Friend Crush with Amber Akilla Amber Akilla

happy valentine's day bbs!

here is a special DJ mix and Q&A episode of Friend Crush with Amber Akilla.

i've pulled questions from various Tiktok lives and answered them in between tracks that embody the 'love, lust & loathing' theme.



i had so much fun making this, i hope you enjoy!!!



previous mixes are on soundcloud~

https://on.soundcloud.com/uCwPM



soundcloud upload~

https://on.soundcloud.com/DMYKx



lana del rey - in my feelings


are my standards too high is there even such a thing?

brent faiyaz - make luv


my icks

newjeans - hurt


how can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine love?

alicia keys - girlfriend


why do people compare themselves to their ex’s new partner

sza - blind


dealing with someone who is confused about what they want

sugababes - hole in the head

yung lean - bliss ft. fka twigs


any advice on how to stop gaslighting yourself, only to realize you were right?

handsome boy modeling school - the truth ft. roisin murphy ft. j-live


what do you think of men that romanticize hyper-independent women?

kali uchis - ¿Cómo Así?


whats the difference between forgiveness and settling?

swv - use your heart 





if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠





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special treat for friend crush listeners ~ i've received a few messages like this one so i felt the wheels turning in my brain and generated this response. i definitely missed out a few things but i hope that this provides helpful perspective for anyone that relates to the situation described. 



if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠





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this episode might be triggering for anyone that's convinced themselves that they like being in a situationship so listen at your own risk :)



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jealousyyyy is a disease fr - its a human experience, but one that when unmanaged can create more harm than good, mostly to yourself!!! how can we better understand and differentiate jealousy and envy we experience towards others and also when its directed towards us?



articles referenced:

https://kazmobrain.com/jealousy-definition-causes-treatment/



https://www.dictionary.com/e/jealousy-vs-envy/



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answering a listener message i received recently that prompted me to reflect on what it means to be a "high value woman" and my thoughts on this conversation that's been happening online, growth, trauma, grief and why people cheat.



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i've done an episode on this before but i feel like its recently come up a lot in conversations with people in their early-mid 20s. my quarter life crisis was so intense but i feel like i've come out the other end better than i entered it so hopefully this gives you something to look forward to if you're going through this rn!! you are not alone 3



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