102 episodes

The Ask the Planner podcast gives sophisticated couples like you expert tips on how to style, plan, and execute a thoughtfully curated wedding. Every week join your host Desirée Adams as she interviews leading wedding industry experts and discusses the often-overlooked details that take weddings from pretty parties to heirloom occasions. Hear how to manage vendors, avoid surprises, and plan your day with honest advice from a pro. New episodes drop every Monday. If you want to binge on past episodes or learn more about the show, visit http://asktheplannerpodcast.com.You can also send questions or suggestions or future topics or guest suggestions via your Apple Podcast review, our hotline (585) 210-3467, or email asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com. Don't forget to follow the show on Instagram and Tik Tok at @asktheplannerpodcast!

Ask the Planner with Desirée Adams: A Wedding and Event Planning Podcast Desirée Adams, Verve Event Co.

    • Education
    • 4.7 • 85 Ratings

The Ask the Planner podcast gives sophisticated couples like you expert tips on how to style, plan, and execute a thoughtfully curated wedding. Every week join your host Desirée Adams as she interviews leading wedding industry experts and discusses the often-overlooked details that take weddings from pretty parties to heirloom occasions. Hear how to manage vendors, avoid surprises, and plan your day with honest advice from a pro. New episodes drop every Monday. If you want to binge on past episodes or learn more about the show, visit http://asktheplannerpodcast.com.You can also send questions or suggestions or future topics or guest suggestions via your Apple Podcast review, our hotline (585) 210-3467, or email asktheplannerpodcast@gmail.com. Don't forget to follow the show on Instagram and Tik Tok at @asktheplannerpodcast!

    Wedding Planner Tell-All: Tips to Plan a Wedding from a Professional Wedding Planner

    Wedding Planner Tell-All: Tips to Plan a Wedding from a Professional Wedding Planner

    Can you believe it? It’s our 100th episode! Thank you for being here whether it’s your first time or your 100th time - thank you for tuning in. In today’s episode, we’re talking about it ALL! From wedding horror stories to some controversial hot takes, it’s going to be one fun episode. Also, as I mentioned in past episodes, I’m actually reversing the roles for today’s episode. Instead of interviewing a guest, I’m actually joined by two of our Verve employees, Ali and Riley who are going to interview ME! So make sure you turn up your volume because things are going to get a little risque in today’s episode.

    To fast-forward to a specific part of the podcast episode, check out the timestamps below:
    Meet Desiree [2:52]What is the worst thing that has happened at a wedding? [6:07]What is the weirdest thing that has happened at a wedding [8:46]Have you ever had to fire a vendor or even part ways with a client? [11:52]Do you refund the client when you break up with them? [14:10]Do you have any day-of obstacles that stand out that you and your team had to overcome? [17:16]What is a mistake you made as a business owner when you first started out? [23:36]What are some of your goals for this podcast? [26:18]Who are some dream people you want to have on the podcast? [26:53]Who have been your favorite guests so far on the podcast? [27:22]What is a dream of yours that no one knows? [29:08] What is ONE myth you want to bust about the wedding industry? [32:49]LINKS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE
    Visit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop (Use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)Instagram: @asktheplannerpodcast Our Amazon StorefrontBook a clarity callFor today’s episode show notes and links mentioned on the episode, make sure you visit verveeventco.com/100
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    • 52 min
    Your Wedding Vendor Checklist: What to Do After You Book Your Wedding Vendors

    Your Wedding Vendor Checklist: What to Do After You Book Your Wedding Vendors

     Today, we're going to explore that "what's next" feeling you might be having after you've booked your "main" wedding vendors. It's a huge accomplishment to have found and booked those vendors, and as a wedding planner, I know that it can bring a HUGE sigh of relief feeling like "the hard part is over". However, it's important to remember that there are still a million little things to do before your wedding day. So often, couples feel like they're "done" once they've booked their vendors, but the reality is that there is still a lot of work to be done. In today's episode, we're going to dive into exactly what to do after booking your main wedding vendors.  

    To fast-forward to a specific part of the podcast episode, check out the timestamps below:
    Book your main vendors and create a cohesive decor plan [1:26]Book secondary wedding vendors [3:05]Create your wedding day timeline [4:25]Create scripts and choose your wedding songs [12:53]LINKS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE
    Visit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop (Use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)Full Service PlanningBook a Clarity Call with DesiréeEpisode 67: Find Your Perfect (Color) Match: Wedding Designs and Color PalettesEpisode 19: How to Put Together a Wedding Day Timeline in 7 StepsEpisode 97: Last-Minute Wedding To-Do ListHow to Put Together a Smooth Wedding Day TimelineEpisode 65: Signature Wedding Cocktails for Every SeasonFree Styled Shoot Timeline TemplateFor the episode show notes, make sure you visit verveeventco.com/99
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    • 25 min
    Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: Wedding Party Fashion with Katie Hubbard of My Wedding Wardrobe

    Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: Wedding Party Fashion with Katie Hubbard of My Wedding Wardrobe

    So much thought and planning goes into your wedding aesthetic. The flowers, the stationery, the tables, etc. But what about you and your wedding party? Obviously one of the most important aspects of the day is your people! Your squad. And what they’re wearing makes a big impact on your overall wedding aesthetic.
    But there are so many brands and directions you can take - same dresses, different dresses, prints, what’s flattering on so many body styles, etc. 
    How do you muddle through all this? On today’s episode, our guest guides you through the whole process and shares with us her tips on how to achieve those perfectly coordinated looks. 

    This episode was packed with so many amazing tips from our guest. Below are the time stamps to help you navigate the episode. 
    Meet Katie Hubbard [02:14]How do you help couples and brides select their wedding attire? [3:53]What’s the process of working with a wedding stylist? [4:24]Why do you focus on all wedding fashion EXCEPT the wedding dress? [6:42]Do you only style the bride? [7:34]Why are brides choosing mismatched dresses for bridesmaids' dresses? [8:47]Favorite bridesmaid dresses designers or brands? [11:12]What other services does My Wedding Wardrobe provide? [11:52]2023 wedding fashion trends? [16:21]Groomsmen fashion trends for 2023? [18:21]Styling mixed-gender wedding parties (bridesmen, groomsmaids, etc.)? [19:45]Listener question 1: Are there types of jewelry or shoes that would look better with certain dresses? [21:54]Listener question 2: I chose a blush dress with a white lace overlay. I want to wear pale blue shoes for my “something blue." Good idea or bad idea? [23:26]“This or That” [25:12] Connect with Katie Hubbard
    My Wedding WardrobeInstagram: @myweddingwardrobeLinks Mentioned in the Show
    Sachin and BabiMy Wedding Wardrobe's Bridal ResaleMy Wedding Wardrobe's Event TravelTHANK YOU TO OUR PODCAST SPONSOR! 
    Proven Skincare. Get 20% off my daily skincare routine! Enter the code DESIREE during checkout to save 20% off your first order.For the episode show notes and links, go to verveeventco.com/96
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    • 34 min
    Last-Minute Wedding To-Do List

    Last-Minute Wedding To-Do List

    Today, I’m sharing EVERYTHING you need to do while you’re in the home stretch of wedding planning - including the things that typically aren’t covered on a wedding planning checklist (because at this point, you kind of feel like you’ve done everything).
    These “home stretch” tasks are going to make the biggest difference on your wedding day. But that’s why you listen to this podcast right? So you never have to worry about missing a thing.

    I’m going to dive into all of the juicy details for today’s episode but in case you’re driving (or want to save some notes to talk to your fiance later), you’ll be able to find today’s episode show notes at verveeventco.com/97

    To fast-forward to a specific part of the podcast episode, check out the timestamps below:
    Wedding Timelines [2:51]Vendor Load-in [3:15]Getting Ready [4:25]Photography Timeline [6:20]Ceremony [6:58]Reception [7:44]Vendor Breakdown/Load-out [8:15]Finalize Your Wedding Guest List & Seating ChartFinalize Rentals & Decor [11:50]Wedding Party Details [14:46]Last-Minute Wedding Items [18:10] LINKS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE
    Shop the Wedding Planning Templates Shop (Use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)Learn more about our Wedding Venue Selection ServiceBook a Clarity Call with DesiréeWedding Pocket Schedules Template Get the Ultimate Wedding Planning ChecklistConnect with the show!
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    • 26 min
    Confidence Starts Here: Getting Your wedding Smile Ready with Invisalign and Teeth Whitening with Jim Gleason of Gleason Orthodontics

    Confidence Starts Here: Getting Your wedding Smile Ready with Invisalign and Teeth Whitening with Jim Gleason of Gleason Orthodontics

    During your wedding you will have a ton of photos taken of you. For some people this can be very nerve-wracking if they’re self-conscious about their appearance - including their smile. And let’s be honest, your smile is in almost every single photo of you. So if you don’t have good teeth, this can be a problem. 
    On today’s episode, we’re talking about your teeth and how to make sure your smile looks its very best on the wedding day. Even if you’re not getting married, we’re still going to talk about some important items and busting some myths about dental hygiene, so make sure you listen until the end!

    This episode was packed with so many amazing tips from our guest. 
    Meet Dr. Jim Gleason  [02:52]What is Invisalign? [09:02]How are clear aligners different or similar to braces? [10:49]What makes someone a good or bad candidate for Invisalign? [14:29]How does Invisalign or clear aligners work? [16:12]What is the timeline and process for Invisalign? [19:18]Do online and at-home options like SmileDirectClub or Byte work? [22:33]How much does Invisalign cost? [27:52]Common misconceptions about clear aligners and braces. [30:57]Will I get more cavities if I use clear aligners or Invisalign? [36:11]Does mouth wash work? [37:57]When is the best time to get your teeth whitened? [41:08]Connect with Jim Gleason
    Gleason Orthodontics websiteInstagram: @gleasonorthoLinks Mentioned in the Show
    Check out Gleason Ortho's Amazon StorefrontDr. Gleason's favorite mouthwashDr. Gleason's cavity-fighting gumTHANK YOU TO OUR PODCAST SPONSOR! 
    Proven Skincare. Get 20% off my daily skincare routine! Enter the code DESIREE during checkout to save 20% off your first order.For the episode show notes and links, go to verveeventco.com/96
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    • 54 min
    When to Send a Wedding Invitation: Answers to Your Wedding Stationery Questions with Allison Jackson of Kindly Delivered

    When to Send a Wedding Invitation: Answers to Your Wedding Stationery Questions with Allison Jackson of Kindly Delivered

    From letterpress to blind press, escort cards versus place cards, the wedding stationery world can be a confusing place if you’re not familiar with the terminology. On today’s episode, I talk to a stationery expert and together we give you a crash course on all things wedding paper. 
    No matter where you are in your wedding planning journey, or even if you’re a vendor listening along - you’re going to want to listen to today’s episode. I promise you will learn something new that will help you prepare for your wedding, or at least tell you the difference between an escort card and a place card. 

    This episode was packed with so many amazing tips from our guest. 
    Meet Allison Jackson [02:38]How do you suggest couples figure out how many invitations are needed? [04:45]What about printing methods and how they should go about choosing or finding the right wedding stationery designer for them? [05:35]How much do they spend for invitation for 100 people? [07:23]A quick paper terminology segment so our guests know what we’re talking about when it comes to the different elements? Digital /Flat Printing [08:30] Embossed Printing [09:05]Letterpress Printing [09:47]What is the difference escort cards and place cards? [10:50]What about some accents or details that would help couples in their stationery journey:Vellum [12:11]Seals [12:47]Outter Envelopes [13:44]Inner Envelopes [14:12]Envelope Liner [15:49]What is the timeline for ordering stationery - from save the dates to day-of wedding stationery and signage - When should couples start working with a stationer? [20:31]A quick list of the different pieces that couples should be thinking about that they might need for their stationery. Save-the-date [25:56]Invitation Suite [26:45]Day-of stationery [27:45]What is your feeling with those and do many of your couples opt to go with either electronic reply cards or incorporating QR codes? [29:36]What new techniques or trends or methods or details are you excited for when it comes to stationery that couples might want to incorporate into their own stationery? [31:06]Is there anything else you wanted to share that we haven’t covered on today’s episode? [33:27]What myth would you like to debunk about  what you do? [34:15]This or That [35:25]Connect with Allison Jackson
    Kindly Delivered websiteInstagram: @kindlydeliveredPinterest: @kindlydeliveredFacebook: Kindly DeliveredLinks Mentioned in the Show
    Ultimate Wedding Planning ChecklistTHANK YOU TO OUR PODCAST SPONSOR! 
    ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop –  (Use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)For the episode show notes and links, go to verveeventco.com/95
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    • 41 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
85 Ratings

85 Ratings

lilly perkens ,

Love it!

Very informational podcast perfect for planning a wedding. Thank you for sharing.

AliRae16 ,

So fun!

Love this podcast and all the BTS Desiree shares! So helpful!

mandiexr ,

The Wedding podcast for the wedding clueless!

I’m so thankful for this podcast! Been listening to every episode since we got engaged last fall. As someone who has been to only a couple of weddings I had no clue what I was doing. With Desiree’s advice I have been able to enjoy our engagement thus far and have been able to prioritize a planning timeline. Absolutely stoked for season 4! I will be impatiently patiently waiting 😉 Thanks Desiree!

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