38 min
#236: Should I Butt Out Of His Recovery? Therapy Brothers
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- Mental Health
The Brothers Discuss: the role the betrayed partner plays in the relationship. They talk about how a natural response of the betrayed partner is to get very involved in their partners recovery. Something that may be hard to hear is that it could be helpful to take a step back and not play such an involved role that may be to an unhealthy level. This principle can be difficult because of feelings of fear and wanting to support. An important point is to enable the partner to work their recovery for the right reasons. When a partner steps back from controlling their partners recovery, it allows them to see the true strength of their partner. The brothers bring up the difference between intuition and compulsion and that difference is compulsion is based out of fear. The key to the betrayed partners role is the difference between setting up systems of control and communicating with your partner and being open about their recovery.
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The Brothers Discuss: the role the betrayed partner plays in the relationship. They talk about how a natural response of the betrayed partner is to get very involved in their partners recovery. Something that may be hard to hear is that it could be helpful to take a step back and not play such an involved role that may be to an unhealthy level. This principle can be difficult because of feelings of fear and wanting to support. An important point is to enable the partner to work their recovery for the right reasons. When a partner steps back from controlling their partners recovery, it allows them to see the true strength of their partner. The brothers bring up the difference between intuition and compulsion and that difference is compulsion is based out of fear. The key to the betrayed partners role is the difference between setting up systems of control and communicating with your partner and being open about their recovery.
// SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION //
We would love to answer any questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, healing, and anything you can think of. Click the link below to submit your question (and if you're open to being a guest on the podcast, you can schedule your call time as well)! We're also curious to know if there are any topics you'd like to hear us discuss on the podcast.
https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/
Send mail to: Therapy Brothers, 40 W Cache Valley Blvd Ste 3c, Logan, UT 84341
// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //
15-Minute Free Consultation Call: https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call
Therapy Practice: https://lovestrong.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.wandering.therapist
Facebook: https://facebook.com/love.strong.org
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXaR4084r-Z_251xVdoyMFQ
// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //
Website: https://www.brannonpatrick.com
Therapy Practice: https://therapyutah.org/
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ExpertBrannon
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Newsletter: https://www.therapybros.com/subscribe
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Books & Audiobooks We Recommend (We earn a small percentage from your purchase with any of the books links on this page): https://lovestrong.com/most-impactful-books/
// OUR COURSES //
Boundary Bootcamp: https://www.brannonpatrick.com/Boundarybootcamp
Pornography Addiction Recovery Kickstart: https://lovestrong.com/courses/overcome-pornography-addiction/
// OUR EVENTS //
Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat: https://radiantdawnconference.com/
Rising Son | Men's Retreat: https://risingson.org
Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat: https://vibrantlove.org
38 min