47 episodes
Conversations to Cut the Conflict Lisanne Iriks
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- Society & Culture
HI, I am Lisanne Iriks and I am deeply passionate about people having the ability to resolve conflict powerfully and negotiate effectively in their lives. I am so passionate about it because I see how much suffering it is causing people on a daily basis and I know that it just does not have to be this way. When people truly get how conflict impacts their life and put the work in to get effective at conflict resolution and negotiation, they get to experience deep connections with other people, freedom, self-expression, love, and happiness!
So what is it that I do? I am a conflict resolution specialist and have been a mediator and facilitator for over 12 years specialising in family mediation and workplace mediation. I have taken thousands for people through the mediation process and I have had the honour to be a finalist for the Australian Mediator of the year award for the last two years. I train, coach, and mentor people to become highly effective in conflict resolution and negotiation so they can create the relationships they want in their homes and their boardrooms.
I am so excited to welcome you to CONVERSATIONS TO CUT THE CONFLICT! This podcast is designed to create actual change in people’s lives and the world.
I am committed to bringing you the conversations, insight, and tools you need for you to switch on your inner conflict resolution and negotiation muscles and get you to a completely different level where you can resolve conflict powerfully and create the relationships you want in your life. Think about it...what would life be like if you would not be afraid of dealing with conflict and you would deal with it easily and quickly. It would change the game dramatically, wouldn't it?
Thank you for being here and being willing to have these conversations and switch on your inner conflict resolution muscle. The world needs people like you!
It would mean so much to me if you could share an episode with the people in your life. I put so much into these conversations and I would like these conversations to reach as many people as possible! Please tag me on Instagram when you share an episode so I can reshare your story.
It is so great to meet you, now let's get into these conversations…
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Ep 46 - How to Better Engage Fathers in the Family Mediation Process
I have had the pleasure of interviewing Nurit Zubery in this episode of Conversations To Cut The Conflict.
I sat in Nurit's presentation at the Mediation Conference in New Zealand last year and I asked her to come on the podcast as this is not a topic that gets talked about a lot.
Women deal with challenges in the family court system, in mediation and men do as well.
In this episode we explore the research of Nurit who researched the experience dads have in the mediation and family court system.
Listen to this episode to get tips on how as professionals we can improve dad's experiences of the system and mediation, which leads to them engaging more in mediation.
I enjoyed the conversation.
It is always great to reflect on our practice as professionals to see what we can do better and see situations from a different perspective.
You can read the full article that Nurit mentions in the interview here:
https://bit.ly/3TKbhqj
For more information about Nurit and her works, visit her website:
www.beyondconflict.co.nz -
Ep 45 - How to negotiate and avoid family conflict in the lead up and on Christmas day
I have recorded a quick episode for you to give you some tips on how to get through the next couple of weeks without losing your sanity.
I also cover how to negotiate with your family in the lead up and on Christmas Day so you can have a great holiday break without family conflict and fill your cup.
Please share it with anyone who needs a little extra support right now. -
Ep 44 - Parenting Coordination
Listen to my conversation with my fellow mediator and coach Anne-Marie Cade.
We delve into the vital role of coaching in high-conflict separation and her parenting coordination research. Find out what parenting coordination is and what Anne-Marie's recommendations are for the future of parenting coordination in Australia
To find out more about The Mediation Practice Program and join the waitlist, visit www.themediationpracticeprogram.com. -
Ep 43 - Money Matters: Navigating Conflict and Finding Resolution
Money is one of the most common reason that people are in conflict.
I have recorded a short and sweet episode for you on how to best deal with conflict relating to money.
Have a listen and let me me know your thoughts. I hope it helpful -
Ep 42 - The Power of NLP and Hypnosis in Self-Discovery and Resolving Conflict
In this episode, I interview Paul Eliseo, co-founder of Evolve & Relaunch.
Paul trains coaches in becoming masterful at NLP, timeline therapy and hypnosis.
This episode is one of my favourite episodes ever!
We cover so much in 45 minutes it is packed with value for you.
Paul and I discuss various topics, including how to work with triggers and resolve conflict, even when people have different values. Why it is important.
This conversation is a must listen for anyone who wants to understand more about why humans behave the way they do and why others behave the way they do and how to better work with people to help them resolve conflict. -
Ep 41 - The Importance of Coaching for Children
Unlock your child's full potential with the help of a Kids Coach!
Listen to our latest podcast episode in which I chat with Nichole Hamilton, a clinical hypnotherapist and master practitioner in timeline therapy and NLP who specializes in coaching kids.
Discover why coaching is important for children and learn tips and tricks to help your child work through difficult emotions and anxiety and get access to free resources to support your children.
Nichole is offering a 5-day Kidz Coaching Challenge where you can learn the skills, strategies and games for your children; regulate your emotions in a healthy way and connect with your children.
Click the below link to join the free course:
https://www.thekidzcoach.com.au/free-coaching