Are You Being Present?

The Presence Projects
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This podcast exists to bring awareness to what it means to be present, and to offer encouragement for choosing it, again and again. Presence is not something that happens to you. It is a choice you make, moment by moment, over and over, away from the pull of the ego and back into what is actually here. Each episode looks at a different piece of that work: the habits, the programs, the tools of the ego that pull you out of the present moment, and what it takes to come back to it. You have a choice. Choose to be present.

  1. ٣١ يوليو

    Episode 110 - Embracing Detachment with Presence

    The Buddhists believe the root of all suffering is attachment. This episode presents that idea and integrates it into ego work because attachment is a tool of the ego, and it has been used against you relentlessly for far too long. Inside this episode you will better understand what detachment actually is, and what it is not. The more detached you are, the more you can truly appreciate the people, places, experiences, and moments that are here now. It is attachment that ejects you from the present moment, creating a yearning for what is not here and cannot be here. Plus a piece of homework. A simple diagnostic for looking at everything and everyone in your life and seeing clearly where attachment is quietly running the show. Now is the moment. Be detached from all things so that you can appreciate all things. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 110 - Embracing Detachment with Presence

  2. ٢٦ يوليو

    Episode 109 - Stop Allowing Your Ego to Abuse You, Confuse You, Upset You, & Distract You

    If someone else in your life talked to you the way your ego does, you would call it abuse. So why do we allow it? Why are we complicit? This episode turns the question directly on the listener. Why are you allowing your ego to confuse you, to upset you, to distract you, to eject you from the present moment? Just sitting with that question is part of the gap, part of the pause, part of the practice. Inside, a look at hypervigilance and what it costs you, drawn from observations of patients whose nervous systems never stop scanning, tracking, preparing, waiting for the next shoe to drop. It is exhausting, and it is happening in present moments where you are safe and secure. The message is not that this is wrong or bad. It is that it is time to see it, and time to stop it. All is well in this present moment, and all is unfolding exactly as it should. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 109 - Stop Allowing Your Ego to Abuse You, Confuse You, Upset You, & Distract You

  3. ٢٤ يوليو

    Episode 108 - Doing Ego Work in the Present Moment

    After episodes spent naming ego programs and tools of the ego one by one, this one turns to the work itself. What ego work actually is. Where it has to be done. And why so few people are doing it. Ego work can only happen in the present moment, and the ego's job is to eject you from it. That is the juxtaposition at the heart of this episode. Inside, a look at the true power of the ego, how it can trigger a full physiological response in a present moment that has nothing to do with what is actually happening, and the cycle that keeps you stuck once it does. Plus the first steps of real ego work, including a piece of homework that begins to create the gap between you and that loud voice in your head. Our egos are our teachers. Until we do our ego work, our egos are our abusers. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 108 - Doing Ego Work in the Present Moment

  4. ٤ يوليو

    Episode 107 - The Most Important Relationship You'll Ever Have Is Between You and You

    The most important relationship you will ever have is the one between you and you. Until you do your ego work, you are your ego. It uses your voice in your head to make you believe it is you, but it is a component of your personality, not the authentic version of you underneath it. This episode looks at why that relationship gets overlooked. We are raised to focus on relationships with family, teachers, and peers, and rarely encouraged to focus on how we treat ourselves, how we talk to ourselves, how we see ourselves. Would you ever let anyone talk to you the way you talk to yourself? Many people are in self-abusive relationships with themselves, and that has everything to do with an ego running amok. Before self-love, there is self-acceptance. That is step one, and it requires introspection, taking ownership of what has led up to this present moment without projecting onto or blaming others. You cannot change the past. It must be accepted. The only thing that is real is this present moment, and the relationship that matters most is the one within you. This is not about fighting the ego. It is about seeing it, watching it, letting it be, and then talking to yourself the way you deserve. The relationship between you and you is tier one. Get that right, and everything else and everyone else benefits. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 107 - The Most Important Relationship You'll Ever Have Is Between You and You

  5. ١ يوليو

    Episode 106 - Anticipation Is a Tool of the Ego

    Anticipation is such a common tool, such a common motivator, such a common behavior. We anticipate things we perceive as good, bad, and indifferent, sometimes all three together. But what is anticipation actually doing to us, and how is it affecting the present moment itself? This episode makes the case that anticipation is a tool of the ego, one that becomes a presence roadblock. It brings something into the present moment so we can prepare for an eventuality we think is coming, but rarely does anticipation lead to exactly what happens when that moment arrives. It overlays and shadows the present with a version of the future built from the past, and it runs on the promise that preparing for an outcome will protect you from it. In reality, all you have is the present moment itself. This is not about judging yourself for anticipating. It is such a frequently used ego program that it becomes a knee jerk reaction, used in more scenarios than you could list. The work is simply to see it for what it is, to recognize when you are doing it, and to ask whether it is really helping you or just detracting from your ability to be present now. The message is simple. Stop anticipating. Be present. When that present moment comes in the future, you will deal with it then. You do not need to prepare for a present moment that is not happening now. Stay focused on what is in front of your face. Don't be hard on yourself, but stop anticipating. Be present, stay focused, and all will be well.

    Episode 106 - Anticipation Is a Tool of the Ego

  6. ٢٨ فبراير

    Episode 105 - Seeking External Validation Is a Tool of the Ego

    External validation feels good. But what happens when it runs out? This episode explores one of the ego's most powerful and pervasive traps: the endless pursuit of external validation. From the praise of parents and teachers in childhood to the approval of employers, spouses, and peers in adulthood, most of us have been deeply conditioned to measure our worth through the eyes of others. And the ego knows exactly how to exploit that. External validation can never be a sustainable source of confidence, because by its very nature, it isn't limitless. When the praise stops, the anxiety begins. When the confirmation disappears, the ego moves in with doubt, fear, and internal chaos. This episode takes an honest look at how this ego program shows up in everyday life, from professional settings and personal relationships to the extreme highs and lows of fame. It also examines why even well-intentioned advice-seeking can become a subtle form of outsourcing your own agency. The antidote? Internal validation, the practice of affirming, assuring, and praising yourself from within, especially when the ego is loudest. In this episode you'll explore: Why the ego creates doubt to manufacture a need for external approval How the "vacuum effect" of external validation fuels anxiety and depression What internal validation actually looks and feels like in practice How to endure difficult present moments with objectivity and grace Why self-affirmation has a lasting power that external praise never will You already know more than you think you do. This episode is an invitation to trust it. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 105 - Seeking External Validation Is a Tool of the Ego

  7. ٢٢ فبراير

    Episode 104 - Identifying Ego Programs in the Present Moment

    Ego programs run like computer viruses in the background of your mind, silently sabotaging your present moment and creating self-inflicted suffering. Drawing from 15 years of clinical observation across 103 podcast episodes, this deep dive reveals what ego programs are, how to identify them in real time, and why they keep you trapped in patterns that have nothing to do with reality as it actually is. "I am sick." "I'm not enough." "I don't have enough." These aren't truths - they're programs installed during trauma and hardship that your ego weaponizes against you relentlessly. Learn to recognize the difference between what's actually happening in front of you and the distorted lens your ego forces you to see through. Discover why being the objective observer - watching thoughts without judgment, criticism, or attachment - is your primary defense against these insidious patterns. Explore practical presence tools including meditation, journaling, affirmations, and binaural beats to create the crucial gap between you and your ego programs. This isn't about fighting your ego or winning battles - it's about building a different relationship with the programs that dominate your inner reality and mirror themselves in your outer world. Start with one or two dominant programs. Be patient. Be graceful with yourself. The effort matters more than the results, and presence gives you the clarity to finally see what's been running you your entire life. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 104 - Identifying Ego Programs in the Present Moment

  8. ١٩ فبراير

    Episode 103 - "I Am Sick" Is a Program of the Ego

    "I am sick" isn't a statement of fact - it's an ego program that makes you become the very illness you claim. This episode examines how the powerful declaration "I am" followed by "sick" creates ownership of disease rather than acknowledging temporary imbalance. Drawing from 15 years of clinical observation and personal experience, we explore how this pervasive ego tool keeps you trapped in fear, stress, and perpetual scanning for problems. Your mind obsesses over every ache, convincing you something is fundamentally wrong when you're simply having a human experience in a body that naturally fluctuates. Learn to distinguish between not feeling well and declaring yourself sick, between experiencing symptoms and becoming identified with disease. This isn't about denying legitimate health challenges or trivializing suffering - it's about uprooting the mental virus that amplifies discomfort into identity and spreads to everyone around you.  Discover how to reframe your language, reclaim your health, and remove this deeply ingrained program from your vocabulary. The present moment offers you clarity to see this ego tool for what it truly is: a presence obstruction keeping you from living freely. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 103 - "I Am Sick" Is a Program of the Ego
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This podcast exists to bring awareness to what it means to be present, and to offer encouragement for choosing it, again and again. Presence is not something that happens to you. It is a choice you make, moment by moment, over and over, away from the pull of the ego and back into what is actually here. Each episode looks at a different piece of that work: the habits, the programs, the tools of the ego that pull you out of the present moment, and what it takes to come back to it. You have a choice. Choose to be present.

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    The Presence Projects
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    Are You Being Present?

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