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We talk about social media and its addictive properties. The Selfie is a way to share yourself with the world but is also important in gathering social currency. How far are you willing to go to live up to societal beauty standards? And how do we disconnect and stop letting algorithms determine our self worth?


Resources
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/a33264141/face-filters-mental-health-effect/
https://www.insider.com/how-social-media-affects-body-image
https://www.cnn.com/2020/02/08/tech/snapchat-dysmorphia-plastic-surgery/index.html
https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/tech-news/it-s-not-worth-it-young-women-how-tiktok-has-n1234193
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhDSkljh-es&t=0s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWc5rQ_YvYw
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/202002/selfies-filters-and-snapchat-dysmorphia-how-photo-editing-harms-body-image
https://damorementalhealth.com/social-media-and-self-esteem/

We explore the space of slippery, slimy tentacle porn. We explore its origins and our experiences with watching it. We talk about how women, queer, trans and nonbinary folks can embrace this creative form to de-center the penis when it comes to penatrative sex. We learn about the sex toys that are available. We also find out about alien egg insemination, also known as oviposition.


Learn more with our sources:
https://www.vice.com/en/article/bnpv85/the-emerging-fetish-of-laying-alien-eggs-inside-yourself
https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/13/you-can-get-sex-toys-that-lay-alien-eggs-inside-you-so-obviously-we-tried-it-6873579/
https://www.reddit.com/r/Oviposition/new/
https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/01/husband-declared-adult-genre-off-limits-sex-advice.html
https://bad-dragon.com/pages/newtobd
https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/tentacle-porn-unashamed-sexual-fantasy
https://www.wellandgood.com/tentacle-dildos/

We go over the latest news topics from the Biden/Harris Inauguration, Covid's effect on women in the workforce, Madison Cawthorn's possible role in the January 6th insurrection to a giant vulva installation in Brazil.


Covid 19 Unemployment affecting Women
https://nowthisnews.com/news/women-accounted-for-all-job-losses-in-december-report-finds


Madison Cawthorn
https://www.citizen-times.com/story/news/2021/01/19/madison-cawthorn-blamed-democrats-capitol-riots-petition-intensify-resign-asheville/4203167001/


https://wlos.com/news/local/letter-signed-by-several-nc-11-democratic-leaders-calls-for-rep-cawthorns-expulsion


https://www.citizen-times.com/story/news/2021/01/15/madison-cawthorn-protesters-converge-hendersonville-office-call-his-removal/4158038001/


Sign the Petition for Madison Cawthorn's Resignation
https://www.change.org/p/madison-cawthorn-must-resign


"Diva" Vulva
https://www.cnn.com/style/article/brazil-vulva-sculpture-scli-intl/index.html

The Wellness Industry has grown to a 4.5 trillion dollar business, with Nutrition and Weightloss products bringing in a lot of profit. Grace and Charlotte talk about their own experiences with dieting and how it contributed to their body image at a young age. Ditching diet culture is a CumQueens New Year's reolution.


Resources
https://globalwellnessinstitute.org/press-room/statistics-and-facts/


https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2020/12/23/2021-new-years-resolutions-poll


https://blog.publicgoods.com/please-ditch-the-new-years-resolution-to-diet-or-lose-weight/


https://edrdpro.com/its-time-to-drop-out-of-diet-culture/


https://parade.com/921896/jessicasager/jameela-jamil-diet-culture/


https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/weight-generational-trauma


https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/recognizing-and-resisting-diet-culture


https://blog.marketresearch.com/u.s.-weight-loss-industry-grows-to-72-billion


Tik Tok and Harmful Diets
https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/very-online/eating-disorder-pro-ana-culture-on-tiktok-and-social-media


Petition to stop TikTok from Advertising Fasting Diets
https://www.change.org/p/tiktok-stop-tiktok-from-advertising-fasting-diets?source_location=petitions_browse


Books mentioned in our show:


"The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love" by Sonya Renee Taylor
"The Beauty Myth" by Naomi Wolf

It's the most wonderful time of the year: CLITMAS!! Charlotte and Grace talk about how to get sexy with games, gifts and positions for the season!


Get the "Big C**t Energy" Mug on Etsy
https://www.etsy.com/listing/921442425/big-c**t-energy-mug?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=big+c**t+energy+mug&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1


Ideas for a Naughty Holiday
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19970047/sexy-christmas-gifts/


https://www.glamour.com/gallery/15-naughty-but-oh-so-nice-holiday-gift-ideas


Mystery Vibe Products
https://mysteryvibe.com/collections/all-products


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We discuss the prominent issues of sexual harassment and assault in the United States Military, specifically the case of Vanessa Guillen and how it has spurred internal action and over hall within the military. #IAMVANESSAGUILLEN


Read about Vanessa's killing in the NYTimes
https://www.nytimes.com/article/vanessa-guillen-fort-hood.html
Read about the Disciplinary Action at Fort Hood in the NYTimes
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/08/us/fort-hood-officers-fired-vanessa-guillen.html
Learn about the #MeToo movement being sparked in the military by Guillen's killing
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/11/us/politics/military-women-metoo-fort-hood.html
Watch the press conference to introduce the #IamVanessaGuillen Act in Congress
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXbpDvI8U38
See more info on the bill here
https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/116/hr8270
See the Full Report of the Fort Hood Independent Review Committee
https://www.army.mil/e2/downloads/rv7/forthoodreview/2020-12-03_FHIRC_report_redacted.pdf
Read More about the case of Chelsea Cheatham who was murdered in 2019 by a Fort Hood Soldier
https://www.thedailybeast.com/fort-hood-soldier-cory-grafton-arrested-in-murder-of-chelsea-cheatham?source=twitter&via=desktop
Read about LULAC encourging Latinas not to enlist in the wake of Guillen's killing
https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/lulac-natl-president-domingo-garcia-says-the-military-is-not-protecting-female-soldiers-vanessa-guillen-disappeared-from-fort-hood-two-months-ago/287-b8a1c16b-36ca-4ab5-a2b9-a5bac0bc97ef
Learn about Congress choosing not to act on the #IamVanessaGuillen Act this year
https://www.univision.com/univision-news/united-states/congress-lets-iamvanessaguillen-military-reform-bill-die
Read about the top 6 Veteran Organization Calling for VA Secretary Wilkie's Resignation
https://www.militarytimes.com/news/pentagon-congress/2020/12/16/big-six-veterans-groups-ask-trump-to-fire-va-secretary-wilkie-immediately/
Learn about calls to close Fort Hood on Democracy Now!
https://www.democracynow.org/2020/12/14/fort_hood_investigation_murders_assault