, and displaying jealous or possessive tendencies. I discuss this, and more in this episode.



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Fumi and Danisha Carter are two fierce and inspiring women who have come together to share their experiences, insights, and advice on navigating womanhood and thriving in all areas of life. With a raw and honest approach, they discuss relevant topics for women of all ages. In this dive deep into developing unshakable confidence in the face of hardship and negativity, they share their struggles with self-doubt and how they overcame them to become the confident women they are today.

Whether facing challenges at work, in your relationships, or within yourself, this episode will offer valuable insights on building inner strength and resilience.


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