50 min
Jim Curtis & Marina Lazaris discuss love in a modern world. The biggest challenges and how to overcome them. THE SCHOOL OF LOVE
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- Relationships
What makes us chases the unobtainable? Where does attachment theory come in? Does love end and perhaps that causes us the most pain thinking it?
Marina (00:18.156)
The power of flow & co-creation.
Jim Curtis (00:43.606)
People chasing the unobtainable with lavish gifts.
Marina (01:57.245)
I would perhaps be looking at, is there some block in receiving?
Jim Curtis (02:01.442)
Have you ever had the experience that you're just in it for the case?
Marina (02:27.657)
The power of honest conversations and allowing yourself to receive.
Marina (05:23.933)
How subconscious conditioning from childhood effects working hard for love and beliefs that somehow you're unlovable.
Marina (05:48.893)
So it's retraining that subconscious conditioning, noticing the pattern and moving towards others that reciprocates and match your energy because otherwise you're just hurting yourself, re-traumatizing yourself and causing yourself a lot of pain.
Jim Curtis (07:12.734)
Discusses the masculine/feminine dynamic in relationships.
Marina (08:10.085)
I think that you need to balance the masculine and feminine within you. And I think men, it's harder for men because there's lots of different distractions and I think it's more difficult for them to stay in that masculinity and pursue one woman. So I wouldn't blame women.
Jim Curtis (09:18.562)
Have you ever been interested in a man that's more connected to his feminine?
Marina (10:55.973)
If you build men up, then they're gonna be able to sit with their emotions. This whole tearing each other down in some shape or form, that doesn't work. And men need to be able to go to someone and have other female influences.
Jim Curtis (12:07.146)
The struggle for men to have open and honest conversations with other men.
Marina (13:16.833)
It's a really hard one because I think it's a really fine balance and I think it's very difficult for men. It's very difficult for men and so it's an element being able to express yourself but not in the way where you're going to not be a safe container.
Jim Curtis & Marina Lazaris (15:16.398)
Discuss their biggest personal relationship struggles.
Marina (20:07.125)
Discuss the biggest red flags with relationship breakups. How to make agreements moving forward in relationships.
The importance of honesty in relationships.
Jim Curtis (27:55.406) You're teaching people how to treat your treat you. But, uh, 100% respect.
Jim Curtis (28:40.418)
The trap of a Fantasy.
Marina (31:33.661)
Peoples actions v the fantasy is very important and how to know the difference.
Jim Curtis (34:29.338)
How he hates first date.
Marina (35:18.25)
How you must always date.
Marina (36:26.345)
How gratitude changes ever situtuation even being love bombed.
Jim Curtis & Marina Lazaris (41:45.122)
Discuss breakups
being with someone, what from my personal experience, required me to forgive them many times and not go to bed on an argument and not to hold things on and to let go and to find the gratitude and the love in the relationship again and again and again. And I suppose it's the perspective that you hold it in. And...
in a timeline, you're still madly in love with that person. It still actually exists. So it doesn't ever go. And you choose, you choose to tap into whatever, it's bitterness, resentment, and you choose then to block your abundance. And then you choose then to act in ways that don't serve your vibrational being. But if you can act in like, okay, well, then my heart still, I still will always love you and...
we're not together and we're not romantic no more, but I send you love, then you will get that back in every area of your life. You will be, abundance will flow, relationships with other people will flow, and you won't repeat the same patterns. Let's get into that place. And I know it can't always be easy, but I think.
Marina (45:44.449)
That's the beauty of it. It doesn't, us living and dying is what happened at once. I s
What makes us chases the unobtainable? Where does attachment theory come in? Does love end and perhaps that causes us the most pain thinking it?
Marina (00:18.156)
The power of flow & co-creation.
Jim Curtis (00:43.606)
People chasing the unobtainable with lavish gifts.
Marina (01:57.245)
I would perhaps be looking at, is there some block in receiving?
Jim Curtis (02:01.442)
Have you ever had the experience that you're just in it for the case?
Marina (02:27.657)
The power of honest conversations and allowing yourself to receive.
Marina (05:23.933)
How subconscious conditioning from childhood effects working hard for love and beliefs that somehow you're unlovable.
Marina (05:48.893)
So it's retraining that subconscious conditioning, noticing the pattern and moving towards others that reciprocates and match your energy because otherwise you're just hurting yourself, re-traumatizing yourself and causing yourself a lot of pain.
Jim Curtis (07:12.734)
Discusses the masculine/feminine dynamic in relationships.
Marina (08:10.085)
I think that you need to balance the masculine and feminine within you. And I think men, it's harder for men because there's lots of different distractions and I think it's more difficult for them to stay in that masculinity and pursue one woman. So I wouldn't blame women.
Jim Curtis (09:18.562)
Have you ever been interested in a man that's more connected to his feminine?
Marina (10:55.973)
If you build men up, then they're gonna be able to sit with their emotions. This whole tearing each other down in some shape or form, that doesn't work. And men need to be able to go to someone and have other female influences.
Jim Curtis (12:07.146)
The struggle for men to have open and honest conversations with other men.
Marina (13:16.833)
It's a really hard one because I think it's a really fine balance and I think it's very difficult for men. It's very difficult for men and so it's an element being able to express yourself but not in the way where you're going to not be a safe container.
Jim Curtis & Marina Lazaris (15:16.398)
Discuss their biggest personal relationship struggles.
Marina (20:07.125)
Discuss the biggest red flags with relationship breakups. How to make agreements moving forward in relationships.
The importance of honesty in relationships.
Jim Curtis (27:55.406) You're teaching people how to treat your treat you. But, uh, 100% respect.
Jim Curtis (28:40.418)
The trap of a Fantasy.
Marina (31:33.661)
Peoples actions v the fantasy is very important and how to know the difference.
Jim Curtis (34:29.338)
How he hates first date.
Marina (35:18.25)
How you must always date.
Marina (36:26.345)
How gratitude changes ever situtuation even being love bombed.
Jim Curtis & Marina Lazaris (41:45.122)
Discuss breakups
being with someone, what from my personal experience, required me to forgive them many times and not go to bed on an argument and not to hold things on and to let go and to find the gratitude and the love in the relationship again and again and again. And I suppose it's the perspective that you hold it in. And...
in a timeline, you're still madly in love with that person. It still actually exists. So it doesn't ever go. And you choose, you choose to tap into whatever, it's bitterness, resentment, and you choose then to block your abundance. And then you choose then to act in ways that don't serve your vibrational being. But if you can act in like, okay, well, then my heart still, I still will always love you and...
we're not together and we're not romantic no more, but I send you love, then you will get that back in every area of your life. You will be, abundance will flow, relationships with other people will flow, and you won't repeat the same patterns. Let's get into that place. And I know it can't always be easy, but I think.
Marina (45:44.449)
That's the beauty of it. It doesn't, us living and dying is what happened at once. I s
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