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It's Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken-heartedness.

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It's Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken-heartedness.

    Turning Down the Volume on Shame - Susskind & Merlino

    Turning Down the Volume on Shame - Susskind & Merlino

    In this episode we examine Chapter Three of Andrew’s workbook as we encourage curiosity and non-judgment about shame. Although shame never goes away entirely, you can respond to it differently. In this discussion we explore the following: building shame resiliency, taming the inner critic and practicing mindful self-compassion. Tune in to see how shame can be normalized and diminished in your life and recovery.
     
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com

    • 22 min
    Attachment Assessment DIY - Joni Lavick, LMFT

    Attachment Assessment DIY - Joni Lavick, LMFT

    On today’s episode we warmly welcome back clinical psychologist Joni Lavick, who is a seasoned expert on attachment theory and its applications. In this informative conversation we cover the following: the history of attachment theory, misconceptions, how to understand your own patterns, and the correlation between attachment strategies and addictive behaviors and more. Please tune in to this user-friendly approach to understanding attachment strategies.
     
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com
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    • 34 min
    Living with Loss - Susskind & Merlino

    Living with Loss - Susskind & Merlino

    Grief and loss is often overlooked or avoided in our society. Andrew and Sue take this opportunity to delve into this often-misunderstood topic of grief and loss and its implications on long-term recovery from sexual compulsivity. Andrew shares a “memoir snapshot” as well as specific practices to consider using toward living more peacefully and openheartedly with the inevitable losses that come with being human.
     
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com

    • 18 min
    A Grief Memoir - Jen Davis, MA, CLC

    A Grief Memoir - Jen Davis, MA, CLC

    In this intimate conversation, Jen Davis takes us on a journey that most of us avoid. From her own transformative experiences with grief, Jen shares the curiosity, the wonder and the ultimate path to living a fuller life. Through a lens of self-compassion, honesty and forgiveness we explore the limitless possibilities and challenges that go along with grief recovery. Co-collaborating with grief and the practice of sitting with uncomfortable emotions sets the stage for this very natural and eternal part of being human. Jen Davis can be reached at www.kindregardsjenny.com.
     
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com

    • 36 min
    Emotional Resilience - Susskind & Merlino

    Emotional Resilience - Susskind & Merlino

    Today’s episode featuring Andrew and Sue focuses on Emotional Resilience, the lead chapter of Andrew’s workbook. In the original book, the first chapter explored Emotional Sobriety, but the word resilience is more aligned with Andrew’s current focus on regulating the nervous system. This episode kicks off a monthly spotlight on each workbook chapter.
     
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com

    • 31 min
    Sexual Recovery: From a Nightmare to a Love Story - Steven Wolt

    Sexual Recovery: From a Nightmare to a Love Story - Steven Wolt

    Today’s episode is Sexual Recovery: From a Nightmare to a Love Story. We welcome Steve Wolt, founder of Valor Recovery, a peer-based recovery coaching and support system to help men overcome porn abuse, sexual compulsivity and intimacy challenges. By discussing the promises of sexual recovery, Steve offers hope and inspiration to his clients and our listeners. He shares the differences among coaching, therapy and sponsorship in clear and grounded terms and concludes the episode with an emphasis on love and fellowship. 
    Music credit: Neil Freebern Freebernmusic.com

    • 32 min

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