3 episodes

We are two women. Two normal, regular, ordinary women just like you. And just like many of you, we have loved monsters. We have felt the shock, the confusion, the heartbreak, the trauma, and, yes, the overwhelming shame of ever letting these perpetrators get to us. But the thing is, the more we decided to share our stories, the more we learned that we are a legion. Almost every single person we have shared our stories with, has a similar story. The same story. It turns out that the Cluster B personality disorders - the psychopath, the sociopath, the narcissist, the borderline, and all the other antisocial personality disorders - are far more common that we knew. Devastating, but common. We are not alone. You are not alone. We started this podcast to share our truths and listen to yours. To share heartbreak and shame, to tell cautionary tales, to encourage, and to love. We are here to change ourselves and our communities, because we know the antisocial personality disorder cannot be cured, much less treated. And we are here to laugh with you - because, frankly, once you see this “thing” for what it is and you escape it, looking back can be pretty funny. Trust us. This is our story. It is your story too. We hope you join us. S&M

I Bet You Think This Podcast Is About You S&M

    • Society & Culture

We are two women. Two normal, regular, ordinary women just like you. And just like many of you, we have loved monsters. We have felt the shock, the confusion, the heartbreak, the trauma, and, yes, the overwhelming shame of ever letting these perpetrators get to us. But the thing is, the more we decided to share our stories, the more we learned that we are a legion. Almost every single person we have shared our stories with, has a similar story. The same story. It turns out that the Cluster B personality disorders - the psychopath, the sociopath, the narcissist, the borderline, and all the other antisocial personality disorders - are far more common that we knew. Devastating, but common. We are not alone. You are not alone. We started this podcast to share our truths and listen to yours. To share heartbreak and shame, to tell cautionary tales, to encourage, and to love. We are here to change ourselves and our communities, because we know the antisocial personality disorder cannot be cured, much less treated. And we are here to laugh with you - because, frankly, once you see this “thing” for what it is and you escape it, looking back can be pretty funny. Trust us. This is our story. It is your story too. We hope you join us. S&M

    I Hate Dating...Nevermind He Just Texted Me Back

    I Hate Dating...Nevermind He Just Texted Me Back

    S and M discuss today's toxic dating environment with guest and reformed-dating-guru, Linda.  Have dating apps like Bumble and Tinder created an environment where narcissists thrive and predators find easy prey?  What are some red flags to look for?  And is it even worth it???  Join us as we answer these questions.  Or try to.  Maybe. 

    • 39 min
    The Tangled Web

    The Tangled Web

    Serially lied-to "Tina" joins S and Linda in a discussion of liars, lying, and uncovering the truth.  Why do people with Axis II personality disorders lie habitually, what are some of the doozies we have heard (maybe even, sadly, believed), and what happens when we uncover the sordid terrible truth?  If you have ever had someone in your life who looks you in the eyes and lies unabashedly, you want to listen in.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    The Divorce Bitches

    The Divorce Bitches

    "The Divorce Bitches"...or "The Divorce, Bitches"?  We are sure which.  Divorce attorneys from Thacker Sleight selected the title themselves when they joined S and Linda for a discussion of what happens in and out of the courtroom when you divorce a narcissist, borderline, or sociopath.  What can you expect from your toxic soon-to-be ex?  Join us and find out. 

    • 38 min

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