101 Ways Out

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Have you ever felt stuck, trapped, and unhappy, wishing for a way out? Did you check all the boxes, climb the ladder, and realize you weren't happy? 101 Ways Out exists for that moment. In this series, I interview people from all walks of life who got to that exact point and realized they could take action to build the life of their dreams. My goal is to share their stories to inspire you to do the same.

  1. Sep 7

    Way Out #29: From Silicon Valley Hyper-Growth to Redesigning Maternity Leave with Kelly Ling

    What happens when the high-speed treadmill of Silicon Valley hyper-growth collides head-on with the messy, unpredictable reality of human life? In this episode of 101 Ways Out, host Vanessa Jupe sits down with Kelly Ling, founder of Stork and Spark. On paper, Kelly had the ultimate corporate playbook: UC Berkeley grad, Deloitte CPA, and a key leader who helped scale DoorDash’s learning and development team through its pre-IPO frenzy. But after a life-threatening pregnancy condition, two months of mandatory hospital bed rest, and later a surprise layoff while on her second maternity leave, Kelly chose a radically different path. Instead of jumping back onto the corporate hamster wheel, she walked away to build a life on her own terms. Kelly shares how she navigated living on one-sixth of her former salary, why she intentionally set zero revenue targets for year one, and how she restructured her days around presence, sensory grounding, and a 3-hour daily commute for her son’s early intervention programs. In this episode, we dive into: How an early background in competitive figure skating shaped Kelly’s high-achieving mindset—and how she unlearned it. The wake-up call of being hospitalized at 25 weeks pregnant and realizing the tech engine keeps spinning without you. How getting laid off on maternity leave became the greatest permission slip to pivot. De-risking entrepreneurship by side-coaching for five years before leaping. Why ambition and motherhood don't have to be an either/or choice.  Connect with Kelly Ling: Website: storkandspark.comSubstack: kellystorkandspark.substack.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kellyling

  2. Aug 12

    Way Out #28: From a Toxic Marriage to Freedom with Mary Sinclair Kowalski

    How do you walk away from marital wealth to save your sanity? In this episode of 101 Ways Out, Mary Sinclair Kowalski joins me to share her raw, unfiltered story of escaping a toxic, emotionally abusive marriage and surviving a high-conflict divorce. To the outside world, Mary had it all: she was married to a Microsoft executive and vacationing at luxury Disney resorts. But inside her home, she lived under a suffocating regime of psychological and emotional control. When that toxic control began to creep toward her young son, Garrett, Mary's maternal instincts took over. She called the police to escort her husband out of their home and made the decision to cut him out of her life.  To escape the abuse and protect her son, Mary walked away from his wealth, choosing temporary poverty and peace of mind over a gilded cage. We dive deep into her journey of reconstruction, including: - Reclaiming yourself after years of abuse. - Choosing becoming a flight attendant instead of a therapist. - The terrifying near-death experience that gave Mary her superpower. - Practical strategies for protecting your peace, including 14-Day Prayer for Forgiveness. Connect with Mary: Instagram: @slugbugmary Facebook: Mary Sinclair Kowalski --- 101 Ways Out explores how thoughtful, capable people step away from inherited definitions of success and begin designing lives rooted in freedom, meaning, and joy. Through intimate conversations with founders, creatives, coaches, executives, and explorers, host Vanessa Jupe uncovers the moments that changed everything: burnout, clarity, fear, courage, and the decision to choose a different path. These are not overnight success stories. They are real conversations about identity, autonomy, money, fear, creativity, and what it actually takes to build a life that lights you up. 🎧 New episodes weekly 🌱 Part of the 101 Ways Out transformation platform 🔗 Learn more: (https://101WaysOut.com) 📷 Instagram: (https://instagram.com/101waysout) 💼 LinkedIn: (https://linkedin.com/company/101waysout/)

  3. Aug 3

    Way Out #27: 50 Years of Business, Boundary-Breaking, and the Art of the Pivot with Rick Loesel

    How do you build a sustainable, high-impact career spanning five decades without losing your soul to the corporate machine? In this episode of 101 Ways Out, host Vanessa Jupe profiles Rick Loesel, a retired senior supply chain executive and consultant. From his "white bread idyllic" childhood on Long Island to the high-stakes world of international logistics in London, Rick has spent his life breaking boundaries and redefining what is possible in distribution, retail, and corporate leadership. In this episode, we discuss: - How growing up in a close-knit Long Island town built a foundation of honesty and team-first accountability. - The "Fried Apple Pie Rebellion" at Campbell Soup and the frustration of corporate rigidity. - The raw reality of discovering embezzlement in a family business and knowing when to walk away. - How a minor car crash made him realize the vulnerability of being a "one-man band" solopreneur. - The logistics revolution: How Rick pitched the CEOs of H-E-B and Publix to cut inventory from 30 days to 7 days. - The liquidation of P&O by the Royal Family of Dubai and transitioning into advisory work. - The "Barbershop Pitch": Rick’s legendary story of landing a major client while sitting in a barber chair. - The modern "Keeper of the Keys" strategy for identifying real decision-makers. - Why young professionals today must actively immerse themselves in AI. Connect with Rick: Email: rloesr01@gmail.com

  4. Jul 21

    Way Out #26: From Clinical Burnout to Health Coach with Katie Cooper

    Are you a high-achieving professional struggling with severe burnout but terrified to walk away from a stable career? In this episode of 101 Ways Out, I speak with Katie Cooper, founder of Katie Cooper Wellness. Katie spent nearly two decades climbing the clinical leadership ladder in occupational therapy. But when the COVID-19 pandemic stripped away the resources of her healthcare system, she found herself physically and emotionally depleted. Instead of giving up, she used her crisis as a catalyst. She trained as a health coach, pioneered an internal wellness program for over 500 of her peers, and ultimately quit to build a business on her own terms. In this episode, we discuss: How early-life transitions and childhood moves build leadership adaptability.The reality of giving up a dream job at Walter Reed for a sudden international relocation.Navigating the ethical and linguistic boundaries of practicing medicine in a foreign country.The raw reality of front-line clinical burnout during early COVID-19.How to pitch and prove the ROI of an intrapreneurial program inside a corporate structure.How a 40th birthday trip to Sedona and a simple post-it note triggered her exit strategy.Overcoming the "Ego Death" of shifting your professional identity and managing a temporary income dip.The power of a physical Brag Book to combat self-doubt. Follow Katie's journey: Website: ⁠https://www.katiecooperwellness.com/⁠Instagram: ⁠http://instagram.com/katiecooperwellness ⁠ Don't forget to subscribe to 101 Ways Out and give us a 5 star rating!

  5. Jul 13

    Way Out #25: From Corporate Climb to Making Wine with Sarah Lyons

    What happens when you achieve the high-powered media executive titles and financial success you’ve spent your life chasing, but realize your deepest need is simply to create? Former HBO Max and DIRECTV senior executive Sarah Lyons shares her journey of building Lyons Vineyard, navigating the jarring identity shift after leaving corporate life, and designing a reality where you never have to wish away "five-sevenths" of your week. 🍷 Explore Lyons Vineyard & Order a Bottle: https://www.lyonsvineyard.com/ 💡 IN THIS EPISODE: The Importance of Creation (Art, Apps, and Wine) Sarah discusses how her lifelong need to create has connected every phase of her life—from painting and sculpting as a kid to cope with social stress, to designing and launching digital apps, to her current venture in winemaking. She shares why having constraints and parameters actually makes you more creative, and why she views a bottle of wine as a literal "time capsule" of Mother Nature’s changing variables each year. Childhood Agency and Independence Growing up as an independent only child of a Navy intelligence officer, Sarah learned self-reliance early. She credits her mother for fostering her sense of agency through a brilliant childhood rule: she could take any lesson or activity she wanted, but she had to research the cost, schedules, and details herself first and pitch it. Navigating the Corporate Identity Crisis For career-driven professionals, job titles often define how we introduce ourselves and evaluate our worth. Sarah opens up about the profound mental shock of leaving WarnerMedia and wrestling with the question: "Who am I if I don't have this job?" She shares practical tips on navigating this transition, including the psychological importance of maintaining a daily routine. The Blueprint for Optionality & Financial Literacy Sarah and her husband have always been highly conscientious savers, treating financial planning as a tool to purchase life flexibility. She shares how they run financial planning scenarios like a business, and how she is already passing this mindset to her 12-year-old son by explaining credit card mechanics, matching his savings, and helping him invest in an AI index fund. Essential Career Wisdom Sarah delivers two standout pieces of advice for corporate professionals: Always take every recruiter call, even when you are perfectly happy in your job, to build an active network of industry sounding boards and allies. Motherhood as a corporate superpower: When she returned from maternity leave, Sarah reflected on her new mindset: "If I can deal with a newborn baby, I can deal with any crazy executive at work." 🔗 CONNECT WITH SARAH LYONS Website: https://www.lyonsvineyard.com/ (Explore the backstory & order a bottle!) Newsletter: Sign up on her website to receive personal updates straight from the vineyard. About 101 Ways Out For more inspiring stories and to see how you can change your life, visit www.101waysout.com #Entrepreneurship #CorporateExit #FinancialLiteracy #Winemaking #LyonsVineyard #CareerTransition

  6. Jun 29

    Way Out #24: From Selling to Sailing with Talica Davies

    "My brain and my intellect will tell me how to do something. And my heart is going to tell me what to do." In this episode of 101 Ways Out, we sit down with Talica Davies, a sales consultant for founders who radically transformed her life by choosing happiness over success. Raised in rural Nova Scotia with intense academic pressure and facing the painful reality of racism that left her feeling like she never quite belonged, Talica spent years trapped in a cutthroat, "finance bro" banking environment, using aggressive sales tactics just to make her family proud. The loss of her father served as a wake-up call, prompting her to quit her corporate job, unlearn toxic sales behaviors, and eventually spend two years sailing around the world with her husband. Today, she runs her own business, champions an unfiltered, hilarious online presence, and helps solopreneurs sell with genuine curiosity instead of pressure. In this episode, you will learn: -- How to unlearn the "Always Be Closing" mentality and replace it with "Always Be Curious". -- Why logic and intellect should support your gut instincts, not override them. -- How to stop comparing your messy pivot to the friends who have stayed in the exact same career lane since university. -- Why high-achieving women must stop allowing themselves to be valued solely for their physical labor, and start charging for what is "between their ears". -- The liberation of refusing to work with toxic clients. 🔗 Links & Resources: Follow Talica on LinkedIn for her brilliant, snarky sales advice! ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/talicadavies/⁠ Want to chat about your own Way Out? Grab some time on Vanessa's calendar: ⁠https://calendly.com/leva-app/leva-vanessa-c200⁠ --- 101 Ways Out explores how thoughtful, capable people step away from inherited definitions of success and begin designing lives rooted in freedom, meaning, and joy. 🎧 New episodes weekly 🔗 Learn more: (⁠https://101WaysOut.com⁠)

  7. Jun 18

    Way Out 23: From Corporate Gaslighting to Total Freedom with Karol Figueroa

    "Corporate for many people tends to be our longest emotionally abusive relationship." In this episode of 101 Ways Out, we sit down with Karol Figueroa, who achieved the ultimate corporate dream as a Director at Microsoft, only to realize the "matrix" was a trap. After dedicating 12 years to a company, she watched them coldly dismiss her need for flexibility during a grueling, $100,000 custody battle. But the real wake-up call came from her 4-year-old daughter. While Karol was working late one night to pay for a lavish lifestyle, her daughter looked at her and said the five words that changed Karol's life forever: "Mom, but I already love you." Today, Karol is the Founder and CEO of HIK Trainings. She traded her BMW for an electric Mini Cooper, fired her toxic corporate bosses, and built a life where she has the ultimate freedom to be fully present with her family. In this episode, you will learn: →Why corporate loyalty is an illusion (and how to protect yourself). →How to handle toxic managers and narcissistic gaslighting in the workplace. →The exact financial strategy Karol used (including leveraging company stock) to fund her escape. →Why you must uncouple your identity from your job title. →How to stop buying your way to happiness and redefine what "success" actually looks like. 🔗 Links & Resources: Connect with Karol & HIK Trainings: www.hiktrainings.com Want to chat about your own Way Out? Grab some time on Vanessa's calendar: https://calendly.com/leva-app/leva-vanessa-c200?month=2026-06 101 Ways Out explores how thoughtful, capable people step away from inherited definitions of success and begin designing lives rooted in freedom, meaning, and joy. Through intimate conversations with founders, creatives, coaches, executives, and explorers, host Vanessa Jupe uncovers the moments that changed everything: burnout, clarity, fear, courage, and the decision to choose a different path. These are not overnight success stories. They are real conversations about identity, autonomy, money, fear, creativity, and what it actually takes to build a life that lights you up. 🎧 New episodes weekly 🌱 Part of the 101 Ways Out transformation platform 🔗 Learn more: (https://101WaysOut.com) 📷 Instagram: (https://instagram.com/101waysout) 💼 LinkedIn: (https://linkedin.com/company/101waysout/)

  8. Jun 11

    Way Out #22: Putting Payroll on Credit Cards: Then His Son Was Born Nine Weeks Early with Brian Best

    Are you stuck in a career where your income is entirely tied to how many hours you clock? What if you could decouple your time from your money, and run your life from anywhere? In this episode of 101 Ways Out, we sit down with Brian Best, a self-proclaimed "computer nerd" who walked away from a "safe" government pension at 24 years old after drowning in toxic bureaucracy and entitled "boss-holes". Armed with a book on starting a business that he bought in 1996, he launched Best Macs, a Kansas City-based IT company. But building an empire wasn't a straight line. Brian shares the raw reality of his entrepreneurial journey: from cold-calling creative agencies with hand-drawn business cards, to getting crushed by the 80/20 rule in retail, to the terrifying family emergency that forced him to drop from working 80 hours a week down to just 10. That crisis sparked his ultimate "Way Out." Brian completely transformed his business model from an exhausting, hourly "feast or famine" cycle into unstoppable, flat-fee recurring revenue. Today, at 50, he successfully runs his business from the passenger seat of an RV while taking multi-week cross-country road trips with his family. In this episode, you will learn: Why trading your time for money is a trap (and exactly how to escape it).How to pivot your business model so your income becomes predictable and reliable.The danger of the 80/20 rule: Why too much of the wrong business will kill you.Why your talent alone isn't enough to sustain a business (and the first hire you actually need to make).How to build a team and systems that allow you to step away without the ship sinking.Stop researching your escape plan and start planning. Hit play to hear Brian’s masterclass in pivoting! 🔗 Links & Resources: Read Brian's full story on the blog: https://www.101waysout.com/interviews/way-out-22-he-was-putting-payroll-on-credit-cards-then-his-son-was-born-nine-weeks-early-with-brian-bestConnect with Brian Best & explore his managed services: ⁠BestMacs.com⁠ Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an inspiring story of everyday people doing extraordinary things to find their freedom! #101WaysOut #Entrepreneurship #RecurringRevenue #RVLife #LeaveCorporate #SmallBusinessTips #ITManagedServices #WorkFromAnywhere #TimeFreedom

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Have you ever felt stuck, trapped, and unhappy, wishing for a way out? Did you check all the boxes, climb the ladder, and realize you weren't happy? 101 Ways Out exists for that moment. In this series, I interview people from all walks of life who got to that exact point and realized they could take action to build the life of their dreams. My goal is to share their stories to inspire you to do the same.

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