16 min

55: ✨solve impossible problems with THIS..‪.‬ Happy In Medicine with Dr. Christina Arnold

    • Self-Improvement

Have an impossible decision to make? Girrrrrrl, you gotta try this week’s new tool. 



Andrea (name and details are anonymized) felt stuck in a job she didn’t love AND she also didn’t want to move because she was afraid she’d hate that job too AND she was super mad at herself for not deciding either way. In this week’s podcast, I give you the tool set I developed for Andrea:




It involves FIRST not making Andrea wrong.

Validating all of her concerns are important, sensible, and thoughtful.

Looking at the decision that solves the MOST problems.

Looking at the decision that creates MORE problems.

And considering simplicity for the win




What happened to Andrea? She decided to stay in place at her job and negotiate to make it a better fit. This decision felt like such RELIEF to her. She got EVERYTHING she asked for. She loves her “new” job (it’s the same job but she made it entirely new through negotiations). She stayed in the house and school district she loves. She’s THRILLED with her decision. 

 

Click the button for the solution to your impossible decision.

Christina




PS. Want customized support with your impossible problem?  I help physician moms work part-time hours while keeping their full-time doctor’s salary. The secret is to stop trying to change yourself. Change the job instead. Keep your full-time salary. Enjoy fancy vacations. Send daughter to her top choice college and pay all cash. Book a sales call today: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=23656429&appointmentType=63519159

podcast music credit to https://freemusicarchive.org/music/holiznacc0/rock-montage/classic/

Have an impossible decision to make? Girrrrrrl, you gotta try this week’s new tool. 



Andrea (name and details are anonymized) felt stuck in a job she didn’t love AND she also didn’t want to move because she was afraid she’d hate that job too AND she was super mad at herself for not deciding either way. In this week’s podcast, I give you the tool set I developed for Andrea:




It involves FIRST not making Andrea wrong.

Validating all of her concerns are important, sensible, and thoughtful.

Looking at the decision that solves the MOST problems.

Looking at the decision that creates MORE problems.

And considering simplicity for the win




What happened to Andrea? She decided to stay in place at her job and negotiate to make it a better fit. This decision felt like such RELIEF to her. She got EVERYTHING she asked for. She loves her “new” job (it’s the same job but she made it entirely new through negotiations). She stayed in the house and school district she loves. She’s THRILLED with her decision. 

 

Click the button for the solution to your impossible decision.

Christina




PS. Want customized support with your impossible problem?  I help physician moms work part-time hours while keeping their full-time doctor’s salary. The secret is to stop trying to change yourself. Change the job instead. Keep your full-time salary. Enjoy fancy vacations. Send daughter to her top choice college and pay all cash. Book a sales call today: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=23656429&appointmentType=63519159

podcast music credit to https://freemusicarchive.org/music/holiznacc0/rock-montage/classic/

16 min