The White Mic Podcast with Fumi Fumi

Fumi discusses "The Bumble Fumble" Ad Controversy, and her thoughts on what it reveals about the problem with dating apps. She also shares the details of her journey from intentional singleness to dating while celibate for the first time EVER. I will explore the latest dating app controversy and share some valuable insights.



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Chapters

00:44 - intro

01:09 - background on the controversy + summary of the ad

03:09 - what the ad says about dating today

04:44 - where the Bumble model went wrong

05:34 - the problem with dating apps

07:02 - my celibacy journey + my reasons

10:32 - dating today objectifies women

12:08 - my intentional singleness journey + embarrassing realizations

14:50 - dating again after 5 years out of the dating scene

18:49 - date while you’re chasing your goals

22:41 - it is important to talk to men you’re attracted to

23:17 - what my celibacy journey is built on

25:00 - my journey dating for experience and why I don’t recommend it

26:27 - my experience dating as a celibate woman

27:53 - unspoken pressure a lot of women feel 

29:03 - celibacy as a tool to decenter men

31:26 - bumble ad reveals an unfortunate fact

33:09 - the cost of compromise

34:12 - high value men are willing to respect celibacy


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How a mindset toward friendship can help you enjoy dating more and choose better prospects. For the video, see: how dating for friendship gets you the love you want | Fumi
https://youtu.be/lJaLrTxGiBw

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Running through some of the most common dating and relationship mistakes women make—including mistakes I have made in the past!


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Marry my Husband was a Kdrama sensation that had people talking! One particular aspect that has been the focus of many conversations is the complex relationship between the protagonist and her best friend, Su-Min.



On the surface, their friendship seems strong and supportive. However, as we delve deeper into the story, it becomes clear that toxic elements are present in their dynamic. This begs the question: how do you recognize a toxic person, especially when they are someone close to you?



There are several red flags to look out for when identifying toxic behavior in a person. These can include constantly putting you down, manipulating or controlling your actions and decisions, being overly critical or judgmental, and displaying jealous or possessive tendencies. I discuss this, and more in this episode.



Watch the YouTube video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yItqBJmh9iQ






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Fumi and Danisha Carter are two fierce and inspiring women who have come together to share their experiences, insights, and advice on navigating womanhood and thriving in all areas of life. With a raw and honest approach, they discuss relevant topics for women of all ages. In this dive deep into developing unshakable confidence in the face of hardship and negativity, they share their struggles with self-doubt and how they overcame them to become the confident women they are today.

Whether facing challenges at work, in your relationships, or within yourself, this episode will offer valuable insights on building inner strength and resilience.


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Welcome back to the White Mic Podcast with Fumi! Our guest Eli shares valuable insights and practical tips on navigating the often confusing and challenging world of dating, from online dating to in-person interactions. With a focus on empowering women to approach dating with confidence and clarity, this podcast is a must-listen for any woman looking to find love and build a fulfilling relationship. Tune in now and discover how to transform your dating life!



Find Eli below:



All my links ---

https://linktr.ee/elivazquez1



Coaching Program

https://selfhype.biz/freecall



Instagram 

https://www.instagram.com/itselivazquez/



Facebook Group:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/motivationalbuildingforentrepreneurs/


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