You're Not My Father‪!‬ Thomas Brando Greenman

This Week on You’re Not My Father: Building Resilience & Finding Strength in Family with Tyler Young

Entrepreneur and father Tyler Young joins host Thomas Greenman for an inspiring conversation about family, overcoming challenges, and finding success.

Key Takeaways:


Tyler's mom's strength, raising three boys while one battled leukemia, shaped his view on life.
His father, a hardworking role model, taught him to tackle challenges.
He learned to embrace discomfort and push through fear of failure.


Empathy and emotional control are key to healthy relationships (he teaches his son this!).
Choose a supportive partner who challenges you, prioritizing children's well-being.
Live in the present and make lasting memories.

Looking for guidance on resilience, overcoming challenges, and building strong relationships? This episode is for you!

Sound Bites

"I had a crazy amazing mother growing up. She took on the world. She had three boys. Me and my younger brother are only 16 months apart. She had her oldest, my older brother diagnosed leukemia at 23 months while she was pregnant with me."

"My dad is my hero. My dad is my best friend, but he wasn't always. And he is today. My dad is an example of what it is to be a man, a father, a husband, and he did it through very challenging times."

"My dad is one of those people I could tell everything. He never was jealous. He never talked down to me. He only lifted me up."

"I lost all my talent, just like in Space Jam."

"I have nerves, which is different. Fear can stop you in your tracks."

"If you match and mirror that upsetness, you're only going to lead to more conflict and frustration for yourself."





Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

02:02

The Strength of a Mother

03:19

A Father's Influence

12:36

Lessons from Tyler's Dad

30:08

Navigating Personal Challenges

33:49

Overcoming Fear of Failure and Embracing Discomfort

35:44

Teaching Empathy and Emotional Control to Children

37:19

The Importance of Trust and Commitment in Marriage

41:37

Choosing a Partner Who Prioritizes Children

45:28

Living in the Present and Creating Meaningful Memories


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In this XXL episode, we explore the importance of father figures in Thomas Greenman's interview with Travis Hare. Travis describes his close relationship with his hearing-impaired father, who instilled in him the value of family and prioritizing relationships. He shares anecdotes about his unconventional but loving upbringing, highlighting his parents' selflessness and teamwork. Travis reflects on his father's battle with cancer and the strength he displayed. Stay until the end ot hear them discuss why its critical to understand each other, the importance of physical touch in any relationship, and the challenges and rewards of parenting.


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In this episode, Thomas Greenman interviews Tyler Young, CEO & Founder at VersiTech and Tonic POS & BOLD Integrated Payments - he’s even a listener of the show! They discuss the purpose of the podcast and the importance of taking it seriously. Together, they explore a ton of challenges that father’s work through not just with themselves but their children. Come for the deep dive in parental advice and stay for Tyler’s master class on eating Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream. This is one episode you don’t want to miss!

Takeaways:
* This podcast means something - I need to take it seriously and commit to its purpose
* Tough love is important in raising children and helping them develop resilience
* Children can teach valuable lessons and inspire personal growth
* Recording personal stories and experiences can create a lasting legacy
* Preparation and intentionality are key in delivering meaningful podcast episodes
* Childhood toys can hold deeper lessons and memories *GO JOE!*
* Accepting change and being authentic are essential for personal growth Words have a significant impact on children's confidence and self-esteem.
* Building confidence in children requires understanding their unique personalities and adapting parenting approaches accordingly.
* Balancing confidence and humility is essential in raising well-rounded individuals.
* Compassion plays a crucial role in teaching children to care for others.
* Rebuilding a relationship with an estranged child requires effort, understanding, and humility. Financial challenges can arise when discovering and navigating fatherhood, but it is important to do what it takes to be involved in your child's life.
* Fighting for your child is crucial, even if the other parent does not agree. Show up, be respectful, and be determined to be there for your child.
* Consistency and compassion are key in building a strong relationship with your child. Be there for them, even if they are not ready to acknowledge or accept you.
* Educate yourself and seek advice from mentors to overcome the fear and uncertainty of fatherhood. Surround yourself with good people who can support and guide you.
* Being present and consistent in your child's life can have a profound impact on their well-being and development. Show them unconditional love and support.
* Enjoy the journey of parenthood and explore life with your children. Be open to new experiences and learn from the challenges and joys of raising a family.

Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
03:44
The Purpose of the Podcast
06:35
The Importance of Tough Love
10:07
Learning from Children
12:46
The Origins of 'You're Not My Father'
23:48
The Deep Conversation about G.I. Joe
26:00
Accepting Change and Being Authentic
27:34
Losing Hair and Embracing Change
28:55
The Impact of Words
29:18
Building Confidence in Children
32:03
Insecurities and Impact
33:00
Different Approaches for Different Children
35:33
Balancing Confidence and Humility
38:36
Helping Children Learn Compassion
45:32
The Struggle of Being Estranged from a Child
53:08
Advice for Rebuilding a Relationship
56:23
The Financial Burden
57:15
The Importance of Fighting for Your Child
58:09
Advice for New Parents
01:00:09
The Emotional Toll
01:01:30
Lessons Learned
01:04:34
The Power of Being There
01:06:05
Consistency and Compassion
01:09:19
The Role of a Father
01:10:09
The Importance of Trying Harder
01:12:26
Being Present for Our Children
01:15:06
Protecting Our Children from Hurt
01:18:09
The Impact of Consistency
01:19:01
The Art of Eating Ben & Jerry's
01:23:25
Exploring Life and Parenthood


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The story of Brandon revolves around the misuse of my email address by a complete stranger and my initial frustration with the situation which I really, really, want to throw gasoline onto!. However, as the story unfolds, I soften up and notice the similarities between me and Brandon. Sure it'd be easy to turn this into a funny viral moment but what if I did something else?

Takeaways:

* Everyone makes mistakes and deserves grace and understanding.
* Reflecting on our own imperfections can help us empathize with others.
* Extending kindness and guidance can have a positive impact on someone's life.
* The story of Brandon serves as a metaphor for the importance of treating strangers with kindness and understanding.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background
00:31 The Story of Brandon Begins
01:21 Brandon's Misuse of the Email Address
04:08 The Temptation to Respond
05:04 Reflection on Similarities with Brandon
06:09 Recognizing Imperfections
07:04 The Potential for Growth
08:17 Maturity and Mistakes
09:30 Extending Grace and Guidance
10:07 The Story of Brandon as a Metaphor
11:40 Lessons in Kindness and Understanding


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This Alaskan father and daughter duo: Sophia and Thomas, get real with what a Father is to a Daughter (real examples), father/daughter banquet, getting your driver's license, why higher math is a waste of time for most middle and high school students, some lessons from father to son and now to daughter and more! Tell us what you think - don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe.


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@yourenotmyfather  's first VIDEO Podcast! I've been cranking out audio only podcasts for awhile now so we've made the jump. In this episode I give a preview of what my trip to Puerto Rico was like but some of my favorite content is seeing how other people do everyday things - so in this episode I show you how I travel (some of it at least). I also talk about how much of challenge it is moving to video, opening up to others, and a bit of why I'm doing this. I hope you enjoy and learn something!



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