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08 Self-Sabotage ~ When I can't feel the positive outcome of my creation, I lose confidence in creating it The Confidence Column

    • Self-Improvement

With her permission, I'd like to share a piece of advice I gave a work colleague this week while she's in the midst of creating her latest online course: 

I feel amazing in the movement of creation, not following someone else’s rules, going for it, believing amazing things will happen from this creation. Then I get to my challenge, and, I keep repeatedly coming back to this, every cycle, every year I’ve been trying to create something new. My challenge is with not feeling like the outcome I want is possible. I’m just not feeling the outcome. I quickly get back into a rut. I get back in my head and body and I’m like “nah, I ain’t feeling this.” Then I get frustrated cuz I’m not “feeling” this. I want to physically feel the outcome. I want to get into the excitement of that outcome and do the work in that feeling.

So that when I do the work I feel good about it cuz it gets me closer to this outcome.

I know that things don’t have to be perfect to manifest.

You don’t have to be perfectly healed with no limiting beliefs with perfect alignment to make good things.

You just work through the messy stuff. And still, I get dragged in this rut when I can’t feel the outcome or get a good feeling about the outcome.

Do I have more healing to do?

Do I have more blocks to get rid of?

Do I have confidence I need to work on?

I’m sick of feeling like something is in the way I have to work on before I can get the feeling...and keep working

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With her permission, I'd like to share a piece of advice I gave a work colleague this week while she's in the midst of creating her latest online course: 

I feel amazing in the movement of creation, not following someone else’s rules, going for it, believing amazing things will happen from this creation. Then I get to my challenge, and, I keep repeatedly coming back to this, every cycle, every year I’ve been trying to create something new. My challenge is with not feeling like the outcome I want is possible. I’m just not feeling the outcome. I quickly get back into a rut. I get back in my head and body and I’m like “nah, I ain’t feeling this.” Then I get frustrated cuz I’m not “feeling” this. I want to physically feel the outcome. I want to get into the excitement of that outcome and do the work in that feeling.

So that when I do the work I feel good about it cuz it gets me closer to this outcome.

I know that things don’t have to be perfect to manifest.

You don’t have to be perfectly healed with no limiting beliefs with perfect alignment to make good things.

You just work through the messy stuff. And still, I get dragged in this rut when I can’t feel the outcome or get a good feeling about the outcome.

Do I have more healing to do?

Do I have more blocks to get rid of?

Do I have confidence I need to work on?

I’m sick of feeling like something is in the way I have to work on before I can get the feeling...and keep working

SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE >>>

Follow The Confidence Column and Amber Rose
instagram.com/vibrantamberrose
facebook.com/theconfidencecolumn
theconfidencecolumn.com/links

FULL TRANSCRIPT HERE >>>

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