Bawdy Storytelling Dixie De La Tour

Did you know that there’s an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2 talented Nashville musicians who were inspired to write sex-positive songs after listening to Every.Single.Episode of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. Nashville was definitely a highlight of my recent Cross Country to East Coast Tour, and finally, you too can hear a custom song written just for Bawdy. #ILoveCustomSongs
 
Song: ‘Bawdy, if you’re feelin’ Naughty’ (Wet Bread)
 
About our Songwriters:
 
Melody Walker and Lizzy Ross are both celebrated songwriters in the indie folk and Americana scene who decided they had far hornier songs to write than their previous mainstream projects would allow for. They had spent so many years not wanting to seem like “those kind of bisexuals”: you know, the lusty, insatiable, wanton kind of women who would start a band just to advertise their goods to a captive audience of other certified sluts and poly queerdos. But when Melody turned Lizzy onto her favorite podcast Bawdy Storytelling and then they found out Dixie was coming to Nashville, it was all over for their good reputation. They decided to risk it all to debut their new duo WET BREAD. 
 
Learn more about BERTHA (Melody Walker’s Grateful Drag cover band) at
https://www.gratefuldrag.com/
Or
https://www.melodywalker.com/bertha
 
Instagram:
Follow Melody Walker at
https://www.instagram.com/melodywritessongs
 
And Lizzie Ross is at
https://www.instagram.com/lizzyross/
 
Episode links:
 
Bawdy is coming to Portland, Oregon!
 
PORTLAND, OREGON:  Bawdy Storytelling is coming to Portland for a 2 show night! 
Tickets now available for Friday, June 21st, and they’re selling fast. Grab yours at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated
Bawdy Storytelling's first Portland show since 2016 is happening at Curious Comedy Theater (who have been dreamy to work with so far). Folx, you like our Award-Winning Podcast, but there ain't nothing like a live Bawdy.... 
At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 
Then at 10:30 PM, join us for BawdySlam, where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 Minute Story for fun and prizes. 
 
In Review:
Friday, June 21st, 2024 At Curious Comedy Theater 5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd
Portland, OR 97211
The Bawdy Storytelling Mainstage show (curated) is at 7:30 PM BawdySlam (where you can tell YOUR story) is at 10:30 PM Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option.  
Do you wanna get onstage at this show? There’s 2 ways to do that:

Send me your story pitch for the curated Bawdy. I’m particularly looking for Queer/POC/Alternative lifestyle storytellers for this show.
Send me your story ASAP to BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com
Come to BawdySlam (at 10:30 PM) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win prizes!  
URGENT:
I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. Is this thing on?
Do you love Bawdy? I need to hear from you, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I’m wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way (and going out of pocket isn’t feasible anymore)
If you want to ensure this podcast continues, Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!
Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting

Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family’s heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex-positive, polyamorous world of open relationships and was hooking up happily - until she fell in love. Can Flora commit to just one man? Does a loving home and white picket fence have to preclude sex with multiple partners? I bet you know the answer, doncha?
 
Song: ‘Gold’ (Trixie Mattel)
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Make-up Mark or Sister "Floozy!" Flora Goodthyme has been a fixture in the Sex worker, drag and kink community for many, many years .. As an activist and as an artist Floozy! (As she’s known to her friends) has traveled the world over with colorful stories galore. Flora and her husband Nick now live their white picket fence life together in San Francisco, and spent lots of quality time with their 3rd partner, Ollie.
 
Key Words:
 
Gay | LGBTQIA+ l Marriage l Peach Emoji l Furry l Heteronormative l Monogamy l Bear l Scruffy l Skater Boy l Open Relationship l Polyamory l Husband l Latino l Irish l Best Friend l Repressed l Catholic l Dating l Lesbian l U-Haul l Cheating l Till Death Do We Part l Expendable l Community l Walker l Joint l Spit l Back It Up l Commit l CampOut l Threesome l Student Visa l Serious Relationship l K!nky l Physical l Emotional l Ring l Traction l Nerve Damage l Injury l Stranger l High l Pleasure l Love l Triad l Femur l Partner l Home l
 
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My Birthday is this week, and Birthdays are a big deal to me.
If you appreciate the work I do, can you do one of two things?
 
Donate to this podcast (all the Links are below)  
Or

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Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.
 
Patreon:
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Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews!
Here’s one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That’s how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie

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Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise
Read more reviews here:
https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid
 
Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!
 
AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning

Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magician and their tantalizing true tale of an orgy at a Magician’s Conference. And Before you can say ‘Fortune favors the Brave’, Scoby volunteers for their own kind of Hocus Pocus - and Abracadabra, Bawdy Gets You Laid!
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Scoby Goo dove into the worlds of kink and polyamory after attending a Bawdy Storytelling way back in 2014, following the show from San Francisco to LA to Seattle and then Chicago (and later, got onstage to share the stories created!). She now hosts communication and consent workshops, also known as Cuddle Parties, as a certified facilitator. While she can make kombucha (like her namesake: the Symbiotic Colony Of Bacteria and Yeast), she’s more of an emotional fermentation process starter and she also offers intimacy coaching. Learn more at http://emotionalfermentation.com
 
Key Words:
 
Orgy | Magic l Bisexual l Magician l Gay lSiegfried & Roy l Grad School l Seattle l Cabaret l Bar l Storytelling show l Pansexual l Polycule l Crush l Prize l Sex Toys l Stage l Performance l Sleight of Hand l Dibs l 5 Magician Pileup l Levitation l Charlie’s Angels l Mrs Frizzle l Grinding l Fingering l Fisting l Armpit Hair l Coconut Oil l Takes 2 Hands l Assistant l Psoriasis l Cowgirl l Parlor Trick l Party Crasher l Valid l Coming Out l Blonde l Brunette l Redhead l Rose l Threesome l Girlfriend l Partner l Invitation l MakeOut Session l Piercings l SuperFan l Humans l Squishy Bits l Non-Exclusive l Black Box Theater l Volunteer from the Audience l Magic Show l Imposition l Fear l Bother l Afterparty l Just Ask l
 
Episode links:
 
Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews!
Here’s one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That’s how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie
Read more reviews here:
https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid
 
You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There’s also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It’s sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it.
 
Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise
 
Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!
 
AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?
 
How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)  
•    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)
 
Make sure you’re the first to know when registration happens.
Subscrib

Have you ever desperately craved ‘grown-up time’? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they’re determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-themed gathering - uh oh, that could mean breaking their Master’s BDSM agreements! Never one to back down, Phoenix creatively doles out lube, fear, orgasms and dirty talk, and walks away satisfied, proud and better yet, with a deeper understanding of their own boundaries and desires. #SpiritOfTheLaw #IfNotTheLetterOfTheLaw
 
Song: ‘Uh Oh’ (Sub Urban, featuring Benee)
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Phoenix Mandel (they/them) is a Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, counseling, and consulting services in Oakland, California, traveling/ on location, and virtually. They specialize in BDSM, LGBTQIA+, consensual nonmonogamy, sex positivity, and other areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Learn more at: https://phoenixmandel.com/
 
Key Words:
Kink | Gender Identity l Play Party l Pro Dom l Primal Play l Strap-On l Pro Sub l Femme l Chained l Negotiation l Master l Switch l BDSM Contract l D/S Agreement l Puppy Pile l Red Solo Cup l Grown Up Activity l Travel Nanny l Canada l Sex Party l Winter l Simultaneous Orgasm l Good Girl l Buxom l Superhero l Lumberjack l Beard I Prostate l Creativity l Electric l Slave Relationship l Travel Adapter l Magic Wand l Director l Scene l Cuddle Puddle l Sex Educator l Orgasm Denial l Kink Performer l Higher Purpose l Dirty Talk l Lube l Fear l Cockstance l Romantic Orientation l Daddy/Slut l Gender Orientation l
 
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Rachel McCrafty’s Celebration of Life: Can you help us with the costs of cremation, and with the expenses of Rachel’s Celebration of Life gathering this Saturday?
 
Rachel’s GoFundMe is at
https://www.gofundme.com/f/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sad
 
Here’s a few articles about our friend Rachel McCrafty:
• https://makethings.make.co/p/mission-rachel-crafty-sadd
And
• https://www.acemakerspace.org/celebrating-the-life-of-executive-director-rachel-crafty-sadd/
 
And this is Rachel McCrafty’s Gift-O-Matic:
 
Finally, Her Celebration of Life at Ace Makerspace this weekend:
https://www.acemakerspace.org/event/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sadd/
 
Sex Geek Summer Camp:
 
Info about Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp:
https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/I-want-sex-geek-summer-camp-info
 
My Upcoming Story Workshops:
 
My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!
 
AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?
 
How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)  
•    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)
 
Make sure you’re the first to know when registration happens.
Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at
https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe
 
Where should I bring Bawdy next?
Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an

Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week’s story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wielding/childbearing dominatrix, a lactating cam model, and others who find being with child a powerful proposition. Her research - and a permanently plugged in Magic Wand - provide a new perspective on raging hormones, body image, and desire. #KnockedUp
 
Song: ‘Dirty Little Secret’ (Jefferson Bergey)
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Tracy Clark-Flory is a journalist, essayist, and author of the memoir Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire (Penguin, 2021), an NPR best book of the year. New York Times bestselling author Rebecca Traister called Want Me “intimate, challenging, and so very smart… a gift.” Peggy Orenstein, author of the New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex, called it “crucially important.” Clark-Flory has written for Cosmopolitan, Elle, Esquire, Glamour, The Guardian, and The Washington Post, to name just a few. She is a former senior staff writer at Jezebel and Salon. Her work has shown up in the Best Sex Writing anthology and she has been called “one of the best journalists of our generation writing about sexuality.” She writes a weekly newsletter on sex, feminism, motherhood, and pop culture at tracyclarkflory.substack.com.
 
Key Words:
Pregnant | Swollen Belly l Beer Belly l Gangbang l Frat Boys l Casting Couch l Creepy Monsieur l Fetus l Desire l Thought Police l Hormones l Vibrator l Husband l Limitless Orgasms l Missionary l Cowgirl l Journalist l Research l Dominatrix l Weapon I Basketball l Trimester l Ample Curves l Neuroses l Hangups l Biology l Creativity l Lactation l Glowing l Search Term l Whip l Camgirl l Maternity l Slap l Plead l Magic Wand l Nerve Endings l Pickles and Ice Cream l Reproduction l Eroticized l Wholesome Sexuality l Buzz l
 
Episode links:

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My Upcoming Story Workshops:
 
My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!
 
AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?
 
How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)  
•    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include pol

Dixie is back, and so is the Podcast! In this episode: You’ve been told ‘Don’t do Bondage when you’re High’, but have you ever heard a true story that illustrated that point? Well, Science tells us that we learn best from a story, so this week, we have an informative ‘Don’t Try This at Home’ story for you. Punk Rock Leather Daddy Al Rahm Lujan was a mere 20 years old and fresh out of the Navy, and just beginning to explore his dominant nature. Young and unskilled at bondage (but eager to play), Al meets a submissive man with a unique fetish for tasseled loafers and business suits, so he picks up a pair of dress shoes at Kmart and they take their party to a secret lair. Al has his victim on a St Andrews cross and is using whips, floggers, nipple clamps and more on him - when the evening takes an unexpected turn. The submissive turns blue, the EMTs, Firefighters and Police are called, and their dangerous experience becomes a life lesson. Will Al get arrested for being Drunk and Kinky? Listen to discover the consequences of an impulsive (and intoxicated) adventure that helped Al get Sober. #GetSmart
 
Song: ‘All in the Suit that You Wear’ (Stone Temple Pilots)
 
About our Storyteller:
 
Al Rahm Lujan is a Bay Area Renaissance Daddy. His writing has appeared in numerous anthologies and publications, including Best American Erotica and Drummer Magazine. His visual art has been shown throughout the Bay Area, including Yerba Buena Center for the Arts and the Oakland Museum. His first short film, SM in the Hood is distributed by Frameline and if he hadn't maxed out his credit cards he might have completed his documentary CLN SBR PNX - True Stories of Chaos, Hope, Redemption and PUNK ROCK. He's a literal dad to a lovely young lady and a Mean Daddy to His Boy Robb.
 
Kink | Rope l Gay l Leather l Bondage l Loafers l Ferragamo l Yves St. Laurent l Daddy l Alcoholic l Bartender | Punk Rock l Latino l Lawyer l Navy l Vintage Kink Story l Rich l Batman’s Lair l Dominant l Eastern European I Funeral Suit l Sushi l Tasseled Loafers l Hot Carl l Omar Sharif l Dr. Zhivago l Ceviche l Law Office l Whiskey l St Andrews Cross l Whip l Flogger l Handcuffs l Nipple Clamps l Butt plug l Dildo l Spreader Bar l Sober l Dress Shoes l Suit and Tie l Snakeskin l Police Officer l EMT l Firefighter l Dom l Jewish l Cock Cage l Spiderman l 911 l Prison l Unconscious l My Eyes are Up Here l Batman’s Lair l
 
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