Finding Your One: From Single to Your Ideal Relationship with Your Perfect Partner Oren Weintraub

Have you ever been in a period of your life when you've felt sooo ready for love, but then some time later realized, looking back, that you were sooo NOT ready? This begs the question: what is it that's so obvious to us in hindsight that we couldn't see in the moment?

Join me and special guest Nancy C. Normand, as we dive into what it means  to be truly ready for love, and - if upon introspection you realize you're not - how you can get ready.

Nancy C. Normand is a coach who helps people get unstuck, powerfully make important life decisions, and jump in with two feet. You get in touch with her through her website  or follow her on Facebook.

Get in the game and enjoy the ride!

This is the MASTER OF ALL KEYS: If I want to be with an amazing person, are you being the amazing person they would want to be with? If you want to Find the One, You Have to Be the One!

Since the day I discovered this invaluable principle , I have been devoted to being the One like a daily practice. And when things aren’t looking too good, and I do a little soul searching, sure enough an opportunity always turns up for me to step up.

In this episode I share 5 invaluable practices for being the One:
1. Do things that make you happy.
2. Do things that require self-reflection.
3. Do the things you've always wanted to do.
4. Do work that fulfills you.
5. Be good with you.
Oh yeah... and do these things before you're involved with someone!

Listen and enjoy!

How will you know when you've met THE ONE? Listen and discover 3 essential things that will ensure you know them when you see them:
1. A vision for your life, with or without them,
2. A profile of the person, even though you've most likely never met, and
3. A courageous decision, declared verbally

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8 Vision Domains
1.    Health / Wellness
2.    Career / Professional life
3.    Relationship / Love life
4.    Family
5.    Financial / Wealth domain
6.    Social life
7.    Community / Causes
8.    Spirituality

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16 Profile Questions
1.    Their physical description (don’t worry about being shallow, we all have a “type”)
2.    Personality traits
3.    Food preferences
4.    Favorite activities (hobbies, sports, pastimes)
5.    Music preferences
6.    Movie preferences
7.    How would you spend a perfect weekend?
8.    How would you spend a perfect vacation?
9.    Life experiences
10. Professional / career path
11. Academic background
12. Childhood and upbringing
13. What’s their family like and what’s their relationship with their family like?
14. Ethnicity / religious beliefs
15. Their worldview, what are their positions on issues that are important to you?
16. If part of your goal for the One is kids, what sort of parent are they?

How does Dating for the One differ from what you might call ordinary dating? What kind of mindset does someone have when they're dating and committed to creating their ideal relationship with their perfect partner, versus not being committed to that? What do you say when you're on a date and someone asks you the big question, “What are you looking for?” And if, after a date, the person was not right for you, how do you cleanly and compassionately end things with them and move forward? Listen to find out!

Deep down inside, there’s still a dream – one you dare not entertain or listen to – that one day you could be with the love of your life and live happily ever after. If that’s you, this podcast is for you. If you’re a hopelessly romantic like me, and you’re single and stuck, and you don’t understand why it’s taking so long to find The One... that’s what this podcast is about.
In this first episode Hope for the Hopelessly Romantic 
1.    The 4 Most Common Reasons People Stay Single and Struggling
2.    My Single and Struggling Story
3.    A Brighter Future