Anxiety Specialists

Anxiety Specialists
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Anxiety is an emotion that is easily explained but not easy to control. It is something most of us will experience at some point in our lives and, without the right process, it may be very difficult to overcome. We are Anxiety Specialists based in New Zealand and have been helping people overcome their anxiety for many years with our proven expertise and experience. We are committed to helping people understand that there is hope and anxiety disorders are treatable. That is why we launched Anti Anxiety Academy and Anxiety Specialists YouTube and Podcast. It is because we strongly believe that anyone who needs help with anxiety can get the relief they deserve, and amazingly enough, this is readily accessible from the comfort of your home. If you suffer from anxiety, you’re not alone. Help is closer than you think. If you need help in understanding and overcoming your anxiety, then this show is for you.

  1. APR 16

    65 Why the Fear of Judgement Is Never About Other People

    If you've ever been told to "just stop caring what people think" - this video explains why that advice fails, and what's actually driving social anxiety underneath. In this video, I cover: - Why confident people aren't indifferent to judgment - they just don't experience it as a threat - The four core beliefs that sit underneath social anxiety (unworthy, not good enough, unloveable, unlikeable) - Why social anxiety and depression so often show up together - What exposure therapy is actually testing - and why safety behaviours ruin the result - The behavioural markers I look for near the end of treatment In 12 years working with people with anxiety what I see underneath social anxiety almost every time isn't about other people at all - it's about what you already believe about yourself. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Why "just stop caring" fails 3:00 - The core beliefs underneath social anxiety 5:00 - Why safety behaviours make sense (but keep you stuck) 6:30 - Why social anxiety and depression go together 8:00 - What actually works: exposure without safety behaviours 10:30 - Taking up your allocated space 12:00 - EMDR and working on the back-end #socialanxiety #fearofjudgement #socialanxietytreatment #anxiety #mentalhealth #CBT #exposuretherapy #corbeliefs #selfesteem #anxietyrelief #psychologist #anxietytips #overcomeanxiety #socialanxietytips #EMDR

    8 min

  2. APR 9

    64 Public Speaking Nerves: Why Practice Makes It Worse

    Public speaking nerves don't go away with more practice. In fact, the way most people prepare is actually making the anxiety worse — and there's a clear psychological reason why. In this video: - Why your brain treats public speaking like a survival threat - What safety behaviours are and why they keep the nerves going - The one shift that actually reduces public speaking anxiety - A technique to challenge the fear even faster (and a client result that'll surprise you) Over 12 years working with anxiety, the pattern is almost always the same — the more people manage their nerves, the more stuck they get. There's a better way. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:20 - Why public speaking triggers the threat system 2:45 - The mistake most advice makes 4:30 - How safety behaviours keep anxiety going 5:50 - What anticipatory anxiety is really doing 7:00 - What actually works 8:20 - A practical starting point (and the advanced version) --- Free Anxiety Reducer Guide → anxiety-specialists.com/anxiety-reducer --- #publicspeakinganxiety #publicspeakingnervous #nervousbeforepresentation #anxietytreatment #socialanxiety #exposuretherapy #anxietytips #presentationanxiety #feaofpublicspeaking #psychology #mentalhealth #CBT #panicattacks #anxietyrelief #performanceanxiety

    9 min

  3. APR 2

    63 Social Anxiety Safety Behaviours | Why They Keep You Stuck

    Every strategy you use to get through a social situation might be the reason your anxiety never goes away. In this video, I cover: - What social anxiety safety behaviours actually are (and the subtle ones most people miss) - Why talking quietly, talking fast, mental rehearsing, and deflecting to others all backfire - How safety behaviours block your brain from learning the situation is safe - The three stages where they show up — before, during, and after social events - What a graduated approach to dropping them actually looks like I've worked with hundreds of clients on social anxiety over 12 years. I've seen this pattern play out more times than I can count — and the good news is, once you understand the mechanism, the path forward becomes a lot clearer. TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:45 - What safety behaviours are 3:10 - The most common ones (and why they feel like coping) 5:00 - What's happening in your brain 6:20 - How safety behaviours block new learning 7:30 - The three stages: before, during, and after 9:00 - What actually helps --- LINKS: Social Anxiety Breakthrough: https://www.anxiety-specialists.com/social-anxiety --- FOLLOW ME: Instagram: @anxietyspecialists TikTok: @anxietyspecialists Facebook: Anxiety Specialists #socialanxiety #socialanxietytreatment #safetybehaviours #safetybehaviors #anxiety #mentalhealth #panicattacks #exposuretherapy #CBT #anxietyrelief #socialanxietydisorder #anxietytreatment #clinicalpsychology #overcominganxiety #anxietytips #amygdala #prefrontalcortex #socialanxietysymptoms #anxietytherapy #mentalwellness #psychologyexplained

    9 min

  4. MAR 26

    62 Are You Actually an Introvert - Or Is It Social Anxiety?

    You cancel the plans, get into bed, and feel relief. If you identify as an introvert, that makes total sense — but what if some of that relief is your nervous system coming down from a false alarm? In this video, I cover: - What introversion actually is, and what the neuroscience shows - How anxiety mimics and amplifies the introvert experience - The avoidance cycle that quietly shrinks your social world - A simple question to help you tell the difference TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - What introversion actually is 3:30 - What anxiety adds to the mix 5:30 - How the avoidance story gets written 7:30 - How to tell the difference 9:00 - What this means for you 🔗 LINKS: Free Anxiety Reducer Guide: https://www.anxiety-specialists.com/anxiety-reducer-guide #introvert #socialanxiety #introvertvsanxiety #anxiety #mentalhealth #socialanxietytreatment #anxietytips #psychology #CBT #anxietyrelief

    8 min

  5. MAR 19

    61 Why Your Face Betrays You (And What To Do About It)

    Blushing, sweating and shaking from anxiety in social situations — you're in the middle of a conversation and suddenly your face is on fire, your hands are trembling, and there's nothing you can do to stop it.In this video, I cover:- Why blushing, sweating and shaking are all caused by the same thing (and what that thing actually is)- The anxiety cycle that makes these symptoms dramatically worse once they start- Why avoidance and safety behaviours keep the problem going long-term- What actually helps — including the one thing most people never tryTIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Introduction1:20 - What's actually causing blushing, sweating and shaking3:10 - The cycle that makes symptoms spiral4:45 - Anticipatory anxiety and avoidance6:00 - What actually helps9:00 - Exposure and the two-brain model---📱 FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @anxietyspecialistsTikTok: @anxietyspecialistsFacebook: Anxiety Specialists#blushing #socialanxiety #anxietysymptoms #anxiety #mentalhealth

    9 min

  6. MAR 12

    60 The 5-Second Rule for Social Anxiety | How I Help Clients Start Conversations

    You spot someone you want to talk to. You think: I'll go over in a sec.And then five seconds pass. And twenty. And suddenly you're not going anywhere. The social anxiety freeze.In this video, I cover:- Why your brain gives you a 5-second window — and what happens when you miss it- How the amygdala takes over and kills the conversation before it starts- Why waiting to feel confident is the exact wrong strategy- What actually updates your threat system (hint: it's not positive self-talk)- Why even awkward conversations reduce anxiety — and how the post-mortem erases the proofSocial anxiety is one of the most common things I treat. I also had my own run-ins with it, so I know what it feels like from the inside.TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - The frozen moment1:20 - Why your brain gives you a 5-second window2:45 - How the amygdala takes over (the maintaining cycle)4:00 - The 5-second rule and how to use it (Mel Robbins)5:20 - What actually updates your threat system6:15 - Why waiting to feel confident is backwards7:10 - Why awkward conversations still count8:00 - Stop the post-mortem8:45 - What to do if social anxiety is affecting your life---🔗 Social anxiety — what it is and how I treat it: https://www.anxiety-specialists.com/social-anxiety---📱 FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @anxietyspecialistsTikTok: @anxietyspecialistsFacebook: Anxiety Specialists---#socialanxiety #anxiety #anxietytreatment #mentalhealth #anxietytips #amygdala #exposuretherapy #CBT #socialanxietytreatment #5secondrule #MelRobbins #anxietyspecialist #overcominganxiety #anxietytherapy #psychologist #startingconversations #shyness #socialskills #prefrontalcortex #anxietynz

    12 min

  7. MAR 5

    59 Why Your "Social Confidence Drink" Is Actually Making Your Anxiety Worse

    That drink you're using to calm your nerves before social events? It's actually making your social anxiety worse.In this video, I cover:- Why alcohol seems to help social anxiety in the moment (but doesn't long-term)- The three myths people believe about drinking for confidence- The "rebound effect" that increases your baseline anxiety levels- Why state-dependent learning prevents you from building real social skills- What actually works to reduce social anxiety permanentlyTIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Introduction: The Social Confidence Drink1:15 - Why Alcohol Seems to Help (GABA and Your Amygdala)2:30 - Myth 1: Alcohol Helps You Learn Social Skills4:00 - Myth 2: The Anxiety Is Just a Hangover5:30 - Myth 3: You Can Control It7:00 - What Actually Works: Structured Exposure8:15 - Summary and Next Steps---🔗 Social Anxiety Breakthrough:www.anxiety-specialists.com/social-anxiety---📱 FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @anxietyspecialistsTikTok: @anxietyspecialistsFacebook: Anxiety Specialists#anxiety #socialanxiety #mentalhealth #alcohol #anxietytreatment #panicattacks #CBT #exposuretherapy #psychology #anxietytips

    12 min

  8. FEB 26

    58 Is It Shyness or Social Anxiety? The Difference That Changes Everything

    Is it just shyness, or is it social anxiety? Understanding the difference could literally change your life.In this video, I cover:- The key differences between shyness and social anxiety disorder- Why your amygdala treats social situations like life-threatening dangers- The three maintaining factors that keep social anxiety going (pre-event worry, safety behaviours, and post-event processing)- Exactly when shyness becomes a problem that needs treatment- How psychological treatment can help you overcome social anxiety in 8-14 sessionsI've helped hundreds of clients overcome social anxiety over my 11 years running Anxiety Specialists. The good news? Social anxiety is one of the most treatable anxiety disorders, with large effect sizes in psychological treatment research.TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Introduction: Shyness vs Social Anxiety0:45 - What is Shyness?2:00 - What is Social Anxiety Disorder?3:15 - The Brain Science: Your Amygdala on Social Threat4:00 - Avoidance and Safety Behaviours4:45 - The Three Maintaining Factors6:30 - When Does It Become a Problem?7:15 - Treatment and Hope8:00 - Summary and Next Steps---🔗 LINKS:Take my free Anxiety Quiz: [URL]Book a free 20-min call: [URL]Anxiety Elimination Program: [URL]---📱 FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @anxietyspecialistsTikTok: @anxietyspecialistsFacebook: Anxiety Specialists#socialanxiety #anxiety #shyness #mentalhealth #anxietytreatment #socialanxietydisorder #CBT #psychology

    8 min
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Anxiety is an emotion that is easily explained but not easy to control. It is something most of us will experience at some point in our lives and, without the right process, it may be very difficult to overcome. We are Anxiety Specialists based in New Zealand and have been helping people overcome their anxiety for many years with our proven expertise and experience. We are committed to helping people understand that there is hope and anxiety disorders are treatable. That is why we launched Anti Anxiety Academy and Anxiety Specialists YouTube and Podcast. It is because we strongly believe that anyone who needs help with anxiety can get the relief they deserve, and amazingly enough, this is readily accessible from the comfort of your home. If you suffer from anxiety, you’re not alone. Help is closer than you think. If you need help in understanding and overcoming your anxiety, then this show is for you.

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  • Creator
    Anxiety Specialists
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    66
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Anxiety Specialists
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