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Welcome back to part 2 of this DEEP & moving conversation with country singer and toxic relationship survivor Stephanie Quayle and narcissism expert Dr. Keith Campbell.  
Get ready for even more heartfelt insights and truthbombs as we dive into: 

- 3 strategies for coping with the wounds left from a narcissist so you can take ownership of your story, make a change, and actually HEAL 

- Why you need to seek professional help as soon as possible in these toxic situations to break the cycle

- And what you can do to take your power back and actually UNLEARN all the shame, guilt, and wounds that have been ingrained in you


You won’t want to miss the final part of this episode!! 
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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Introducing What’s the State of Misinformation? with Renée DiResta from Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness.
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We’re all so used to turning to our phones for information, but how exactly does it travel across the internet…and what happens if that information is wrong? Renée DiResta is the perfect expert to break it all down for us! Jonathan and Renée dig into the differences and potential dangers of misinformation, disinformation, and propaganda. From generative AI and Father Coughlin, to political polarization and being subpoenaed by Jim Jordan, we cover it all.



Renée DiResta is the Research Manager at the Stanford Internet Observatory where she investigates the spread of malign narratives across social networks, and assists policymakers in understanding and responding to the problem. She has advised Congress, the State Department, and other academic, civic, and business organizations, and has studied disinformation and computational propaganda in the context of pseudoscience conspiracies, terrorism, and state-sponsored information warfare. Her latest book, “Invisible Rulers: The People Who Turn Lies into Reality” is out on June 11th.



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Get ready for this episode of Women of Impact all about how to spot the charming, seemingly “nice guy” narcissists who are out on the hunt for smart and successful women like you to use and suck the confidence right out of!! 
This interview will teach you how to take your power back so you don’t feel small, stupid, and powerless for years in an unhealthy and toxic relationship, and actually HEAL from the wounds so you don’t end up broken, full of shame, insignificant, and in the same toxic situation…again! 
And today’s guests here to help with that are Stephanie Quayle and Dr. Keith. 
Stephanie is a successful country singer, and her story is insaaaaaane! For 4 years, she was with a seemingly “nice” guy who actually had multiple secret lives while attending his funeral after his unexpected death! He was prolifically cheating on her and lying to her and she had no idea until she was at his funeral! 
It wasn’t until she finally got professional help from experts in narcissism, like psychologist Dr. Keith, that she was able to begin to let go of the shame and break the cycle of toxic relationships!!
When anyone is able to recognize their relationship for the toxic and unhealthy situation that it is, then they can actually DO something about it, and that’s what I want for you from this episode, homie!!

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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

SPONSORS:
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Go to https://Butcherbox.com/WOI and use code W-O-I at checkout and enjoy your choice of bone-in chicken thighs, top sirloins, or salmon in every box for an entire year, plus get $20 off!
Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
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On this episode of Women of Impact, motivational speaker and dating advice expert Matthew Hussey joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they break down the complicated parts of finding love and reveal how dating and relationships can be much simpler than you might think.
They discuss the importance of feeling someone just try in a relationship, how to identify good intentions, why you have to invest in someone, the pitfalls of building up a story in our heads even before the first date, and why you should be willing to ask the difficult questions necessary in developing a strong relationship long-term.
[Original air date: 10/28/20].

SHOW NOTES:
It’s Not That Complicated | Matthew shares the importance of feeling someone just try. [1:53]
Intentions | Matthew discusses the difference between attention and intention. [5:46]
Invest, Then Test | Matthew shares why trying and staying confident is key to finding love. [7:20]
Complicated | Matthew shares why we try to force a fix when it gets complicated. [12:45]
Fantasy | Matthew reveals the pitfalls of writing a story in your head before it’s unfolded. [15:15]
Process | Matthew shares the four stages of importance in developing any relationship. [18:13]
Maintenance | Matthew discusses why the work in a relationship never ends. [23:52]
What They Actually Mean | Matthew reveals the true meaning behind what he says. [27:09]
What You Can Trust | Matthew reveals what you can trust that signals he likes you. [31:45]
Ask | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t shy away from asking the tough questions. [33:56]
Be Ruthless | Matthew reveals why you have to stand firm in your conviction. [39:21]
Love Switches | Matthew discusses the importance of knowing what your partner needs. [40:05]
Difficult Talks | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t steer clear of difficult conversations. [43:12]

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Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order
Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
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(NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon

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[Original air date: 4/30/20].

SPONSORS:
Be sure to get your copy of Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, here: https://radicalconfidence.com/
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Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.
Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" 
(NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon

***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***
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Aging for men and women can be a drastically different experience. While men are often more highly valued with age for resources, women tend to be valued more for physical beauty that fades with time. How do you reconcile with the inevitability of physical changes from aging and the desire to have your partner always find you attractive? Long-term relationships are so much more than physical beauty, but there is a level of self-confidence and pride you take in how you look and how you feel for yourself and your partner. As looks fade and your confidence shifts, can you look at each other and be just as attracted as when you were 20 something? In this episode Tom and Lisa discuss commitment over attraction and how focusing on a shared experience, enjoying the phases of life is what’s working after 19 years of marriage. [Original air date: 4-25-21].

SHOW NOTES:
Inverse Attraction | Loving each phase of the relationship as physical attraction changes [0:28]
Commitment | Tom on being anchored to a shared experience of life with Lisa [1:32]
Attracted to Others | Why commitment trumps attraction and being an antifragile partner [3:03]
Enjoy Phases | Lisa’s tip to enjoy every phase for what it is and and work on self-esteem [5:48]

QUOTES:
“So we are together because we're sharing a life and I believe to the core of my existence.” Tom Bilyeu [2:35]

“enjoy it for what it is instead of like, always mourning what the last phase, like really enjoy it.” Lisa Bilyeu [6:21]

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