Sex With Dr. Jess Dr. Jessica O'Reilly

How do you keep things exciting in the midst of a repetitive routine? How can adults be more playful (because playfulness is associated with happier relationships & hotter sex)? What simple changes can you implement to make your daily interactions more fun, passionate and erotic -- even if you're super busy?



You're not a light switch, so you likely can't get turned on in the blink of an eye. This week to celebrate our wedding anniversary, we share 20+ specific strategies and action items you can use to make your relationship more romantic, intimate and erotic.



Thanks to the fabulous pearl vibrator, OhMyG, for their support of this episode. Save 30% with code DRJESS & be sure to check them out and watch my demo on IG here.

What are the causes of pain postpartum? How can you soothe your own pain and what exercises and massage techniques can help? What does self massage entail — both directly and indirectly? And how do you assess readiness for sex postpartum? How does a Caesarian birth affect sexual functioning?



Perinatal Therapist, Janette Yee, joins us to answer these questions and more.



Janette's Caesarean Birth Selfcare course is now available for sign up at any time. Previously the four lessons were taught live; now they're available pre-recorded, along with over 20 how-to videos illustrating self-massage techniques and exercises. Cost: $199



Introductory bonus: access to 6 months of weekly live online group classes with Janette every Wednesday at 1pm EST. She teaches a mini-lesson, runs a mini-workout, and answers questions. All recorded and available to all students within 24 hours. (Value: $2600)



Follow Janette on Instagram & LinkedIn.



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A listener shares their story and feelings after having had cheated on their long-term partner. They ask for help managing the guilt and shame and Jess & Brandon weigh in on the topic with a discussion of:



Whether or not to tell your partner about an affair

Why talking about cheating can be helpful in all relationships

How to talk about affairs in the hypothetical to improve understanding in relationships

How the language of confession can feel burdensome

How to manage feelings of guilt

How to forgive yourself

How to work through feelings of shame

How to practice self-compassion

How to learn from previous regrets



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Adam Maurer joins us to crush on Brandon, sass Jess (with love) and answer your sex questions including:



How do I pick between partners — a safe partner versus one with whom the sex is hotter?

How do I deal with the fact that I love my boyfriend, but I’m no longer find him physically appealing?

How can fetishes reduce stress and cultivate connection?

What can we do to maintain attraction over time?

What can we do to make the relationship run more smoothly?

How can individual's growth potentially threaten a relationship?

How do trauma responses affect partner and relationship decisions?

How do I deal with a dental visit knowing that I have a dental fetish?



Follow Adam on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.



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The brilliant Luna Matatas joins us to answer your sex and pleasure questions including:



How do you stimulate the prostate?

What are the best a**l toys for beginners?

What are lactation fetishes?

Does size matter?

How do I get over body image issues before I go to a play party?

How can I bring up fetishes to a partner?

How can we normalize a**l play and pegging?

How can I pleasure my partner externally?



Follow Luna on Facebook, Twitter, Youtube & Instagram. Be sure to listen to The Plug Podcast with Luna Matatas.



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Dr. Shari Nicole, Psychologist and Key Consultant of Everyday Psychology, joins us to talk about the importance and challenge of adult friendships. We discuss cutoff culture, attachments styles, boosting confidence and more including answers to these common questions:



How many friends do most people have?

How do childhood experiences affect adult friendships?

How do you know if a friendship is worth saving?

How do you know that it’s time to break up with a friend?

How do you go about breaking up with a friend?

How do friendships affect intimate relationships?

How do friendships differ according to gender?

How can you be more confident in your friendships?



Follow Dr. Shari on Instagram and Facebook. Be sure to check out her podcast 3 Psychs and a Mic.



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