According To Wes

Wes
According To Wes

Finding the humor in everyday life and trying to understand what that means to me.  Join me on this never ending journey of self improvement and reflection with the help of friends. 

  1. Meeting Tomorrow With Today's Strength

    1D AGO

    Meeting Tomorrow With Today's Strength

    Send us a text Ancient wisdom reminds us not to let future anxieties rob us of present peace. Our capacity for reason and problem-solving remains constant, providing the tools we need to face whatever challenges may come.

    12 min
  2. When Intimacy Goes Wrong and Money Goes Missing

    MAY 8

    When Intimacy Goes Wrong and Money Goes Missing

    Send us a text We dive deep into the uncomfortable realities of dating, relationships, and personal hygiene that nobody wants to talk about but everyone needs to hear. From mortifying intimate encounters to financial decisions that make or break relationships, this episode doesn't hold back on the messy truths of adulthood. • Dating dynamics in your 30s and the evolution of relationship labels • Home renovation horror stories when trying to save money with the wrong contractor • Using home equity lines of credit for kitchen renovations against better judgment • The shocking story of a hygiene disaster during an intimate moment • Personal finance discussions about 401k plans and retirement savings • Nostalgic memories of club experiences and music from the early 2010s • How relationship expectations change as we move through different life stages • The importance of basic hygiene practices before intimate encounters Don't forget to subscribe, share, and join the conversation on our social media platforms!

    56 min
  3. The Power and Illusion of Control

    APR 16

    The Power and Illusion of Control

    Send us a text We explore the complex balance between personal autonomy and partnership in marriage, examining how control, boundaries, and mutual respect shape our daily happiness. • Keeping certain purchases private from your spouse can sometimes maintain peace • Late-night conversations when you're tired often lead to saying things you'll regret • The concept of "provider" means different things in different relationships • Step-parenting creates unique challenges when authority is undermined • Men and women may approach unconditional love differently • Setting boundaries with family members, including handling unexpected visits • Finding happiness requires accepting which aspects of life you can and cannot control If you want to control what you can to be happy and successful, focus on setting healthy boundaries while respecting your relationships. Remember that happiness comes from within but thrives with mutual respect.

    1h 11m
  4. Risking It All For A Relationship

    APR 3

    Risking It All For A Relationship

    Send us a text Tim Allen's transformation from cocaine dealer to Hollywood star reveals stark privilege in the justice system. His cooperation with authorities after being caught with 650 grams of cocaine led to multiple convictions while allowing him to avoid a life sentence and build a successful entertainment career. • Tim Allen faced life imprisonment for cocaine trafficking before becoming a TV star • The cocaine trade was once considered "a gentleman's game" with established codes • Rising inflation and utility costs are creating financial pressure on households • Open relationships often create imbalance and favor one partner over another • The show "Medusa" depicts the complications of non-traditional relationship arrangements • Setting personal boundaries is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships • Work-life balance becomes especially challenging when financial obligations require long work hours • Couples often struggle finding compromise between individual needs and togetherness

    1h 7m
  5. When Life Hands You Bills, There's A Wife Involved

    MAR 19

    When Life Hands You Bills, There's A Wife Involved

    Send us a text Wes and DeLaw tackle the financial pressures of modern life, from the shocking $80 price tag for pay-per-view boxing matches to the complex question of whether one spouse should pay for another's $73,000 student loan debt. • Boxing pay-per-view events now cost $80 regardless of Amazon Prime membership status • The concept of "stressed man strength" versus the traditional idea of "old man strength"  • Heated debate about whether pre-existing student debt becomes shared responsibility in marriage • Exploration of the viral "mediocrity" conversation about career standards and dating preferences • Personal grocery shopping experiences revealing inflation's impact—nearly $300 spent in one day • Practical approaches to handling sudden wealth like lottery winnings • Real estate strategies for maximizing home investment versus enjoying quality of life • Changing financial priorities when facing rising costs and economic uncertainty

    1h 8m
  6. Charm The Toothbrush Out Her Mouth

    FEB 26

    Charm The Toothbrush Out Her Mouth

    Send us a text We venture into the dynamics of charm and communication within lasting relationships. With humor and honesty, we reflect on what it means to maintain attraction and strengthen bonds in marriage.  • Examining the evolution of charm in relationships  • Reflecting on past experiences and learning from team dynamics  • Conversations on job security, downsizing, and its emotional impact  • The significance of honest communication in partnerships  • Understanding desire and attraction in long-term commitments  • Analyzing a listener's relationship dilemma about lines of comfort  • Drawing humor and insight from playful exchanges on marriage

    55 min
  7. Eggs, Chainsaws, & Gym Jitters 🎧

    FEB 19

    Eggs, Chainsaws, & Gym Jitters 🎧

    Send us a text Balancing humor and honesty, this episode navigates the complexities of relationships and everyday challenges couples face. From a Valentine's Day spending spree to the tension surrounding gym friendships, discussions reveal insecurities, trust, and the journey of maintaining love amidst chaos. • Valentine’s Day spending impacting relationships  • Light-hearted conversations about raising chickens  • Thoughts on flirty gym friendships and jealousy  • Navigating trust and loyalty in marriage

    1h 8m
  8. Foul Play and Romantic Riddles

    JAN 29

    Foul Play and Romantic Riddles

    Send us a text My love language is expensive car parts but I'll settle for a new video game and some good food

    1h 9m
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Finding the humor in everyday life and trying to understand what that means to me.  Join me on this never ending journey of self improvement and reflection with the help of friends. 

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  • Creator
    Wes
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 According To Wes
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