A Cuppa With.. Ep. 89. To parent or not to parent. Is it any of your business? A Cuppa With...
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- Health & Fitness
Just because you can. Doesn't mean you want to or in some cases should. I meet so many women that look sheepish when you're talking about family or kids in normal conversations. Just because they don't want to explain again that they don't want children or in some cases, can't. So many people ask when are you gonna have kids? Like that's it. The bee all and end all of a relationship. But the word when, has so many implications. But essentially it comes down to, its nobodies business. If you want kids great, if you don't great. If you can't I'm sorry and hope you're well and if you can't and don't want any, that's great as well. You know why it's all good. Because as long as the person is OK. That's all that matters. Stop asking when they're going to have a little person and start seeing the person they already are.
Just because you can. Doesn't mean you want to or in some cases should. I meet so many women that look sheepish when you're talking about family or kids in normal conversations. Just because they don't want to explain again that they don't want children or in some cases, can't. So many people ask when are you gonna have kids? Like that's it. The bee all and end all of a relationship. But the word when, has so many implications. But essentially it comes down to, its nobodies business. If you want kids great, if you don't great. If you can't I'm sorry and hope you're well and if you can't and don't want any, that's great as well. You know why it's all good. Because as long as the person is OK. That's all that matters. Stop asking when they're going to have a little person and start seeing the person they already are.
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