Asia Dating Podcast RedpoleQ

McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts--the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021.

We'll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We've already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too.

Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on how the dating scene has been during corona-time and more including:

How do women think about threesomes Reframing threesomes so girls will try it Ideal relationship frames and dynamic The power of positive reinforcement Why developing your sex skills is an easy win Use your skill stack to make your relationship better How qualification makes picking up and dating easier The emotional elements of being good at sex How have travel restrictions affected the dating market Guy gets caught texting another girl and improves his relationship How has coronavirus affected the dating scene in major Asian cities? How prevalent is birth control in Asia? How common are sexless marriages in Asia? Is it good to be a "player"? What is a pickup artist to do during corona time? Quadrant II: what it is, and why you should focus on it and a whole lot more...
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In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast.

It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun:

The manosphere and what it is structured game vs natural game outer game vs inner game The red pill female nature vs environment and technology Men's rights activists The internet echo chamber MGTOW and why you should stay away from women Incels Why you should love feminists and they are the best thing to ever happen to men Real life vs internet life The chad Alpha >> Beta and the problems with red pill thinking Find a dominance hierarchy you can succeed in Blue pill Choose your own value structure Who has the sexual power? Do guys want to have sex with their wives? Female privilege and double standards Feminists are wrong...not all societies need them Were the 1950s the best time? Men get so screwed by the legal system You can determine how your relationships are by how you setup your life Why you should create your own rules Always seek to make your life better The problem with hyphenated last names #1 question: are you getting what you want? To make sure you don't miss out on any of PickUp Asia's podcast, like and subscribe!
PickUp Asia offers boot camps and seminars on dating and relationships in Japan, Korea, China and other parts of Asia.

McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture .

It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene:

weird Chinese slang: the meaning of "cow cunt" and "good dick" learning Chinese Sona's origin story" A man must go on a quest, and my quest will be THERE!" DJing around Asia Acting in Asia Building a Parkour business in Taiwan Korean hustle The Taiwan dating (horror) scene RedpoleQ's scummy dating stories Is it you or do Taiwanese girls suck? Having standards and setting boundaries to have a sustainable relationship Teach people how to treat youTaiwanese girls gone wild: temper tantrums Be willing to lose someone great in the name of your own self-respect Taiwanese girls and their crazy expectations and a whole lot more...

Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage.

It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:

How to lay down a great routine DHV - Display of Higher Value American ideas about sex, dating and relationships Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly Western delusions about sex and relationships The post-consent dating world of Tinder Why dating apps are not your friend Sex addiction...is it a real thing? The dangers of porn and masturbation Is it trauma or is it life? Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them It's important to make your sexual fantasies come true Rules vs intents in relationships Compersion - Is it possible to enjoy your partner's sexual pleasure with someone else? Swinger's parties and the many ways to enjoy them Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong To live your fantasies, you have to think practically Is being divorced with kids, the best life? and a whole lot more...

Kane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle--monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought?

The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including:

Open minded dinner parties Naked yoga Vonny's matchmaking Fire breath orgasm How she met her husband aka Superman Don't let your ego stop you from getting the women you want Vonny's road to monogamy Jealousy is healthy feeling Muse Vonny inspires "love" poems Who licks pussy better, men or women? How to know you're ready for marriage What's so great about marriage? A pep talk from Vonny Let's talk about monogamy and a whole lot more...

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex.

In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including:

How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters? I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips? Why you shouldn't sleep with "easy" girls I'm a virgin, what should you do? Any tips on avoiding ladyboys, shemales and transgenders? I'm not white, do I still have a chance with East Asian girls? What are the easiest places to meet Asian girls in Asia? How to guarantee that girls will lie and take advantage of you The 3 things that could be standing in your way of success with women Why you may need to stop being you Why you need to be around who you want to become What to do when a girl sees your messages with another girl How to keep both girls happy after a 3-some and a whole lot more...
 
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