This podcast will help partners of sex addicts work through the betrayal trauma that naturally occurs. You have been traumatized and we want you to have the resources to take care of yourself and find safety in an unsafe situation.
Does Your Partner Have An Intimacy Disorder with Carol the Coach
Carol the Coach will be interviewing Marie Kriebs an expert in intimacy disorders, partner betrayal and vulnerability. As an APSATS trained therapist, she believes it is important to educate betrayed partners about healthy intimacy and the importance of personal growth and self awareness. She will be sharing some of the myths about vulnerability and helping our listeners to identify how and when they can be more vulnerable.
Educating the Church About "The P Word"with Carol the Coach
Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Catherine Etherington who is a part of the Naked Truth Project about some new programing that is coming out that will help you and the church know how to support addicts, partners and families all over the world! They have set up a P Word Conference to stream critical information to help set up programming to keep our communities safe. This conference will have experts from all over the world who will start the conversation to find hope and strength in the recovery process. And it can start with the church!
Is Sex Addiction a Crime with Carol the Coach
Sex addicts who knowingly have sex with their spouses while having unprotected sex with others are violating their spouses by undermining her self-determination over her body. When the partner of the SA has no idea she's been "having sex" with her spouse's sex workers, a crime has been committed.
Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Alex Katehakis, Ph.D, Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex, who believes that sex in a relationship where intimate deception is taking place is a non-consensual act and leaves many partners feeling "raped" having been exposed to multiple sex partners and the potential to contract an STI, some of which can be fatal.
Find out why few women get honest enough with themselves about the gravity of this type of gross violation!
Healing Broken Hearts with Carol the Coach
Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Laura Jenkins and Sherri Payne, who have supported the APSATS team to help women who are hurting and alone. They would like to share their story of the betrayal they experienced in their marriages over many years, how Ithey said “no more”, and overcame their fears to rebuild a life that was shattered.
You may have experienced this, or know a woman close to you who struggles in her married relationship. Laura Jenkins says, "Our struggles are held very close and hidden, the pain and isolation leading to additional trauma beyond what our partner’s sexual acting out has dealt us."
Having gone through this and found a certain level of healing, Sherri Payne acknowleges that they have felt a definite call to help women Iand in a place of safety as they navigate through the betrayal. Her not for profit, Unbound and Free is a "pay it forward" program is a ministry that that can help partially pay to help another woman who needs access to coaching and mentoring.
Laura Jenkins founded Safe Haven Mentoring to be a resource, to provide a safe, compassionate haven for women to be heard and help them navigate this mindfield of hurts and disillusionment.She acknowledges, 'My first step in rebuilding my life was focusing on myself, and getting educated and as a coach I am here to help you rebuild yours too!
Listen as these two mentors explain how they are giving back!
How To Work Through Partner Betrayal with Carol the Coach
Partner betrayal is devestating and you need the skills to get through it. Listen as Carol the Coach gives you tips on how to work through the pain! Today, Joanna Raabsmith is going to be talking about how she empowerw partners as their spouses struggle with sex addiction, infedelity and betrayal. When partners find out about the discovery, they typically feel disempowered and the imbalance can make them feel even more unsafe and insecure. As they become more empowered, they have more control and their personal healing increases.
Why Grief is Vital to Healing
Grief is a step that many many betrayed partners miss in the aftermath of Discovery day. However, it's vital in the healing process. It is in the 2nd phase of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model. It matters. Today, Lyschel Burket is going to talk about why grief is so important to the mind, body and spirit and how to effectively work through it to get to restoration of self.
I love the information on here- but the intro is too long and the audio at times is awful. Issues with sound and guests that call in with audio issues is a common occurrence.
Love this podcast!!!
VERY grateful for this podcast! (The intros are too long- 10-15 minutes) but once the interviews begin, it’s so helpful, validating, and informative! Thank you so very much!
Betrayal trauma Radio
Thank you for providing this resource for all of us wanting to learn more! Your work is much appreciated.
Loved the first episode and am looking forward to all to come!