CHARACTER with Anne Benveniste

Anne Benveniste

New York City is full of characters: unapologetically authentic people who create the vibe that make this city great. People who have thrown out the rulebook and become the artist of their life. Join Anne Benveniste as she dives into the messy, unpredictable journey towards fulfillment and authentic self-expression. These are honest, intimate conversations, where we explore taking risks, trusting your intuition, career twists, creative awakenings, and the role this intense and powerful city played in shaping their path.

Episodes

  1. Investing in Human Consciousness: Sutian Dong on Plan B and Changing How We Think and Feel

    OCT 21

    Investing in Human Consciousness: Sutian Dong on Plan B and Changing How We Think and Feel

    What happens when you build something you thought would work and then it doesn’t? And there’s no plan B. Sutian Dong, Partner at Multitudes and Co-Founder of Global Women in VC, is fascinated with creating products, technologies, platforms, services, and communities that move humanity in a positive direction by not changing how we do things, but the way that we think and feel. After years of lucky breaks and things always just working out, Sutian found herself in uncharted territory when her original concept for Multitudes failed and she had no idea what came next. That moment of disorientation became the catalyst for profound self-inquiry that ultimately sparked the insights that created her new venture, Multitudes, which invests in and incubates ideas that explore the edge of human consciousness. This conversation is a reminder that growth isn’t always a straight line and that the best ideas often happen when you give yourself permission to rest and reflect.  On this episode of Character, Sutian joins me to talk about: Why running a business is one of the rawest forms of self-expression The modalities Sutian used to move through processing failure and figuring out what came next Navigating discomfort to support your growth The relevance of spirituality in the modern world Using tools like astrology, tarot, and aura photography to access self-connection and build community The second-order effects of AI Multitudes’ approach to investing in initiatives at the edge of human consciousness This episode was recorded at Love Letter, an aura photography studio, on the Lower East Side.  Learn more about Sutian’s work: https://www.sutiandong.com/Learn more about Love Letter: https://www.loveletter.nyc/  TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 — The Power of Pause 00:52 — Meet Sutian Dong 02:10 — Childhood Dreams 04:17 — Growing Up Entrepreneurial 05:30 — From Structure to Self-Reliance 07:34 — When Success Stops Working 09:56 — Forced Introspection 11:50 — Feeling the Feelings 13:57 — Tools for Healing 16:35 — The Gradual Sunrise of Change 19:16 — Compounding Change & Self-Advice 20:58 — Redefining Venture Capital 23:01 — The Power of Belief Systems 24:08 — Following Curiosity 25:57 — Flux and Rebirth 27:10 — Searching for Meaning in Chaos

    46 min
  2. Nightlife as Spirituality - Ariel Palitz on Trusting Flow and Finding Your People

    SEP 30

    Nightlife as Spirituality - Ariel Palitz on Trusting Flow and Finding Your People

    What does it mean to build a life around authenticity, intuition, and joy—even when it defies expectations? Ariel Palitz, nightlife veteran, entrepreneur, and former NYC Nightlife Mayor, joins me for a conversation about defiance, self-discovery, and designing a life by trusting what feels good. Growing up in Manhattan, Ariel found herself drawn early to the freedom of nightlife as a place where she felt most alive. From experimenting with PR and music, to opening her own nightclub, to ultimately creating a career at the intersection of community, culture, and advocacy, Arielle’s story is one of resilience, intuition, and flow. On this episode of Character, Arielle joins me to talk about: Growing up in a New York household that was glamorous but disconnected, and learning to rely on her own inner compassDiscovering the authentic energy of nightlife as a place of freedom and expression from a young ageWhy experimenting with different jobs and industries was essential to finding where she truly fitThe leap from working in PR to opening her own nightclub and later shaping NYC’s nightlife policyHow she stays connected to herself through meditation, creativity, and joy-centered practicesLessons on trusting flow, protecting your peace, and the spiritual side of nightlife SUBSCRIBE NOW:   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@characterpod   Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/character-with-anne-benveniste/id1645863102  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/63UcUnBWGGxAjTiX9Q2RnN  FOLLOW ALONG:   Substack: https://annebenven.substack.com  Website: https://www.annebenveniste.com   LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annebenveniste/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/characterpod

    37 min
  3. From the Skies to the Spa - Brandon Ross On Betting On Himself To Get Into Flow

    SEP 16

    From the Skies to the Spa - Brandon Ross On Betting On Himself To Get Into Flow

    What does it take to leave behind security and familiarity and start over in pursuit of purpose? Brandon Ross, a former flight attendant turned massage therapist and founder of Romie Massage in New York City joins me for a story of reinvention, courage, and self-acceptance. From a delayed blooming growing up gay in a conservative Christian household, to an angry rebellion as he built his first career as a flight attendant, and then switching it all up to create an entrepreneurial career around what energized him, Brandon’s story is one that anyone who dreams of more can learn from! On this episode of Character, Brandon joins me to talk about:  Navigating his love for dance and choreography while growing up in a strict religious household that didn’t embrace this self-expression The freedom and adventure he found as a flight attendant — and why it ultimately left him searching for more How he discovered massage therapy through years of travel, curiosity, and noticing the artistry of touch The leap of faith it took to leave corporate stability and build his own practice Lessons on identity, devotion over discipline, and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who believe in your vision TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Meeting Brandon at a Buffalo party 01:15 – Wanting to be a choreographer 04:50 – Growing up in a strict household 08:10 – Flight attendant years & freedom in travel 14:30 – Discovering massage therapy 19:20 – Taking the leap into entrepreneurship 22:30 – Staying committed through challenges 26:20 – Devotion vs discipline 27:50 – Flow and alignment through massage 28:50 – Tools for reconnecting with self SUBSCRIBE NOW:   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@characterpod   Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/character-with-anne-benveniste/id1645863102  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/63UcUnBWGGxAjTiX9Q2RnN  FOLLOW ALONG:   Substack: https://annebenven.substack.com  Website: https://www.annebenveniste.com   LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annebenveniste/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/characterpod

    37 min
  4. Building a Fashion Brand From Scratch in NYC - Delfina Baldassarre

    AUG 13

    Building a Fashion Brand From Scratch in NYC - Delfina Baldassarre

    How does an Argentinian psychoanalyst and sommelier with no formal design training build a beloved fashion and bridal line in New York City? We dive into Delfina’s journey in the first episode of Character and discuss:  The culture and influences that shaped her early career and life in Buenos Aires Making the move to New York and exploring a variety of careers Using intuition to guide the launch of her first collection and the launch of her widely successful non-traditional bridal line The powerful role ayahuasca played in her ability to navigate this growth and tap into her authentic self-expression and creativity The lessons learned from 14 years living in New York and building her own brand Subscribe to the Character Substack for: My deeper analysis as a coach of what’s helped Delfina thriveBehind the scenes photos of Delfina in her Brooklyn studioDelfina’s New York City recommendations SUBSCRIBE NOW:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@characterpod  Want to create an energizing career you love like Delfina?  Learn more about Anne’s unconventional career coaching that blends deep healing with neuroscience and classic career tools to help you create clarity, momentum, confidence, and deep self-trust. FOLLOW ALONG:  Substack: https://annebenven.substack.com Website: https://www.annebenveniste.com  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annebenveniste/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/characterpod

    34 min

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New York City is full of characters: unapologetically authentic people who create the vibe that make this city great. People who have thrown out the rulebook and become the artist of their life. Join Anne Benveniste as she dives into the messy, unpredictable journey towards fulfillment and authentic self-expression. These are honest, intimate conversations, where we explore taking risks, trusting your intuition, career twists, creative awakenings, and the role this intense and powerful city played in shaping their path.