The Confident Rider Podcast Jane Pike

I found out recently that the phrase “heart on your sleeve” is, in part, from Shakespeare’s play Othello-- we have just conveniently lopped off the other half of the sentence which goes on to say “…for the daws to peck at”.
 These words are uttered by one of the most villainous characters in the play, who, in the process of confessing to treacherous acts, remarks that by wearing his heart upon his sleeve, which he says to mean the act of truly exposing himself or opening himself up, he would be inviting crows to peck away at him. As a consequence, he opts to keep his true emotions and intentions hidden.
While the treachery might not be entirely relatable, the idea of opening yourself up to the crows by speaking the truth of your insides might hit closer to home.
In JoyRide this morning, I asked if anyone had anything they would like me to speak to on the podcast, and Leana posted:
Ways to feel safe within vulnerability
I love this as a conversation launch point because there is so much to be said for safeguarding practices around vulnerable experiences and the process of ‘opening up’, the depth of which I only skim the surface of in this episode. Vulnerability has become somewhat of a cultural catchphrase, but the reality of what it takes to be vulnerable- and for that to be truly held- is much more complex and nuanced than perhaps we consider or allow for.
The world is hungry for vulnerability- on social media, in the arts (music, writing, music) etc, in life- but in the midst of the desire for its production and consumption, there is sometimes little to hold it at the other end. In some instances, vulnerability has become yet another commodity, another product ready for consumption without wider conversations around what our collective and community responsibility might be if we find ourselves on the receiving end of vulnerable expression.
On a personal level, vulnerability needs to be shared with discernment. Our energy is precious and to be vulnerable is another level of energy cultivation that can be depleting if not experienced in a context where that same energy is contained, and then beyond that offered back.
In this episode we touch on this in conversation.
What does it mean to be vulnerable?
How do we share our vulnerability with discernment?
And what is our collective and community responsible for both the vulnerable and vulnerability both?
I hope you enjoy it!
❤️ Jane
Links referred to in this conversation
JoyRide: www.confidentrider.online/joyride
Substack & Interwoven: janepike.substack.com 
 

Lovely people, I’m back-- Both on the airways with the Confident Rider Podcast more generally speaking, and with two of my favourites, the incredible Tania Kindersley and Kathy Price. If you are familiar with our catch ups from the past you will know that the usual format runs to something like the following:
 What do you think we should talk about?
I’m not sure, what do you think?
I’m not sure either?
Shall we just hit record and see what happens?
Yes, let’s.
 So here we are, hitting record and seeing what happens!
 Given the nature of good friends, similar interests and desires for conversations that do more than skim across the surface level, we inevitably find things get interesting quite quickly.
 Over the course of our meandering conversations, we discuss:
What is it we mean when we say that we are always learning from our horses? What does it mean to live a live that feels spacious? What is your relationship to time? How does it differ between horses and humans? How might the creative process apply to our relationship with our horses?  I hope you enjoy it! 
❤️ Jane 

"When the old patterns arise, I will dissent. When life convinces me, it is something to be endured rather than enjoyed, I will dissent.
And I will show up here, and I will write about it, as a reminder to those wanting to hold hands and do the same."
❤️ Jane
www.confidentrider.online

A gentle reminder to let yourself be new.
❤️ Jane
https://confidentrider.online/

There’s a beautiful phrase that I hold gently in my hands, that I’ve adopted as one of my mottos for living.

"Birds coast when they can".

Every time I say it out loud to myself, I’m met with the glorious vision of a bird in flight, that proves these words to be true.
Birds coast where they can is a reminder to let yourself be supported.

A reminder to look for opportunities for ease, and where you, yourself, may be complicating things in a way that isn’t necessary. Doing too much for what is required.

Where are the opportunities for you to coast?

How can you allow yourself to be carried?

And what are all the ways you argue against allowing this to be the case?
xx Jane 
www.confidentrider.online

Peeps, I'm back with one of my favourite humans, the most loveliest Kathy Price!
Kathy and I are teaching a workshop together this weekend, and in our pre-workshop prep decided we could scoop the cream off the top of our conversation and sit down and chatter with you on the podcast. 
Over the course of our meandering conversation, we talk about:
The evolution of our work and business The principles that we follow that inform our life and work The application of energy and intention to our decision making processes We hope you enjoy it!
If you want to join us for our workshop, you can sign up here:
https://confidentrider.online/stepping-into-lightness/
And if you want to get in touch with Kathy, you can find her here:
https://kathyprice.co.uk/
Happy listening!
❤️ Jane (and Kathy!)