541 episodes

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong‪?‬ Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 9 Ratings

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    BAIW: Wanting a "High Value Man"

    BAIW: Wanting a "High Value Man"

    Content Warning: Melisa's BATW - Child Trafficking
    But Am I Wrong:
    Melisa: Hiding behind Disney doesn't make you less racistMeghan: Streetlights are the new headlights
    But Are You Wrong:
    Difficult coworkersA friend who wants a dusty
    But Are They Wrong
    Meghan: Disney's disability programMelisa: Mother/Son Duo - Kedria Grisby and Roger Magee
    Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
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    • 1 hr 3 min
    SYNT: Episode Description: Monopoly Mayhem, Movie Magic, and Desperate Housewives

    SYNT: Episode Description: Monopoly Mayhem, Movie Magic, and Desperate Housewives

    This week, Meghan and Melisa dive headfirst into the ruthless world of Monopoly GO! Will Meghan's epic mudslide come in handy during this cutthroat game? (Spoiler alert: probably not!)
    Plus, get ready for a double dose of soapy goodness. Meghan gets Mats hooked on Desperate Housewives, and Melisa recommends the addictive follow-up, Devious Maids.
    We also get a glimpse into Melisa's busy life! From channeling her inner Wisteria Lane resident for a communications class speech to gearing up to film her movie next week, it's all go, go, go!
    And the plot thickens! Melisa might have a hot new job opportunity, and she's spilling all her LinkedIn secrets to help you land your dream role too.
    Don't miss this episode for laughs, life hacks, and maybe a few questionable Monopoly strategies...

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    • 30 min
    DBM: Roommate Gets It In With the Door Open

    DBM: Roommate Gets It In With the Door Open

    This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:

    Friend is a Pickmeisha Being the nosey neighbor Mom doesn't trust menBestie has sex with the door openDon't Blame Them: ADHD in the workplace (4.8.2024)

    Book Rec:
    Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
    Follow Us!
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    @meghanandmelisa
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    • 49 min
    BAIW: Reporting Influencers

    BAIW: Reporting Influencers

    But Am I Wrong:
    Meghan: Liking animals more than you like humans is a red flagMelisa: Going to an alpha male bootcamp is the most beta male thing you can do, next to running an alpha male bootcamp
    But Are You Wrong:
    Disclosing paid sponsorshipsDeclining inheritance
    But Are They Wrong
    Meghan: Sam DollMelisa: Wet Pants Denim
    Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
    Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme
    Follow Us:
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/
    Follow Meghan:
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/
    https://twitter.com/meghanrienks
    https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks
    Follow Melisa:
    https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/
    https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions
    https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa

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    • 1 hr 7 min
    SYNT: Cowboy Carter

    SYNT: Cowboy Carter

    Ever wonder what the difference is between a question and a quandary? We do! Join Meghan and Melisa as they delve into the world of words and Spelling Bees.
    This week's challenge: Quamoclit. Do you know what that means?
    We also dish on the latest pop culture happenings. Did Meghan conquer "The Holdovers" and "Dumb Money"? Did Melisa live up to her weekend plans of Beyonce marathons and country croonin' with Cowboy Carter?
    Tune in for pop culture debates, linguistic quandaries, and a whole lot of laughs!

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    • 1 hr
    DBM: Student Won't Hold Brown Kids' Hands

    DBM: Student Won't Hold Brown Kids' Hands

    This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:

    ADHD in the workplaceCan't get off from penetrationStudent being taught racismLeaning on your partner during mental health struggleDon't Blame Them: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (3/25/2024)

    Book Rec:
    Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
    Follow Us!
    @meghanrienks
    instagram.com/meghanrienks
    https://twitter.com/meghanrienks
    @sheisnotmelissa
    instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa
    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa
    @meghanandmelisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    dontblameme.show
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976

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    • 51 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
9 Ratings

9 Ratings

selaydol ,

The Best Podcast

I love how you say the toughest to say without a doubt,it’s my ride or die.I wish you did an episode with your boyfriend viewing both male and female perspectives of tough situations ,thanks for doing this podcast xxx

ipekkarakaya ,

The Best

Always has the best advice someone could give !!

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