15 min

#39: This'll Change How You Think about Confidence Forever Decision Masters

    • Self-Improvement

Do you think of yourself as a "confident person"?

Or is that a feeling that ebbs and flows, depending on the day or situation?

What if we could stop thinking about confidence like it was this measurable, liquid thing? Like "it's either there or it's not...there's either a lot or a little..." 🤔

The truth is, the way I used to think about Confidence was completely all-or-nothing. And somehow, despite all this stuff I grew genuinely confident in, my focus tended to fall on where I was LACKING.

And the more air-time I gave all that stuff I wasn't fearless, adept or comfortable with yet...the more I came to see myself as an Impostor-y Unconfident Person Full of Doubt. Which was neither fun nor the entire truth! 

But when you have this push-pull all-nothing relationship with Confidence, it's way too easy to inflate any doubt you do feel - and it snowballs from there.

Today I offer you:


An entirely different way to think about Confidence (forever)
How this way of thinking will free you from the draining Ups + Downs of yore
A 5-minute INSTANT CONFIDENCE BOOST (but I call it something different 😉)

More links: 


The Decision Masters Program is like a gym you can join to build up your confidence, decision ease & clarity about what you're prioritizing in your life. YES please! https://kirstenparker.com/dmp

Do you think of yourself as a "confident person"?

Or is that a feeling that ebbs and flows, depending on the day or situation?

What if we could stop thinking about confidence like it was this measurable, liquid thing? Like "it's either there or it's not...there's either a lot or a little..." 🤔

The truth is, the way I used to think about Confidence was completely all-or-nothing. And somehow, despite all this stuff I grew genuinely confident in, my focus tended to fall on where I was LACKING.

And the more air-time I gave all that stuff I wasn't fearless, adept or comfortable with yet...the more I came to see myself as an Impostor-y Unconfident Person Full of Doubt. Which was neither fun nor the entire truth! 

But when you have this push-pull all-nothing relationship with Confidence, it's way too easy to inflate any doubt you do feel - and it snowballs from there.

Today I offer you:


An entirely different way to think about Confidence (forever)
How this way of thinking will free you from the draining Ups + Downs of yore
A 5-minute INSTANT CONFIDENCE BOOST (but I call it something different 😉)

More links: 


The Decision Masters Program is like a gym you can join to build up your confidence, decision ease & clarity about what you're prioritizing in your life. YES please! https://kirstenparker.com/dmp

15 min