33 min

161 - Transgressive Polarity: Skillful Violation & When It's Ok for Love to "Hurt‪"‬ Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls

    • Self-Improvement

Polarity requires tension.
Our reproductive instincts (attraction, lust, passion) sometimes need a little "transgression" to get going.
This episode opens with a little intimacy lesson from the ancient Spartans. I also discuss a different take on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, and how to "skillfully (consensually) violate".
More on the Spartans in History of Man episode III airing soon!
https://bettymartin.org/videos/https://historyofman.substack.com/

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Polarity requires tension.
Our reproductive instincts (attraction, lust, passion) sometimes need a little "transgression" to get going.
This episode opens with a little intimacy lesson from the ancient Spartans. I also discuss a different take on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, and how to "skillfully (consensually) violate".
More on the Spartans in History of Man episode III airing soon!
https://bettymartin.org/videos/https://historyofman.substack.com/

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

33 min