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Talking about your kinks with your partner can feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be. Have you ever wondered why so many kinksters hide their desires from their partners? The reasons might surprise you. We'll explore the best time to bring up your kink and share a no-pressure approach to kick-start the conversation.
What if your partner doesn’t even want to talk about it? We’ll cover strategies to navigate this tricky situation. And if they’re not open to exploring your kinks, don’t worry—breaking up or suppressing your desires aren't the only options.
Plus, we’ll uncover the real reasons your partner might feel hurt by your revelations and how to prevent that from happening. Tune in for tips and insights on making these conversations smoother and more comfortable.
IN THIS EPISODEWhy kinksters hide their kinks from their partners - it's not always what you think.When's the best time to have the kink conversation with your partner?The no-pressure way to initiate the kink conversation with your partner.What to do when your partner doesn't even want to have the kink conversation.What to do when your partner isn't open to exploring your kinks (hint: breaking up and suppressing your kinks aren't the only options).The real reason your partner may be hurt by your revelations - and what to do to prevent it.
3 VALUE BOMBSDon't just drop the kink talk out of nowhere. Pick a quiet time and place where you won't be interrupted, and give them a heads-up first.If your kink is pretty wild or you're unsure how your partner will react, start off easy with a general chat. You could say something like, 'So, I came across this article on water sports. What do you think about that?'Opened up about your kink to your partner after years together and got a terrible reaction? t's not the kink that bothers them—they just feel like they've been living with a stranger. The earlier you share your kinks, the better.

Curious about the London Foot Party, the ultimate event for foot fetishists? We'll dive into what this unique gathering is all about and where it's hosted. Wondering about the crowd? We'll give you a glimpse of who you can expect to meet.
Is membership required to attend? We’ll discuss that too. And what’s the vetting process like for women? How do dress codes differ for men and women? We’ll cover all of that.
Pay-to-play might sound sleazy, but it's far from it. Want to know what happens during a paid session and how much it costs? We've got the details. Plus, we’ll introduce you to the organizers behind the London Foot Party.
Who is this event really for? Stay tuned as we unravel the mysteries and give you the inside scoop on this fascinating event.
IN THIS EPISODEWhat is London Foot Party?Where is the party hosted?What's the crowd like?Do you need a membership to attend the party?What's the vetting process for women like?Men Vs women: what's the dress code?Pay to play: what you need to know before you engage with a girl - and why it's not as sleazy as you think. What happens during a paid session - and how much is it?What are the organisers of London Foot Party like?Who is London Foot Party for?
3 VALUE BOMBSLondon Foot Party is a pay to play event. They make sure the women participating are really into the play, so everyone involved can have an awesome and genuine time. It's all about creating a great atmosphere where people can truly enjoy themselves.London Foot Party is the top foot party for anyone with a foot fetish. The cool atmosphere and real crowd make it a perfect place to indulge in all your foot fantasies.At London Foot Parties, there's always a theme. The women have to follow a fun dress code, but men can rock whatever they're comfortable in.

BDSM marks: show them off or hide them in the summer? Many subs cherish these marks despite the pain because they’re symbols of intense and intimate experiences.
But summer poses a unique challenge. You might not want to sport those marks with all the skin-baring outfits and trips to the beach. How do you ask your dom to avoid leaving marks during this season? We’ll give you some pointers on how to make that request.
If you do end up with marks, we’ve got the best techniques to conceal them. We’ll also dive into whether BDSM marks are viewed differently on men versus women and what that means for your summer wardrobe choices. And, of course, we'll cover what to do when those marks make an unexpected appearance, despite your best efforts to keep them hidden.
Tune in for all the tips and insights you need to navigate BDSM marks in the sunny season.
IN THIS EPISODEWhat are BDSM marks?Why subs love getting marks from BDSM play - despite the pain.Why doms love marking their subs during BDSM play.A few reasons you may not want to get any BDSM marks in the summer - and how to make the request to your dom. Best techniques to conceal BDSM marks in the summer.Are BDSM marks perceived differently on men and women? What to do when your BDSM marks accidentally show up, despite all your best efforts to conceal them.
3 VALUE BOMBSBDSM marks can be cherished as pleasant reminders of intense, beautiful moments shared with your dom or sub. They symbolize the trust, connection, and mutual enjoyment experienced during your play sessions, making them much more than just physical marks on the skin.If you're planning a beach holiday, don't hesitate to ask your Dom to go easy on you, ensuring you can enjoy your trip without visible bruises. Alternatively, schedule your play sessions with enough time for marks to heal before you hit the beach or board your flight.Long-lasting foundations are your best friend for covering severe bruising, even when you're in the water. Just make sure to apply them correctly for maximum coverage and durability, ensuring your marks stay hidden while you enjoy your summer activities.

Can you find true love on kinky apps? Let's dive into Desire's journey to find out. She joined We Are X two years ago, but a sexy date made her decide to leave them for good. We’ll discuss how to tweak your dating profile to attract better matches and reveal the two words you should never use if you’re looking for a serious relationship.
Kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women, affecting your chances of finding the right match. We'll explore whether these apps can hurt a woman's self-esteem and if Desire was naive to search for love on them. Who are these apps really for, and who should avoid them?
Desire has a new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner. Join us as we explore the world of kinky apps and the search for true love.
IN THIS EPISODEWhy Desire joined kinky apps We Are X (then Killing Kittens) two years ago.The sexy date that made Desire decide to leave We Are X (and other kinky apps) for good. The evolution of a dating profile: how to tweak what you're looking for to attract better matches.The two words you should NEVER use in a dating profile if you're looking for a serious relationship.How kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women - and how that affects your chances of finding the right match for you.Do kinky apps hurt a woman's self-esteem?Was Desire naive to look for love on kinky apps like We Are X?Who are these kinky apps for?Who should avoid kinky apps - even when they're looking for a kinky partner.Desire's new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner.
3 VALUE BOMBSMatched with a promising partner online? Always ask them what attracted them to your profile. You'll immediately know if they've read what you're looking for or just trying their luck. Kinky apps are great for people who are too busy to date and just want to find play partners or friends with benefits. If you're looking for love, you may end up with your hopes (and self-esteem) crushed.Using dating apps feels like a fast track to finding a date. You can easily get a match for the night, but you'll end up meeting a ton of people who just waste your time. This can make you lose faith in love. But don't stress, the perfect person is out there, and you might bump into them when you least expect it.
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Ever thought about reconnecting with a past poly or kinky partner? It can be tricky. Can you really pick up where you left off? We'll dive into that question and share some real-life stories of reconnecting that didn't quite go as planned—and why they failed. But it’s not all doom and gloom. We’ve got a feel-good tale of a couple who rekindled their spark after months apart and what made it work.
Before you reach out to an old flame, there’s one crucial thing you need to consider. We’ll tell you exactly what that is. Plus, we’ll give you the perfect message to send to reconnect with an old partner and increase your chances of getting a positive response.
Timing is everything, so we’ll discuss when it's right to suggest meeting up in person. And there's one topic you should totally avoid in your messages—unless they bring it up first. Ready to navigate the dos and don’ts of rekindling old connections? Let’s get into it!
IN THIS EPISODECan you ever pick up an old connection where you left off?Some real-life stories of reconnecting gone wrong - and why they failed.A feel-good tale of a couple rekindling their spark after months apart - what made it work.The most important thing to think about before reaching out to an old flame.The exact message to send to reconnect with an old kinky and poly partner - and get a positive response.When’s the right time to suggest meeting up in person?The one topic you should totally avoid in your messages - unless they bring it up first.
3 VALUE BOMBSBefore you send that first message, get clear on your intention. Are you just looking to hook up again, or do you actually miss them and want another shot?Skip talking about what you want at the start. In your first text, just check in with them and see how things are going.Hold off on the sexting. Just because you’ve been intimate before doesn’t mean they’re ready to go there again.

In the world of BDSM and kink, the lines between personal pleasure and partnership fidelity can sometimes blur. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that stirs up plenty of controversy: Is playing with a professional Dom considered cheating? Purity opens up about her encounters with married subs who navigate the delicate balance of satisfying their kinks while remaining faithful to their partners.
So, what exactly constitutes cheating? As everyone has their own set of relationship rules, identifying what crosses the line can be complex. We'll explore how to determine if you're cheating, based on varying definitions and relationship dynamics.
Moreover, can someone engage with a Dom or play partner without catching feelings? It's a common fear among married or partnered individuals stepping into play or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. We'll discuss the emotional risks and how to manage them.
But not all strategies for fulfilling your desires are created equal. We'll look at some approaches that might seem good on paper but fail in practice, especially when your significant other isn't into the same things. Is constantly seeking new, one-time play partners a healthy way to manage your needs? Or does it lead to its own set of problems?
Wrapping up, we'll guide you through the right way to satisfy your kinks when your partner isn’t on board, ensuring respect and consent are never compromised. Join us as we unpack these thorny issues, aiming to shed light on a path that keeps relationships intact while honoring personal desires.
IN THIS EPISODEPurity shares her story of being approached by married subs looking to satisfy their kinks without cheating on their wives.What is cheating? How to know if you're cheating when everyone has different rules.Is it possible to play with a Dom or play partner without developing feelings for them?Why married/partnered people are scared of developing feelings for play or ENM partners - and how to deal with it.Bad strategies for satisfying your kinks when your partner isn't into the same things as you.Is always looking for new, one-time play partners healthy?The right way to satisfy your kinks when you're partner isn't on board.
3 VALUE BOMBSEveryone has a different definition of cheating. Discuss boundaries with your partner before engaging with new people. And if you ever feel like you're cheating, you probably are.Developing feelings for other people, including play partners, is natural. It's part of being human. Expect it to happen, but don't make it mean anything about this new relationships. You can have feelings for someone new without it hurting your marriage or primary relationship.Your kinks are never going away. The sooner you open up to your partner, the sooner you can create a fully satisfying relationship for everyone involved.
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