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17. The Misconceptions of Violence and Self-Defense | Wim Demeere Thrive Unafraid
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Depictions of self-defense and violence in TV and film naturally give us a sense of safety and reassurance that the bad guy will lose and that you should always take a criminal head on. Unfortunately, the theatrics of it all have given men (and women) a false look at self-defense. In this week’s episode, Kelly and Doug speak with martial arts and self-defense expert, Wim Demeere. Together they discuss the complexities behind self-defense including: taking ownership over your actions, the importance of leaving your ego at the door, and de-escalating tense situations before violence occurs.
For more of Wim’s instructional self-defense content, check out his Patreon site, updated monthly. There are over a thousand posts and hundreds of videos as he’s been doing this for over five years now. There is something at a price point for everybody and you can try it for free for a week.
Other topics we discussed:
Negative effects of romanticism of violence in TV and filmHow to not let your ego affect your decisions in conflictUnderstanding the distinctions between social and criminal violenceDefining your mission before conflict ever arisesDeescalation tactics for when a conflict occurs The importance of self-awareness and ownership in conflictHow to face threats from other individuals (Peyton Quinn’s Rules)Why face-saving exit in conflict isn’t the safest optionThe Highway of ViolenceWim Demeere has almost 40 years of training in several martial arts and self-defense systems: Kung Fu, Tai Chi Chuan, Sanshou, muay Thai, MMA, etc.
He has been a full-time personal trainer since 1994, has occasionally worked as a bouncer, and in his words, he had a non-eventful military service. Wim has been a national champion Quinda multiple times, and won a bronze medal at 1993 Wushu World Championships Sanshou (-90Kg). Wim has shared his knowledge with thousands of people as the author of numerous instructional books, self-defense videos, and his podcast titled, Wim Demeere’s Podcast. He is the owner and writer of one of the oldest martial arts and self-defense blogs, Wimsblog.com.
Connect with Wim:
Website: https://wimsblog.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ptccm
IG: @wimdemeere
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WimDemeerePage
Check out the blog post referenced in this video: https://wimsblog.com/2013/04/self-defense-tips-for-men/
Connect with Doug and Kelly:
Follow The Diamond Arrow Group on Instagram and Facebook, and Kelly Sayre on LinkedIn and Twitter.
You can find Doug at @texasspydad, or on LinkedIn and Twitter.
Check Kelly’s new book Sharp Women that guides you through embracing your best self-defense weapon - your intuition.
Please click ‘Follow’ or ‘Subscribe’ on your favorite podcast platform, and we’d love to hear what you think is the best piece of advice you’ve heard on the podcast to-date in a Review on your podcast platform!
Depictions of self-defense and violence in TV and film naturally give us a sense of safety and reassurance that the bad guy will lose and that you should always take a criminal head on. Unfortunately, the theatrics of it all have given men (and women) a false look at self-defense. In this week’s episode, Kelly and Doug speak with martial arts and self-defense expert, Wim Demeere. Together they discuss the complexities behind self-defense including: taking ownership over your actions, the importance of leaving your ego at the door, and de-escalating tense situations before violence occurs.
For more of Wim’s instructional self-defense content, check out his Patreon site, updated monthly. There are over a thousand posts and hundreds of videos as he’s been doing this for over five years now. There is something at a price point for everybody and you can try it for free for a week.
Other topics we discussed:
Negative effects of romanticism of violence in TV and filmHow to not let your ego affect your decisions in conflictUnderstanding the distinctions between social and criminal violenceDefining your mission before conflict ever arisesDeescalation tactics for when a conflict occurs The importance of self-awareness and ownership in conflictHow to face threats from other individuals (Peyton Quinn’s Rules)Why face-saving exit in conflict isn’t the safest optionThe Highway of ViolenceWim Demeere has almost 40 years of training in several martial arts and self-defense systems: Kung Fu, Tai Chi Chuan, Sanshou, muay Thai, MMA, etc.
He has been a full-time personal trainer since 1994, has occasionally worked as a bouncer, and in his words, he had a non-eventful military service. Wim has been a national champion Quinda multiple times, and won a bronze medal at 1993 Wushu World Championships Sanshou (-90Kg). Wim has shared his knowledge with thousands of people as the author of numerous instructional books, self-defense videos, and his podcast titled, Wim Demeere’s Podcast. He is the owner and writer of one of the oldest martial arts and self-defense blogs, Wimsblog.com.
Connect with Wim:
Website: https://wimsblog.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ptccm
IG: @wimdemeere
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WimDemeerePage
Check out the blog post referenced in this video: https://wimsblog.com/2013/04/self-defense-tips-for-men/
Connect with Doug and Kelly:
Follow The Diamond Arrow Group on Instagram and Facebook, and Kelly Sayre on LinkedIn and Twitter.
You can find Doug at @texasspydad, or on LinkedIn and Twitter.
Check Kelly’s new book Sharp Women that guides you through embracing your best self-defense weapon - your intuition.
Please click ‘Follow’ or ‘Subscribe’ on your favorite podcast platform, and we’d love to hear what you think is the best piece of advice you’ve heard on the podcast to-date in a Review on your podcast platform!
51 min