22 episodes

Ahmir & Basirah are Co-Hosts, Lovers, Creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. They created Both Sides of The Bed as a safe space to talk about and learn about sex and relationships, because there are a lot of people who have sexual experiences that are lacking what they truly desire, and they want to be a part of the catalyst that shifts that narrative. The show's premise is to get both the masculine and feminine perspectives of what happens in and out of the bedroom. This Podcast is a place to learn how to amplify levels of intimacy and equip people with the proper language and tools to explore their sexuality with their partners and also become more open-minded with how they give and receive pleasure.Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & RATE to follow the discussion and know more about the creators by following on IG @ahmir_rashad & @basirah__ and stay updated @bothsidesofthebed.NEW EPISODES WEEKLYhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Both Sides of The Bed Ahmir Rashad & Basirah Rahim

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 46 Ratings

Ahmir & Basirah are Co-Hosts, Lovers, Creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. They created Both Sides of The Bed as a safe space to talk about and learn about sex and relationships, because there are a lot of people who have sexual experiences that are lacking what they truly desire, and they want to be a part of the catalyst that shifts that narrative. The show's premise is to get both the masculine and feminine perspectives of what happens in and out of the bedroom. This Podcast is a place to learn how to amplify levels of intimacy and equip people with the proper language and tools to explore their sexuality with their partners and also become more open-minded with how they give and receive pleasure.Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & RATE to follow the discussion and know more about the creators by following on IG @ahmir_rashad & @basirah__ and stay updated @bothsidesofthebed.NEW EPISODES WEEKLYhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

    Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 2) The Dominant & Switch

    Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 2) The Dominant & Switch

    Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you.

    Join Ahmir and Basirah in part two of this this  two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part , they  share insights into the characteristics and styles of dominance and the things to consider when developing your style.

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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 1) The Submissive

    Are You A Dom, Sub or Switch: (Part 1) The Submissive

    Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you.

    Join Ahmir and Basirah in this  two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part 1, they  share insights into the emotional aspects of being a submissive, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, trust, and open dialogue. 

    They also shed light on the intricate nature of submission, offering listeners a chance to uncover the transformative power of understanding and embracing different relationship dynamics and how they naturally impact a relationship intentionally and unintentionally. 

    • 1 hr 5 min
    Toys R' Us - Lets Explore Some Sex Toys!

    Toys R' Us - Lets Explore Some Sex Toys!

    In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah delve into the world of sex toys and share their tips on incorporating them into the bedroom. From sensual exploration to impact play, they've got you covered. Join them as they take you on an exciting tour of their favorite sexy toys that are sure to enhance your pleasure and playfulness.

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    For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website
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    • 1 hr 32 min
    Are You Speaking My Language? - Exploring The 5 Love Languages

    Are You Speaking My Language? - Exploring The 5 Love Languages

    Want to experience a deeper connection with your partner in and out of the bedroom? Or do you simply want some tips to help you and your partner get exactly what you desire sexually from each other?

    Join Ahmir and Basirah as they discuss the five love languages with a seductive twist,
    Continuing their mini-series about re-building connection, they'll show you how to use these love languages to take intimacy to new heights from Words of Affirmation to Physical Touch. Get ready for some exciting tips to amp up pleasure and passion using the power of the 5 love languages. Unlock new levels of connection, desire, and communication with the love languages we all know and love.

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    For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website

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    For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed

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    • 58 min
    Connection At Its Core - Building Real Human Connections

    Connection At Its Core - Building Real Human Connections

    Tune in to this weeks episode as Ahmir and Basirah share personal anecdotes, actionable advice on how to foster authentic connections and dive into Love Mapping by John Gottman. Whether you're seeking to enhance your existing relationships or forge new connections, this episode is sure to leave you inspired and equipped with valuable tools to navigate the real of human connection at its core.

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    Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv

    For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website
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    Connect with us on Instagram
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    Shoutout to Elle X Erotica
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    • 1 hr 32 min
    You Are My Twin Flame (Part 2)

    You Are My Twin Flame (Part 2)

    In this deeply honest and insightful episode, Ahmir and Basirah continue their conversation from part one, delving even further into the challenges they've faced in their relationship and the ways in which they've grown and healed together. With vulnerability and authenticity, they share their journey of overcoming turmoil and finding a deeper connection, ultimately emerging stronger and more resilient. And in addition to exploring the depths of their personal experiences, they also share exciting news about the new directions that BSOTB will be taking. Tune in for a powerful and inspiring conversation about love, growth, and the beauty of overcoming adversity.

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    For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed
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    Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv

    For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website
    https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)

    Linktree
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    SHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMES
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    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
46 Ratings

46 Ratings

harljax_mom ,

Absolutely LOVE !!

This is one my favorite podcast thus far other I tend to restart it because it doesn’t catch my attention. Now this one I am tuned in all the way ..

Keep up the phenomenal work 👏🏼👏🏼

OzyD ,

Relatable adventures

Love the perspectives, love the personalities! Looking forward to more!

Love it sm ,

LOVE this perspective!!

This couple definitely brings something new to the table & in the space of sex, kink, & much more. The dynamic between these two seems very genuine & authentic which is really refreshing. I definitely respect the woman on this podcast because she is very open and receptive toward what her man wants yet you could still tell that her opinion, perspective, & limits are truly valued. Loving how both parties are very knowledgeable & are willing to delve in this space with such transparency & awareness. S/o to BSOTB ~ looking forward to hearing more from y’all 💯

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