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Jamie Blume is the Founder and CEO of Alone Their Way, an organization dedicated to empowering people with ADHD and helping them reach their potential. Jamie is a certified ADHD and Life Coach an IFS and IFIO Coach, an educator at the ADD Coach Academy, a mentor of aspiring coaches, and the Chair of the Education Committee for ADDA.

As a life-long learner, Jamie believes in educating and creating awareness about ADHD to support overall healing, growth, and transformation. In her practice, Jamie supports individuals and families by integrating health, wellness, and nutrition into her coaching and by incorporating the healing properties of nature, mindfulness, and self-compassion into her work.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jamie Blume about shame and ADHD

Parenting is Leadership
Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Jamie discusses the importance of understanding how shame contributes to emotional dysregulation in individuals with ADHD.

Jamie emphasizes focusing on the wins, positives, strengths, and talents of younger kids with ADSHD to help build confidence and a better sense of self.

Jamie also explains the importance of staying calm during tough conversations to build self-confidence and resilience.

Elaine stresses the importance of setting intentions before taking action – something that is often overlooked in a community where the focus tends to be on quick fixes. Slowing down and understanding the situation and setting clear intentions can help reduce fear and anxiety.


Related Links:
Along Their Way Website: alongtheirway.com
Three Steps to Learn from Mistakes Without Shame: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/
Take the Shame Out of Making A Mess: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/keep-their-mistakes-to-yourself/
Why and How to Teach Kids to Fail Forward: https://impactparents.com/books/why-and-how-to-teach-kids-to-fail-forward/
Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/
Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U
Parenting with Presence: Celebrating Neurodiversity in Kids and Adults: https://youtu.be/6SApHN_Jswg
Treatment vs. Support: What Do Complex Families Need?: https://youtu.be/F46WANGkmqU
Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness: https://youtu.be/jIKZtEKBBKk


Connect with Jamie:
Website: https://alongtheirway.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/alongtheirway/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/alongtheirway/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-blume-78782653/

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Parenting is a journey filled with challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. One of the most important skills parents can learn is the art of fixing vs. helping. It's a delicate balance that can have a profound impact on a child's development and well-being.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about fixing vs helping.

Motivation Guide
In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Diane and Elaine stress the importance of letting children know that it's okay to seek assistance, fostering collaboration and problem-solving skills.
Elaine and Diane agree; by staying composed, both parents and children can navigate difficulties effectively, validate emotions, and engage in collaborative problem-solving.
Elaine and Diane stress the importance of understanding and fostering resilience in children, especially in the context of neurodiversity.

Links Mentioned:
Parenting Style Quiz: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/free-parenting-style-quiz?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=podcast-episode-163&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-style-quiz-new
Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s
How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0
Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?: https://youtu.be/tK52aEi_VgM?si=eqikl2AjSQX_dIGS
Ask Your Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/ask-kids/
Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake A New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/

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Award-winning author Alysson graduated from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a degree in elementary education. She is a certified elementary education teacher and earned a law degree from the Southern University Law Center. After practicing law for six years, she traded in writing trial briefs for writing children’s books. Her books featuring Alycat have been recipients of the NYC Big Book Award, the Mom’s Choice Awards, have been featured in Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and People Magazine; and have appeared in the Oscars celebrity swag bag and the Grammy Awards gift bag. Bourque enjoys speaking with children and teachers at schools and libraries and she hopes to inspire others to believe in themselves and their work and to keep pursuing their dreams.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Alysson Foti Bourque about the Alycat book series.
Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks
In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.

UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/bonus-minimize-meltdowns-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=mm

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Alysson highlights the importance of instilling bravery in children. By celebrating small victories and encouraging problem-solving, kids can develop important tools to navigate life's challenges.
The Alycat series serves as a great example of using storytelling to help children navigate complex emotions and friendships.
Alysson’s books showcase the value of relying on friends during challenging times. By working together and offering support, children can learn to conquer their fears and navigate difficult situations.

Links Mentioned:
Lessons From Celebration: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/lessons-from-celebration/
Learn From Mistakes: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/
Combat Your Anxiety and ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/combat-your-anxiety-and-adhd/
ADHD Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kids-believe-what-parents-tell-them-to-believe/
Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times with Susan Stiffleman: https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVU
Black Woman Psychotherapist & Coach on ADHD, Resilience & Community with Ingershaye Colzie : https://youtu.be/ky6tjmfoUZc
Alycat Series Website: www.alycatseries.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseries

Connect with Alysson:
Website: www.alycatseries.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseries


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Stop the Roller Coaster, I want to get off! In today's fast-paced world, resilience and flexibility are crucial for survival. With constant changes happening around us, being able to adapt and bounce back from challenges is key to thriving in this environment.

Understanding complex children is also essential for their well-being and development. Each child is unique, with their own set of needs and characteristics. By taking the time to truly understand and connect with them, we can support their growth and help them navigate the complexities of the world.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about stress, anxiety and difficult situations.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents
Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Diane discusses the significance of self-talk and coaching oneself through difficult situations, underscoring the need to help parents navigate challenging circumstances with resilience.
Elaine emphasizes the need to find a balance between anticipating potential challenges and not overwhelming oneself with excessive planning.
Diane encourages listeners to celebrate small wins along the way, acknowledging that life is full of ups and downs like to a rollercoaster ride.

Links Mentioned:
A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/a-parents-best-question-is-it-naughty-or-neurological/
Parenting Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-kids-with-adhd/
Shedding the Shoulds: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/shedding-the-shoulds/
Navigating Parenthood: Embracing the Coach Approach: https://youtu.be/SbN75MWckn4
This Too Shall Pass: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/this-too-shall-pass/
Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s
Expect the Unexpected: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/set-realistic-expectations/
Sanity School: https://impactparents.securechkout.net/ssp?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=ssp

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This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Sonja shares her story of seeking support and guidance while utilizing a coaching approach that fosters independence.

Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Sonja about seeking support and guidance.

Parenting is Leadership
Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Sonja stresses the need to shift from completing tasks for the child to empowering them to seek help and overcome challenges independently.
Sonja highlights the importance of adapting parenting strategies to meet the individual needs of each child.
Sonja emphasizes the need for parents to understand and embrace the unique needs and viewpoints of each child, ultimately enhancing the child's environment for growth and development.


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Rules, boundaries and agreements are essential components of a healthy family dynamic. They help set expectations, create structure, and foster communication among family members. However, navigating these aspects can sometimes be challenging. Let's delve into how accountability measures, collaborative agreements, and setting boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining harmony within a family setting.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about rules, boundaries and agreements
Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids
Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE
Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of understanding the distinctions between rules, agreements, and boundaries.
Regular accountability checks within agreements can enhance collaboration and mutual understanding within the family; this practice fosters a sense of responsibility and accountability among family members, ultimately strengthening the family dynamic.
Setting boundaries is crucial for protecting one's emotional well-being. Boundaries guide children towards independence, self-ownership, and responsibility.

Links Mentioned:
Alone At The Table
Parenting Together:  Getting on the Same Page
House Rules Rule!
Learn From Mistakes
Relationships By Design 
I've Tried Everything and Nothing Works
Help for Kids Starts with Parents 
Effective Agreements


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@impactparents
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