Advice From Your Advocates

Attorney Bob Mannor

A podcast dedicated to helping those who are helping our elders.

  1. The Healing Power of Communication: Rethinking Mental Health in Elder Care

    OCT 30

    The Healing Power of Communication: Rethinking Mental Health in Elder Care

    In this enlightening episode of Advice From Your Advocates, Attorney Bob Mannor sits down with Dr. Fred Moss, a psychiatrist who’s redefining what mental health care can look like—especially for older adults. Together, they explore how genuine communication and human connection often achieve more than medication ever could. Dr. Moss shares his decades-long journey through psychiatry, from witnessing the over-medication of elderly patients to discovering that true healing begins when people are treated as humans, not diagnoses. This conversation challenges traditional ideas about dementia, mental illness, and medication management, offering a fresh, compassionate perspective on what it means to care for the mind and spirit in later life. You’ll learn: Why communication is the foundation of all healingHow holistic approaches can improve outcomes in dementia and elder careThe surprising ways medication can sometimes worsen mental healthWhy “there may be nothing wrong with you at all” might be the start of healingHow connection—not correction—leads to better quality of life for seniorsWhether you’re a caregiver, elder care professional, or simply someone passionate about mental health, this episode will leave you rethinking what it truly means to heal. Learn more about Dr. Fred here: https://welcometohumanity.net/ Host: Attorney Bob Mannor, CELA, CDP Guest: Dr. Fred Moss Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto, CDP Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    20 min
  2. Hospital Safety Secrets for Caregivers: Protecting Elders in Healthcare

    SEP 25

    Hospital Safety Secrets for Caregivers: Protecting Elders in Healthcare

    What if we told you that up to 400,000 Americans die each year from preventable harm in hospitals? That shocking statistic is just the beginning of what Dr. Julie Siemers, founder of LifeBeat Solutions, reveals in this eye-opening conversation. In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates Podcast, Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor speaks with Dr. Julie Siemers about the critical issues surrounding patient safety and medical harm in healthcare. They discuss the alarming statistics of preventable harm, the importance of family involvement in healthcare advocacy, and the need for effective communication between healthcare providers and families. Dr. Siemers pulls back the curtain on the "Wizard of Oz" healthcare system, explaining how communication breakdowns cause 70% of patient harm events. The dangers are particularly acute for elderly patients and those with cognitive impairments, who may be misdiagnosed with "quick onset dementia" when they actually have treatable conditions Whether you're navigating care for an elderly parent, preparing for your own hospital stay, or simply want to understand the hidden risks in our healthcare system, this episode provides critical knowledge and practical tools. Subscribe to hear more conversations that empower you to advocate effectively for yourself and your loved ones in complex healthcare situations. Host: Attorney Bob Mannor, CELA, CDP Guest: Dr. Julie Siemers Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto, CDP Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    26 min
  3. Thriving in Retirement: Caregiver Support & Breaking Aging Bias in Elder Care

    SEP 11

    Thriving in Retirement: Caregiver Support & Breaking Aging Bias in Elder Care

    In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, we delve into how to make the later years your best years. Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor is joined by geriatric care expert and author Dr. Corinne Auman to explore the vital topic of elder care, revealing how aging can be a time of growth, connection, and purpose. Dr. Auman shines a light on her groundbreaking book, Keenagers: Telling a New Story About Aging, introducing a transformative perspective on life beyond midlife. Listeners will uncover ways to provide vital caregiver support, reduce stress, and prevent social isolation. Together, they discuss strategies to challenge age bias in healthcare and society, build purpose, protect mental health, and strengthen social connections for a fulfilling retirement. Whether you’re caring for a loved one or planning your own next chapter, tune in for inspiration on how to live longer—and better. Host: Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor Guest: Dr. Corinne Auman Executive Producer: Savannah Gillett Meksto Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul, Alecia Campbell We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    25 min
  4. Elder Care Around the World: Lessons from Canada

    AUG 22

    Elder Care Around the World: Lessons from Canada

    What can the U.S. learn from Canada when it comes to elder care? In this continuation of our look at elder care around the world, Attorney Bob Mannor sits down with Amy Friesen, founder of Tea and Toast, to uncover how families navigate the challenges of long-term care north of the border. From the stark differences between Canada’s public and private systems to the emotional weight of cross-border planning, Amy shares how her personal journey inspired her to guide families through elder care with compassion and clarity. Together, Bob and Amy explore why holistic planning, care navigation, and early preparation are crucial for families facing dementia, aging, and long-term care decisions. Whether you’re caring for a loved one in the U.S. or Canada, this episode offers eye-opening insights, practical takeaways, and a reminder that pre-planning isn’t just about logistics—it’s about peace of mind. Host: Attorney Bob Mannor Guest: Amy Friesen Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Alecia Campbell, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    24 min
  5. Inside the Dutch Dementia Village: Revolutionizing Dementia Care

    AUG 8

    Inside the Dutch Dementia Village: Revolutionizing Dementia Care

    What if we completely reimagined dementia care? In this eye-opening episode, Bob Mannor and Amy Persails take you inside their extraordinary visit to Hogeweyk, the revolutionary dementia village in Amsterdam that's transforming traditional memory care. This unique approach to elder care champions dignity, freedom, and quality of life for people with severe dementia, offering a new perspective on the challenges caregivers face. Within the cobblestone streets of Hogeweyk, you'll find real grocery stores, restaurants, and pubs—not just window dressing but symbols of a fundamental shift in philosophy compared to typical American facilities. Here, residents are encouraged to wander freely, make choices, and embrace normalcy, significantly reducing the stress and agitation that often accompany traditional dementia care. Remarkably, Hogeweyk experiences virtually no sundowning or agitation, achieving this not through medication or restraints, but by fulfilling fundamental human needs for autonomy and respect. One resident follows the tour group for hours, happily engaged and content, challenging our conventional practices that often misinterpret such behaviors. The living arrangements further illustrate this revolutionary concept. Residents share homes based on their cultural backgrounds and prior lifestyles, fostering a sense of community. With just one caregiver per household during the day, and no overnight interruptions, residents enjoy restful nights, contrasting sharply with many nursing facilities. Join us as we explore this transformative model of dementia care that may reshape your understanding of elder care. For caregivers, families, and professionals alike, this conversation prompts us to reconsider our most basic assumptions about memory care: what if freedom, rather than control, is the key to improving lives? Subscribe to Advice From Your Advocates wherever you get your podcasts.  Host: Attorney Bob Mannor Guest: Amy Persails, CECC Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto Assistant Producer: Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    25 min
  6. Dementia Behaviors Aren’t What You Think: Why Caregiver Approach Matters

    JUL 25

    Dementia Behaviors Aren’t What You Think: Why Caregiver Approach Matters

    When Kathi Miracle started caring for dementia patients at just 22 years old, she was hit, kicked—even suffered broken ribs. But instead of walking away, she leaned in, launching a lifelong mission to improve dementia care. Now, with over 30 years of experience, Kathi shares eye-opening strategies that challenge common assumptions. Hosted by Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor, this episode of Advice From Your Advocates uncovers: Why 80% of dementia-related “behaviors” are triggered by caregiver approach—not the diseaseHow adjusting personal space, vocal tone, and visual cues can dramatically reduce outburstsWhy knowing a person’s life story is essential to understanding their reactionsHow caregivers can build a support network without guiltWhether you're a family caregiver or a professional, this conversation offers life-changing perspective and practical tools.  Bonus: Get a sneak peek of Kathi’s upcoming book, Your Ticket to Compassion, packed with QR-code tools for real-life dementia challenges. Learn more about Kathi Miracle and Silver Tsunami here: https://www.mysilvertsunami.com/ Host: Attorney Bob Mannor Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    27 min
  7. Trapped in the Middle: Legal and Emotional Pressures of the Sandwich Generation

    JUL 2

    Trapped in the Middle: Legal and Emotional Pressures of the Sandwich Generation

    The silent struggle of caring for both aging parents and growing children simultaneously affects countless Americans, yet few are prepared for the legal complications that arise. In this eye-opening episode, elder law attorney Bob Mannor and certified dementia practitioner Savannah Meksto unpack the challenges of the "sandwich generation" and provide critical guidance for avoiding costly mistakes. Most families wait until a crisis hits before addressing essential legal preparations, often discovering too late that decades-old documents are insufficient or outdated. As Bob explains, having the right "lifetime documents" in place—specifically separate powers of attorney for medical and financial matters—is crucial before cognitive decline begins. Without these protections, families may face court proceedings that remove decision-making from their hands entirely. The conversation tackles common misconceptions, like assuming the oldest child should automatically serve as power of attorney or naming multiple children simultaneously to avoid playing favorites. Instead, Bob recommends selecting individuals based on trustworthiness, capability, and willingness to serve, while establishing a clear order of succession. When family disagreements inevitably arise, professional moderation can prevent escalation to courtroom battles where everyone loses. Beyond legal considerations, Savannah highlights the emotional toll on caregivers caught between multiple responsibilities. Self-care becomes essential, as does recognizing when professional support services are needed. Manor Law Group's care navigation team helps families identify appropriate care options and government benefits that can ease financial burdens. If you find yourself nodding along or feeling that knot in your stomach, know that you aren't alone. The sandwich generation experience is challenging, but with proper legal planning and emotional support, you can navigate this journey with confidence and protect those who depend on you. Reach out to Manor Law Group today to develop a comprehensive plan before crisis strikes. Host: Attorney Bob Mannor Cohost: Savannah Meksto Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    26 min
5
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