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A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis XO Podcast Network

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 2.5 • 2 Ratings

A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.

    Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?

    Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?

    Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We are Dave and Ashley Willis, and we are thrilled to continue our intimacy series. In this series, we are diving deep into the essentials of intimacy—emotional, physical, and spiritual—and explore the vital role of communication and trust in fostering a healthy marriage. Each episode is designed to help couples build unbreakable trust and deepen their connection through transparent and open dialogue. We share insights from our own marriage and biblical principles to guide you through common challenges and improve your relationship. Join us as we help you remove barriers and embrace a fully intimate, "naked" marriage free from secrets and full of lifelong love. Tune in to grow closer to your spouse and strengthen your marital bond as we dive in on what trust adds to your marriage.
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    Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction to Intimacy Types 
    Overview of emotional, sexual/physical, and spiritual intimacy.

    02:50 - The Importance of Communication and Trust 
    How active communication and trust are foundational to intimacy.

    04:33- The Digital Dilemma: Presence Over Screens 
    Challenges of digital distractions and the importance of mindfulness.

    06:58 - Secrets: The Enemy of Intimacy 
    Why secrecy sabotages intimacy and how transparency can rebuild it.

    09:22 - Restoring Trust After It’s Broken 
    Strategies for rebuilding trust with honesty and frequent check-ins.

    11:37- Healing and Forgiveness Post-Betrayal 
    The process of healing, the necessity of forgiveness, and managing challenging emotions.

    13:55 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust 
    Guidance on restoring trust through consistent and transparent actions.

    16:15 - The Role of Apology and Repentance 
    The importance of genuine apologies and repentance in trust restoration.

    18:34 - Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Intimacy 
    Gradual rebuilding of intimacy, akin to healing a physical injury, including setting boundaries.

    20:58 - Support Systems and Counseling 
    Using counseling and support systems to aid the recovery process.

    23:22 - Grief and Emotion Management 
    Handling emotional and grief processes in relationship rebuilding.

    25:34 - Empowering the Wronged Spouse 
    Supporting the wronged spouse through emotional expression and prayer.

    27:57 - Forgiveness and Re-Earning Trust 
    Distinguishing between forgiveness and trust, and methods for re-earning trust for enhanced intimacy.

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    • 32 min
    Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

    Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: Should We Orgasm Together
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    • 7 min
    The Keys to Rebuilding Intimacy in Your Marriage

    The Keys to Rebuilding Intimacy in Your Marriage

    We are so excited to be starting our new intimacy series on the Naked Marriage Podcast, and we can't wait to embark on this journey with you! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the intricate layers of intimacy within marriage. From emotional to physical, spiritual, and sexual intimacy, we delve into the essential components that strengthen the bond between partners. Join us as we offer practical insights and tips for nurturing intimacy in your marriage. Let's dive in together and build deeper connections!
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    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Overview
    02:23 Defining Intimacy
    05:31 Emotional Intimacy
    16:22 Spiritual Intimacy
    27:27 The Key to Better Intimacy: Vulnerability and Consistency
    29:48 The Power of Praying Together in Marriage
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    • 32 min
    I'm Starting To Resent My Spouse // Hump Day Q&A

    I'm Starting To Resent My Spouse // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:How do I stop resenting my spouse after everything we've been through?
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    • 9 min
    The Anatomy of Anxiety with Dr. John Delony

    The Anatomy of Anxiety with Dr. John Delony

    Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of anxiety with Dr. John Deloney. He sheds light on the origins of anxiety in our modern, fast-paced world and stresses the significance of identifying its signs. Dr. Deloney shares insightful personal anecdotes and practical strategies to cultivate a non-anxious life, emphasizing the importance of seeking support and connection. Tune in for invaluable advice on finding peace and success in every aspect of life.
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    Takeaways

    Anxiety is a result of living in a fast-paced and distracting world that our bodies were not designed for.

    Recognizing the signs of anxiety, such as difficulty sleeping, avoidance of intimacy, and numbing behaviors, is crucial for addressing the issue.

    Choosing reality and getting connected with trusted individuals who can provide support and guidance are important steps towards healing and finding peace.

    Creating a non-anxious life involves intentional planning, setting boundaries, and prioritizing physical, mental, and spiritual health.

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    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Background
    03:10 The Rise of Anxiety
    06:00 The Inspiration for the Book
    07:29 The Causes of Anxiety
    10:37 Creating a Non-Anxious Life
    22:53 Choosing Reality and Getting Connected
    26:39 Taking Steps Towards Health and Success
    28:28 Where to Find the Book
    28:54 Conclusion and Call to Action
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    • 31 min
    I Don't Want To Be My Spouse's Parent // Hump Day Q&A

    I Don't Want To Be My Spouse's Parent // Hump Day Q&A

    Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I communicate with my husband about the stuff I'd like to be done around the house without sounding like his mother?
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    • 6 min

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