100 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kim Seltzer / Kimberly Seltzer

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Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Coaching With Kimmy: Where Are They Now With Heather

    Coaching With Kimmy: Where Are They Now With Heather

    Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy:  Where Are They Now?  In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with her and the secrets to their success! On this episode, you'll meet Heather who found Kimmy six years ago, recovering from a divorce as a newly single mom and how Kimmy led her down the path to finding true love.
     
    Right at the top, listen in as Heather thinks back to the challenges and insecurity she was facing in her life. After she left her marriage, she got into another relationship quickly--before she was able to truly discover what she wanted in a new relationship. Kimmy prompts Heather to share details about her upbringing that shine a light on Heather's perfectionist streak and I-can-do-it-all attitude. If you've ever felt desperate to figure out what's going wrong in your dating life because you're in control of every other aspect of your life, this episode is for you. From the moment they connected with one another, Kimmy was able to deliver the honest, caring, tough-love approach Heather needed to see her path forward more clearly. It wasn't about finding the perfect man, it was about making a real connection with a man worthy of being in Heather's life. Of course, Kimmy asks Heather to spill all the details about the man who's been in Heather's life for 5 years now! Plus, you'll hear Heather walk through how she used Kimmy's expertise to date online, without meeting in person. 
     
    While you may be in quarantine right now, it's still possible to discover incredible emotional connections using dating apps. Seriously! Now is the right time to focus on yourself and discover what you want, and who truly deserves *you*. You can schedule a time to chat with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and talk through it all just as Heather started out doing 6 years ago! 
     
    Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer,  The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
     
    Charisma Quotient Episode 136:  Coaching With Kimmy:  Where Are They Now With Heather
     
    Connect with Kimmy through any of these links:
     
    Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough
    https://seltzerstyle.com/ 
    https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly/ 
    https://facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/

    • 35 min
    Interview With Ken Lauher: Feng Shui For Love

    Interview With Ken Lauher: Feng Shui For Love

    Did you know that clutter can affect your love life?  If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the spread of coronavirus. With all this newfound time at home, you might be thinking it's time to purge your space of clutter! This week on the show, Kimmy Seltzer brings on Ken Lauher, a Feng Shui expert, consultant and coach who helps high-performers use the art of Feng Shui to declutter their minds and achieve their biggest goals. You'll hear how Ken went from working on Wall Street to embracing the power of Feng Shui and how he teaches those principles to help his clients discover healthier, wealthier, more abundant lives. 
     
    Kimmy facilitates a deep discussion with Ken in how you can create and attract love starting with your home and closet.  Ken talks through how trauma, drama and stress can takeover our minds and cause crippling fear, anxiety and self-doubt. When you experience these feelings in your love life, there are some simple Feng Shui tools you can use to begin to walk out of fear and start to embrace yourself confidently. Ken divulges the area of your home you need to evaluate in order to encourage an abundant love life while Kimmy dives into colors you can wear in order to attract a great match! This conversation hits home on the fact that your space is a direct reflection of what's going on in your head. Now that you're likely spending a lot more time at home, it's the perfect opportunity to reflect on what your space is saying about what's really going on for you and learn how to create a positive love environment. 
     
    If you want to explore more deeply into Ken's take on modern Feng Shui, Charisma Quotient listeners can join his membership program now for 50% off the regular price. If you're ready to tackle the mess in your closet, check out Kimmy's FREE Wardrobe Guide! Don't let yourself hide behind old clothes, old patterns, and old habits that don't serve the person you deserve to be.
     
    Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer,  The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
     
    Charisma Quotient Episode 135:  Interview With Ken Lauher: Feng Shui For Love 
     
    Connect with Kimmy through any of these links:
     Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough https://seltzerstyle.com/ https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly/ https://facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/

    • 37 min
    Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During the Coronavirus

    Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During the Coronavirus

    Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment where she answers your dating and relationship questions during this uncertain time. With the advent of the coronavirus outbreak, those of us wading into the dating pool need to get creative with how we create connections with one another without being able to meet in-person.
     
    While you can't physically connect with new people, in this week’s episode of Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During A Coronavirus, Kimmy Seltzer explains how you can socially connect on a deep level now more than ever. This episode will show you that you can create that feeling of closeness, combat loneliness and use your newfound spare time to foster connection in a new way. 
     
    You'll hear a question from a woman who's dealing with feeling alone and looking for ways to be kinder to herself in those moments.  Kimmy tackles this tough question strategically by reviewing 5 steps to combat loneliness. What do you do if you've got a string of in-person dates lined up, but all the bars and restaurants are closed and you've been told to shelter in place? Listen in as Kimmy discusses creative ways to date and work on dating skills while at home. She shares her top tips for how to transition to online dating if you haven't before and how to have great virtual dates. Plus, you'll get answers that will help you boost your conversation skills in the apps and lockdown dates like never before. Listen in to hear answers on how you can start creating a different kind of chemistry by relying less on physicality, and more on emotions.
     
    If you're still feeling lost when it comes to fostering connections online, this is a great opportunity to join a supportive online community of amazing women in Kimmy's FREE private Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders.  This is a chance to actually meet other wing women and create incredible, deep connections online!  There's no better time than right now to start exploring the online playground and create new connections without meeting in person.
     
    Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer,  The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
     
    Charisma Quotient Episode 134: Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions During A Coronavirus.
     
    Connect with Kimmy through any of these links:
    Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough https://seltzerstyle.com/ Twitter: @SeltzerKimberly Facebook: Kimberly Seltzer


     

    • 35 min
    Dating & Staying Connected To Others During the Coronavirus

    Dating & Staying Connected To Others During the Coronavirus

    Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer, shares her thoughts on maintaining personal connections in dating and in life with all the uncertainty and fear that is surrounding the coronavirus outbreak. Health officials and government warnings have kept an intense focus on a series of messages to self-quarantine as well as avoiding close personal interactions. 
     
    For this week’s episode called 'Dating and staying connected to others during a Coronavirus' of The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer explains how physical or social distancing does not have to equate to total social and emotional isolation. 
     
    Learning to foster these types of connections without physical contact can make a positive and healthy difference in these negative times that feel overrun with fear. Some believe when our desires for personal connections are not met, it can result in both physical and mental negative health outcomes. 
     
    In this episode, Kim reviews five applicable steps to bring a renewed sense of motivation, connection, and focus with an authentic route to finding love during the coronavirus pandemic or for that matter, any type of quarantine situation. By bringing this breakneck speed of news, opinion, and information to a slower pace and identifying the 'outbreak' as a chance to break away from methods that were not working before, this could be a perfect time to reset and focus on the needs you may have been ignoring. 
     
    Making the intentional choices to become healthy, happy and connected can create the opportunities to find others or that special other person that is looking for someone just like you. Whether your focus is dating and staying connected to others during a coronavirus, a pandemic, an outbreak or whatever else has you in a place of fear, Kimmy Seltzer brings a knowledge, an expertise and an array of experiences that may help you connect with that one special person… regardless of what is going on around the rest of the world. 
     
    To start getting more confident and connected with potential dates, check out this *Free Photo Guidelines* for men and women to help boost your profile and start getting the kind of matches you're looking for. Plus, when you download it you'll get a discount on a Profile Makeover session with Kimmy. 
     
    Hosted by Authentic Dating and Strategic Makeover Authority Kimmy Seltzer,  The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.
     
    Charisma Quotient Episode 133: Dating and Staying Connected to Others During the Coronavirus
     
    Connect with Kimmy here:
    https://seltzerstyle.com/ https://twitter.com/SeltzerKimberly/ https://facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/

    • 23 min
    Interview with Nikki Barua: How To Go From Barriers To Breakthroughs FAST

    Interview with Nikki Barua: How To Go From Barriers To Breakthroughs FAST

    Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don’t? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you’re working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obstacles and rising to the occasion so you can progress? This week, Kim brings on a global leader in breaking barriers for women in business, Nikki Barua. As the Founder & CEO of Beyond Barriers, a platform that helps women leaders gain momentum and unlock innovative and adaptive digital-age strategies, Nikki is a master in helping you think outside of your comfort zone and be successful. Kim and Nikki begin by discussing why and how it is harmful tying yourself self-worth to the opinions of others is. As women, we often have to work harder to unlearn unhelpful patterns that diminish our confidence. If you’re a people-pleaser, this can create a huge obstacle! You will learn tips about how to get around the barrier of feeling guilty when you set a boundary and how you can instead gain the clarity you need to discover what you really feel and want. Nikki explains how to stop letting others set goals for you and move into setting those benchmarks for yourself. If you need to break through the barriers that are holding you back in your love life, then reach out to Kim for a free breakthrough call here: http://charismaquotient.com/apply/. This one call could be the turning point where you stop searching for someone or something that others want for you and start prioritizing what will make you truly happy!

    • 40 min
    Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Julie

    Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Julie

    Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding love.  Julie shares that she was driven to work with Kim because she had reached the end of her rope and needed help to get on the path of finding the right kind of relationship for her.  After investing to work with Kim, you'll learn the story of how Julie learned to release anxiety and land the amazing dream guy she is dating today. Kim asks Julie to reflect back on how she grew up and the kind of people she used to attract earlier in her life. They discuss how Julie's perception of what a man “should" be has transformed while working together and the tools she learned along the way to stay in a successful relationship. This conversation will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone, let go of perfectionism and switch up your patterns to attract the right partner into your life.  Listen in to hear key tips to lower anxiety and gain a clear picture of the reality of the situation so that you can date smarter. If you're struggling to get different results in your dating life or you're dealing with increasing anxiety around love, take this opportunity to learn the same lesson Julie did. Sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough This one call may be the very step you need to make a big difference in your love life. You could be the next star in these episodes to talk about your success story!

    • 30 min

Customer Reviews

Clarisse Gomez ,

Awesome Podcast!!!

Kim, host of the Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love podcast, highlight all aspects of relationships and more in this can’t miss podcast! The host and expert guests offer insightful advice and information that is helpful to anyone that listens!

Paula4Miller ,

Amazing podcast!

Kim provides a wealth of knowledge, inspiration and empowerment! She offers a great mixture of topics to help transform on the outside as well as the inside. Her heart is filled with compassion! Must listen podcast!

Alana Haldan ,

Informative and Motivating

Kim is full of charisma and offers up actionable tips to help her listeners unlock charisma of our own. Even though I’m happily married and not in the dating game myself, I’ve found this podcast to be so helpful. Her episode about finding the motivation to change was so helpful to me and gave me lessons I was able to apply to my professional endeavors.

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